Tag: Prostate

Prostate pain after sessions

I’ve had my helix for a couple of years. All was well for the first year but then I started getting a dull pain in my prostate after using it. Not immediately after but if I sit down for a few hours or take a dump then I get a dull ache that lasts for a day or more.

I now limit the times I use it to once every couple of months and limit the sessions to one hour. Nonetheless I still get the pain. I’m thinking about quitting altogether as I’m worried about long term damage. Anyone else get this? Any possible solutions?

Involuntaries only happy to certain people?

I just spoke with someone at Aneros who said that not all people get the involuntary contractions, which I thought were imperative to achieving a MMO state. Have some of you had a prostate orgasm using the Aneros, but never have had involuntary contractions?

Also, I keep hearing people say you’re supposed to voluntarily contract your sphincter muscles, and others say you’re suppose to contract your PC muscles (to get things going in there). Which is it? Some people refer to the “do nothing” method, which is nice for a little bit, but then things just sort of die down. I’ve been going at this regularly for a year now and am fighting with impatience.

Any advice is greatly appreciated.

First time with any type of anal/prostate play

As a straight guy (29/m), I’ve never had any experience with anal play or direct prostate simulation. I find myself “in-tune” with that area when I’m aroused and frequently apply pressure to my perineum subconsciously when I masturbate. However, I typically feel a “pressure” in my prostate area after I ejaculate. It almost leaves me feeling unsatisfied…Like the job was only halfway done. That’s what got me curious about prostate orgasms.

My new Helix arrived today and I couldn’t wait to use it. I thoroughly lubed up with a water-based lubricant and coconut oil to be safe. Laid on my side with one leg raised and inserted the toy.

I must admit, I really did not enjoy my first experience. Not that I disliked it necessarily, but I felt little sensation other than the feeling that I had to take a shit (I didn’t, that’s just the sensation the toy was giving me). I waited maybe 10 minutes but this feeling really didn’t subside. I really wasn’t aroused at any point and figured I would try it again another time.

I should mention I had cum twice already today and so maybe that had something to do with it…

Any insights or tips greatly appreciated!!

Away on a trip

It’s already been 5 days since my last session and I am departing for a 5-day trip. It could be 10 to 12 days to my next opportunity and my prostate is already screamoing for action! Oh well, I will practice Aless until then. Boy thi stuff is addictive.

“(Almost) HFWO With Peridise”

[Sorry, this blog is a day-late due to Aneros website issues]

Well, it was a new 5 days for semen retention. My wife gave me a great handjob a couple of days ago. One problem: due to my
DE, I was unable to ejaculate. I tried after ‘our’ session for about 5 minutes but, alas, no-go! To top-off everything, I have been horny all week.
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This morning, I was up REALLY EARLY and decided that I was going ‘off’ one way or another and in style! I set myself up to dose on an orgy of binaural beats: prostate health, erectile dysfunction, ejaculation (two), male orgasm, erotic lounge music; you name it, I did it! I had my tissues nearby since I really thought I would need them. But, alas, still no-go!

After about 4 hours with no ejaculation, I am feeling a little sleepy so I retired to my (private) bedroom and decided to finish-myself-off with a Peridise (Large) session. I used Slippery Stuff Gel since I used it recently and liked it. I inserted it most of the way, rolled-over on my side and relaxed…… Read more »

Semi-noob questions.

I tried the aneros about a decade ago in my 20s & things didn’t go great, but now that I’m in my 30s, I decided to give anal stimulation another try.

Long story short, I got another & had a successful prostate orgasm [I believe]. I felt a wave wash over my entire body followed by what felt like a 2 minute orgasm followed by ejaculation.

The ejaculation was different than normal. It looked like it was mostly precum [clear mostly]. Was it? Are multiple orgasms possible?

I’m very glad to have given it another shot. Any insights that might makes things more enjoyable?

“Ride-Em Cowboy”

Following my AM session with Peridise and Helix, I still did not feel satisfied. Well, the stars aligned this morning. My wife was out of the house, I just cleaned-out my bowels as much as possible and felt ready for another session. I felt the need for something large and decided (WTF) to try Progasm Jr. I didn’t have too much success in some recent rides with it, and realize that it has been a full 3 MONTHS since I last rode it.

