Frustrated – tell me I just need to be patient

Hey, all!

I’ve been experimenting on and off with Aneros for a number of years, but have really been trying to consistently practice a couple of times per week for the past several months. I’m trying to assimilate everything that I read here and on the prostate play sub. I have an MGX classic, a Progasm Ice and recently got an NJoy wand which I was hoping was going to be a game-changer, but not so much. I use coconut oil as lube, and try to set aside 1-2 hours for sessions. After inserting, sometimes I will scroll through Reddit (often this sub), look at porn (less often past few months), listen to some binaural beats or just relax.

I try to start out with the do-nothing method, but after 30-60 minutes will start with some contractions, usually light, alternating PC with sphincter. I’ve done the free Mindgasm lessons, but don’t find them to be particularly enlightening.

I’m pretty sure that I get involuntaries, but most often occur Aless, in the shower and while driving – they feel like kind of a squirmy sensation just past the inner sphincter? They’re interesting, but not necessarily pleasurable. They feel kind of slow and rhythmic – maybe intervals of 15-20 seconds- nothing that would seem to stroke very quickly. Maybe I will occasionally get what I think is a subtle P-wave, particularly with a device inserted, but not often associated with an involuntary. More like, did I imagine myself into feeling that? In general, I seem to have a hard time getting involuntaries – if that’s what those squirmy things are – with a device inserted.

Where Do I Go from Here?

I posted a few months ago about my first super-O ([here](https://www.reddit.com/r/ProstatePlay/comments/noes6w/supero_induced_by_nipples_and_assisted_by/)) and I had some questions about my progress since.

As I noted in that post, under the influence of a marijuana edible and with an Aneros and manual nipple stimulation, I managed to have a continuous rolling orgasm that took the form of pleasurable muscle contractions starting in my feet and moving up my legs all the way to my head and back down again. At no point did I ejaculate, but I masturbated the conventional way during that orgasm and it felt incredible. Since then, there have been developments I wanted to run by the community here:

* I have been able to get to this state of muscle contractions running through my body with an Aneros and nipple stimulation without the use of edibles, but it’s not anywhere near as pleasurable when I’m sober. Is that normal? I imagine that it is, but that it could change with time and become more pleasurable.
* My first super-O moved up my body starting with my feet, and the feeling that began there is unmistakable. Now I occasionally get that feeling in my feet when I’m at work or sitting on my couch, and it’s accompanied by the urge to give myself another super-O. Is this rewiring, and what does it portend?
* I still have yet to activate my prostate so that it becomes a pleasure zone when I bottom, ride my dildo, or use my Aneros. Initially, my nipples were the same way, but then they came to life in a permanent way when I did acid back in June 2020. I plan to do the same sometime soon but focus on my prostate instead. Has anyone had any luck doing that themselves?
* I’ve recently been reading about the vagus nerve and its role in orgasm, particularly clitoral and prostate orgasm. What do people here think/know about how it relates to prostate play specifically? There are techniques for stimulating it such as holding your breath for a while, which may be why autoerotic asphyxiation is as popular as it is, but are there others, specifically ones that involve massaging some part of the body or relate directly to the prostate?

Full body orgasms

I know that i’m not supposed to mention traditional penile orgasms so mods feel free to take down this post if it breaks the rules.

From making progress with my aneros, I personally can now dry orgasm on demand and I can also have localized prostate orgasms from penile stimulation.

But have any of you guys been able to have a full body dry orgasm from penile stimulation?

I don’t really know how is it working

After a super-O did i am suppose to cum ? Or just in general, after a prostate orgasm did i am suppose to cum too ? I want to know how is it working, what is the best way to reach an orgasm or a super-O and how i know i just did it ? Thank you !

Had a wonderful session last night while listening to HFO audio.

Last night was amazing for me because i had multiple dry orgasm by listening to three HFO audio. I was totally in trance deep in the session listening to sexy voices and a lot of precum dripping from my penis. I can feel it leaking down my shaft and my penis was throbbing hard stimulated by my aneros progasm jr. To be honest, i was hoping that i can get wet HFO but having multiple dry orgasms really makes me craving for more. I have decided that next ejaculation for me is only from HFO, so i gonna abstaining myself from having traditional orgasm. Listening to HFO audio during sessions really makes a difference. My prostate easily stimulated and throbbing with pleasurable feeling from the inside by visualizing the audio. Cannot wait for my next session. Hopefully i can get my first wet orgasm this time. 🥰

Near Continuous ALess Pleasure

I’ve been working on my re-wiring (and enjoying every step of the process) by repeating a simple meditation 5 or 10 times a day. I draw attention to each segment of the male pleasure canal that runs from the rosebud to the cockhead. I pause and focus on the rosebud, inner sphincter, chute (rectum), PC muscle, inner jockstrap (the “top” pelvic floor muscle in MindGasm-speak), the prostate, penis bulb (root, deep in the groin) and cockhead. Each pause sets up tingling and tickling sensations. Involuntaries often spin up spontaneously, and if so I sometimes give them a boost with a manual contraction. If convenient, I press a finger on the rosebud and cradle the perineum in my palm – that always gets involuntaries going strongly. Then I just ’em do their thing and go about my other activities.

