So I was just laying on my side with the Aneros Helix Syn inserted, reading the Aneros forum on my phone When I took a deep breath and sighed, I felt a bolt of ticklish pleasure in the left side of the perineum that radiated to my left nipple. Was that from the prostate being stimulated? Is it normal that the feeling is stronger on one side?
Tag: Perineum
My First Prostate Orgasm
I want to take everyone back. Think back to the first time you discovered your prostate could give you intense pleasure or a mind blowing orgasm. Think back to the first time it was touched, was it your finger, a toy or a partner? Do you remember the unfamiliar feeling of feeling of having something internal touched? Im going to go back to the first time I experienced prostate play. Honestly for me its kind a benchmark I used as I began my journey.
My first time was with a former girlfriend, she was adventurous to say the least. She found an article written in cosmo or somewhere like that talking about how to give your man a prostate orgasm. She asked my about trying it out. My first response was no, you’r not doing anything with my butt. She gave me a little bribe and I said ok, let’s try this. We planned it out to a degree, mainly to make sure I was fully prepped down there. She bought one of those bulb cleansers they sell at the sex stores and some thick lube. I prepped according to her instructions, I noticed the prep didn’t feel bad, and wasn’t as weird as I figured it would be.
She did an amazing job of making sure I was fully aroused, relaxed and ready when the time came. We started off, making out, she put her breasts in my face and slipped me inside of her just enough to be a tease. I told her I was ready, and I was, at-least as ready as I could be.
The rest of this is going to be in fairly great detail.
Process question- Helix Syn Trident
I’ve had about nine months with my unit, and while I have definitely improved my orgasm both with and without it in, I haven’t had the mind-blowing multiples that some people descibe. I am thinking it is my process.
I make sure to time this when I haven’t eaten for a bit and have had a good solid bowel movement.
I start off by watching some porn or paging through some NSFW reddits. I focus on content that features a man experiencing what I am about to experience, except at the hands of a woman. I will usually stroke myself with coconut oil as lubricant, but try to focus more on touching my nipples and perineum. The stroking is mostly just to maintain an erection and arousal. Should I be attempting to maintain an erection throughout?
After about ten minutes of that, I will start preparing myself for insertion. On goes the coconut oil and in it goes. I insert the device all the way, until the red tab makes contact with my perineum and the white my tailbone. I have tried inserting a shorter distance, but there has not been as much sensation- am I doing this wrong? I will usually lay on the bed, sometimes on my back and other times on my stomach, focusing on moving my pelvic floor. The sensation is nice, but not as intense as when I can hit my spot with my thumb.
Losing control
Update at the bottom.
Long post, thanks again to all who read and respond.
Always knew there was something back there, so I finally joined the club about year ago. Great fun, slowly re-wiring since I can’t play often…family, 3 kids, time is not my friend.
Had to travel for work recently, so I finally had some alone time. Took my toys, had a great few days. No super, maybe dry O’s for first time. And I can now HFWO every other time.
I even realized the progasm is the wrong tool for me. Gave me great pleasure, but its a jackhammer, and I end up wet and then sore every time. So I threw it out, and I might do the same with my MGX since it also doesn’t feel like it moves. If that makes sense.
Haven’t been able to play for a couple weeks. Now, the losing control….it’s like my body doesn’t belong to me this week. Almost like I broke a nerve or something. Is this normal?
I ride bike, a lot. Love everything about it, even the tight cycling clothes if I’m honest. I work hard to be fit and it’s a turn on to wear in public and catch people checking me out. I do get the odd erection, but in 20yrs on a bike I have never had an orgasm in the saddle. I’ve had two on my peloton this week, both wet. Yes I know the seat can put pressure on the sweet spot, but this has NEVER happened to me before. Second time I was soft and it was less than 5 min after I got on the bike. WTF?
Should I cut the tab of my Progasm Ice?
So I’ve been using the Helix Trident for a while, but I always felt it was not big enough, compared to other prostate massagers I have. So I bought the Progasm Ice Red, but I couldn’t enjoy a bit.
All because of the P tab, or however it’s called, the handle that rests on the perineum. It applied a pressure, that was not pleasurable at all, but it was painful instead. It was a sharp pain that was extremely distracting, and well, painful.