I felt ready and decided on Slippery Stuff Gel as the lube. I laid over, lubed-up the Progasm Jr and started the perilous journey in. Much to my surprise, it went in extremely easily and I felt it pull-in almost like it was being guided in by an unknown force. It went all the way in and stayed in! Saying that it felt good is a gross understatement! My prostate never felt any better! Read more »

“A 20-Minute Anal F**k”

Sorry again for the vernacular, but that is exactly how this felt. I think it is well over a month since my last Aneros session and I felt like I was long overdue. I was not very aroused in the early AM but I felt the need for a Peridise adventure. So I grabbed the smaller version and began the session. It lasted about 40 minutes. I am always amazed at the level of anal stimulation which can be achieved with this small device. I could sense it moving slowly in and out as it should do. After the 40-minutes were up, I felt better but still needed something more. So I decided between PS-NEW and Helix Classic and the Helix won!

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I continued with Boy Butter since I was already lubed-up. The Helix went in so easily and—-OMG!—went to work immediately on my prostate. I had the feeling of a Dry-O (or two or three) IMMEDIATELY and I felt the need to muffle my moans (and quiet screams) almost from the start. I have the unmistakable feeling of a prostate ‘warmth’ and tension that comes with an orgasm. But my penis remained flaccid. It was literally non-stop for 20 minutes. It felt like an anal fuck. I felt the need to do some STRONG contractions. When I did these, and released, I had the auto-fuck contractions take over. OMG! The Helix is fucking me non-stop and is blowing my mind! (No exaggeration: I am feeling like I am being fucked out of my mind!) Sorry again for the expletives, but that is how I felt. Read more »

“Semen Retention: An Update”

I thought I would update my progress. Two things of note:

First, there is something to the ‘extra attention from women’ thing. I don’t know what is going on, whether it is my attitude towards women or something else. But I have noticed recently that I am able to “connect” with women more easily. I have not had any sexual advances (nor do I expect to) but things are definitely not as they were before starting the semen retention regimen. I suppose I need more time to make an assessment.

Second, and I think this is significant, is that I am getting hornier and more aroused even with sporadic ejaculations while practicing semen retention. It seems that my (sexual) body is again being ‘programmed’ much as it was when I embarked on the Aneros journey. This may seem trite, but I am noticing women’s bodies more than before; all women! I am feeling a horniness especially in my prostate. Realize, however, that I have not had regular Aneros ‘sessions’ in a while so this may be a part of it. Sometimes my prostate horniness seems to be screaming for a session! Perhaps this is the sexual ‘aura’ which is discussed with reference to semen retention. We’ll see!

PS This semen retention is a ‘tap-dance’. On one hand, being horny usually leads to an arousal and ejaculation. But that is contrary to what I am trying to accomplish. Hence, I am dancing-around the ejaculation! Oh, it’s not easy being a guy! Read more »

“Would I Recognize A Prostate Orgasm If I Tripped Over It?”

I kind-of backed-into this session quite by accident. Here are the details as I remember them……

I was up not too early and since it was a beautiful night (very cool for July) I decided to catch a few winks on my favorite couch. [I just had a BM so I decided to lay-down, just relax and perhaps do a few contractions.] I began to do the slightest ‘whisper’ contractions and ‘thought’ contractions as I have done in the past. This felt really good; I kept it up for a while, realizing that I am again heading to an Aless ‘nirvana-like’ state once again. After a while, however, I began to feel a strange sensation like a prostate-horniness and an overpowering ‘fantasy-sequence’ that I am preparing myself for penetration by my male lover. I don’t know where this came from but it felt so real. So I ‘positioned’ myself on the couch for the rendezvous and waited. As I re-positioned myself on my right side, I suddenly felt an overpowering prostate quivering like I remember all-too-well from my Aneros sessions. It was a prostate orgasm! Perhaps a Dry-O (or two!) OMG! My entire body spasmed as it sometimes did during a Super-O! I can’t stop these orgasms now and I am completely blown away! I can only stay in position (I felt paralyzed with pleasure) and let these feelings wash-over me. How long did this last? Not really sure, but I think it was at least an hour. Read more »