I’m finding this routine produces subtle (and sometimes not-so-subtle) residual sensations of pleasure up and down the canal. At things point, I’m feeling some degree of pleasure during most of my waking hours. Sometimes I wake up with involuntaries going in synch with PC contractions linked to morning wood. Sometimes I wake with zero sensation in the anal region, but bringing attention to it activates the pleasure circuits.

Is the prograsm too big to start?

I’m looking to buy aneros but the cheapest one is a progasm right now, and I knows it not a big difference in price but I’m a bargain hunter.

So is the progasm to big to start with Aneros products? I’m no stranger to prostate play. But does it ruin the progression arc if you start there instead of the helix?

Aless super O? Soul sucking feeling?

Had an Aless session yesterday after smoking some weed and the things I felt were like none other.

1. It started off with pulsing in the prostate area and groin. I would start sucking in my tummy and abs and getting huge wave of pleasure that would stay there. But as soon as I realised my abs the pleasure stayed there and did not go. This kept coming and building up higher and higher.

2. I was holding my biceps of each arm with the opposite and it felt like I was travelling thru space…. my arms and hands felt like they were squeezing so tight (but they were barely squeezin) and it felt like the squeeze just kept going and was travelling thru space.

3. Everytime I would feel a feeling of intense pleasure it was like I was running out of breathe but I would hold as long as possible and then gasped for air. But it felt like the feeling never left after each one and just built more. 

4. After awhile my head started to have electric pulses thru it…. it was insane and then my mouth opened up (this bit was scary and I stopped) at a super slow pace… felt like it took 15 minutes to open and then it felt like the energy was rushing out of my body thru my mouth… almost as if it was being sucked out thru space (like in harry potter when the domentors suck out Harry’s soul)… this feeling was incredible but I must say I got scared and stopped it.

What was that?

Ok, so I’m slowly on my journey of awakening, with good progress in each session. During the last session, pleasure built up to a new high. I got to a place where I had the very real sensation that my legs and hips were swaying side-to-side as if I was lying sideways on the shore of a wave pool, each crashing wave, and each withdrawing wave moving my entire lower body by many feet in either direction.
I haven’t read this described in other posts, but I’m curious if anyone else has experienced the same.
I don’t think I have experienced any p-waves yet,(unless that was it,) but I was amazed that it continued for several minutes since I seem to lose any increasing pleasure anytime I get a new sensation. This time, however, my realization of this new sensation didn’t stop upon my realizing it was there, even though it did break my concentration when I realized it was happening.
Eventually, I did lose forward progress, but it blew my mind that this sensation occurred, and this has really opened my mind that prostate pleasure is on a whole other level of experience than I had imagined would be possible.
Can’t wait for a chance to have another session!

Am I the only one that feels progasm not intense?

Well I just curious about helix.So just in a sentence: Do you guys feels continueously pee urge during massage with helix?——————————————————————————————————————

Well I see other guy said it’s just a big butt plug and he don’t feel much.

I have same feeling too. It’s should work in some way but it feels not amazing for me….

I’d rather massage in manually way. (It surely make progress faster!!!)

Progasm hit my spot when I pull it 1-2cm….And helix is just shorter than it. (But I dont have a helix!!! Very not sure is it suit or not)

I just don’t know what helix feels like.

I even start to wonder is it worth!???

Is there other people surely know their prostate’s feel?Can you describe it accurate?

Like when you use those massager do you have some feeling other than non-massage time?

Do you have pee feeling? Or the urge want to pee when massage?

When you have that feeling , Is every toys same or not?

For me when inserted the progasm Sometimes I feels pleasure immediately.

But half or a minute passed it become nothing.I can use it very gently to achieve same effect as finger massage(The very gentle one that give you pleasure, it last maybe not more than 2 minute and later it won’t even come back.)

When I use it with more pressure I feels nothing but a harder pressure in rectum but it’s not where prostate is.