It feels so antinatural compared to the Helix, and the fact that is hard plastic instead of silicone makes it so much worse. In fact I think the whole thing would be better if it was silicone instead of plastic.
So I was wondering if I’m doing something wrong, or if there’s a workaround for it, like adding some extra cushion or whatever, or if it’s ok if I just cut it off.
But as it is right now, it’s just impossible to wear for more than 5 minutes.
Fun With My Aneros – Wow!
I bought a new prostate massager and took it for a spin last night. The sensation of fullness was amazing. It’s a little big for me, but the sensations were amazing.I started out doggy, with my ass in the air. My prostate got swollen from arousal and soon I could feel it pegging my gland. My dick started leaking and my nipples got hard and puffy. I’ve notice since I started playing with my prostate, they’re hard and swollen most of the day.
I was watching porn and just paying attention to the sensations in my pelvis and perineum. Suddenly, I felt the ridged band of my foreskin becoming erect. The foreskin undergoes its own arousal and erection. I couldn’t keep my fingers out of the ridge on the top side of my cock (side closest my abs) and ended up stroking this. I find I can have multiple wet orgasms when I ignore the cockhead and focus on the ridged band (if uncut look it up) and frenulum. I started stroking there and the Aneros started tapping my prostate because of my muscle spasms.
How do YOU position the aneros?
I read you’re supposed to position the p-tabs so that it’s exactly center with the perineum. But for some reason, it seems I get the most pleasure by positioning the tabs slightly/moderately to the left.
Progasm P-Tab
Does anyone have trouble getting the progasm ptab on the sweet spot? It could be because I never know where the sweet spot is and if I’m hitting it or not.
Ideas?
First mini-O?
I’ve been using aneros for several months and I think I got my first prostate orgasm last night!
I wasn’t that horny but was weirdly kind of “in the mood” so I went for it.
After a while I got this tingle all through my pelvis and it felt like the aneros was ‘pinching’ my whole prostate between it’s main body and the tab that rests between your balls and hole (I think that’s the p-tab), not painfully at all!
I knew that “wanting it” would ruin it so I decided to try to ignore my prostate area and focus on the tingling that was in my legs. At that point I began to feel like I was floating high on a cloud and felt a little dizzy/high, it lasted maybe 2 minutes at most -wasn’t paying attention to the time- then I came down. My legs shook a little, but only after I came down and the shaking itself was not pleasurable.
It didn’t exactly “take hold of me”, I had to actively continuously open myself to it, but I’ve never felt that before!
The strangest feeling was the ‘pinching’ that I felt. Today light night feels a little foggy like a dream. I know this type of post must come up all the time but I’m excited and wanted to share.
Have other people felt this ‘pinching’ or ‘squeezing’ feeling coming from the toy both internal and external via the taint?
Cock Head Massage
Esteemed old friend Turnrow and another fellow forum member have both asked me to talk about sulcus (cock head cleft) massage as a Super O enhancement and facilitator” as well as the practices I apply in stimulating my sulcus during a session. Specifically Turnrow asked me to respond to his request and elaborate in a blog entry. I have known Turnrow for many years as a reader on my WordPress blog and as an esteemed member of the “brotherhood of the prostate” here. So here you go Turnrow.
If I delve into my sexual practices immediately and provide background later, I am sure you will be afflicted with a certain stiffness that will hinder your ability to read serious content and understand my thought process (LOL). So ……… I will discuss the thinking stuff first. Then once you have background, I will get into the cock hardening stuff.
When I joined the forums many years ago and started on my path to achieve the holy grail of Super O, I followed the sage advice of respected elders of this community. These respected elders were hitting them out of the ball park so speak, so I dutifully did everything they suggested. Tantamount in their advice was the rule that prostate orgasm needed to be separated from penis oriented orgasm. The basis of the advice was that if one focuses on ones stimulated cock, it would be a distraction from sensation in the prostate and anal canal. In addition the advice also was rooted in the potential danger that stimulation of one’s cock would trigger ejaculation and “let the air out of the balloon” of your Super O.