Tag: Relaxation

Updating

Just to bring you up to date. I’m not ready yet to declare what I make of all this or what my theories are of how to provoke what I’ve experienced, so I’m just going to lay out what’s been happening.

I did order the Helix, and found a good price ($45) on Amazon.com. The problem is that it took a week for the seller to ship it, and after almost another week, it’s still not here. If you have patience and price is a big factor, a reseller may be a good choice, but if your need is urgent, maybe you should order directly from the manufacturer.

I lost a few days after my last post because of some personal difficulties that took away any incentive for pursuing pleasure for a while. But after a few days, things returned to normal and I resumed my interest in the Aneros.

My next couple of tries with the device were kind of disappointing. I could get the involuntaries and some P-waves, but they easily faded. It was fun trying, but I didn’t pick up where I left off. Read more »

intimate moment

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chuckjo2000

Joined: 18 Oct 2009
Posts: 6
Location: indiana
Posted: Fri Oct 30, 2009 8:37 am Post subject: sharing a very intimate moment……..

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i would like to thank those who have welcomed me to the forum…i was asked whether i had removed the handle to my aneros…yes, somewhat….im using the 'maximus' model, which is one of 3 that i have….knowing that each model offers a different type of 'thumper' (that's what i like to call it), i've also found that each can also offer it's own individual pressure point/points on my prostate…i was introduced to the 'maximus' through a good friend here, 'toobadsochad'…upon receiving the maximus, i could tell 'immediately' that i was now getting the stimulation of the prostate that was somewhat missing before in my helix, as well as my sgx…i do not use the aneros sitting, so therefore, im not bothered by the handle. the only reason i parciallly removed the handle was so as to no interfer with hitting the mattress when im laying on my back….otherwise, the handle causes no problems…..
im going to share, with you, a very intimate moment in my life….this just happened this past sunday afternoon….totally unexpected….i know this will be a somewhat long post, but i feel i need to communicate this experience with all who are or may be heading to the same boat, that of diminished sexual ability for vaginal intercourse…..
im a 54 year old man, in good general, overall health….ive been married to the same woman for 30 years, and we have 3 grown children and one grandson…life with my wife has been very good in the last few weeks, but it has not always been so….nothing seriously bad, but there have been the 'moments' , that perhaps all marriages go through….there are quite a few roadblocks and potholes that can try to kick you off the road, and sex is one of those, which, if not attended to, can really create lots of tensions, hard feelings, and a general feeling of worthlessness…..i would like to share my story, now….of how the aneros has opened up new sexual intimacy and love in my marriage….when sex was 'new' in our marriage, and we were much younger,, it didnt matter really how we got off….we tried all the positions, did each other at a whim, had sex carefree with no concerns.. Read more »

Less is More

Session 2 – Thurs 29 Oct

Began with the primary aim of exploring movement of the Helix and Progasm – any other experiences that came bye would be a bonus.

Firstly with Helix and laying on tummy. Trying to push it out and then draw it back in – used a little manual assistance to get the feel of it moving out and, in particular, firstly how far it had moved
and secondly how far it could be pushed out and still be pulled in again (ie where was the point of no return). I found this point when the Helix was rather explosively expelled!!

After this exercise and some practice at moving the device aroud and experiencing a range of prostate stimulation I rested for awhile and started contracting my buttock muscles. This began some involuntary contractions – a new experience and it stopped after a short time, but was enough to wet my appetite to try again a little later. Well WOW, it progressed from involuntary buttock activity to include involuntary thrusting like motions and as the involuntary muscular activity came to a fairly abrupt end there was pulsing of the perineum region like that of an ejaculation, but I did NOT ejaculate. I guess this was my first dry-O – a very pleasant and unexpected at this eary stage of using the aneros. New experience 1 for the session!! Read more »

The Driving Force

Last night I had an experience, which was new, although I’m sure I have been close to this on a few occasions before.

For most of the past month I have been experimenting with the use of the Eupho and the Maximus, so last night’s session was the first with the Helix since the end of last month. By way of preparation, I inserted a small plug of unrefined Shea Butter into my anus and followed that with an eye-dropper filled with ‘Wet Stuff’. I also covered the Helix with a thin coating of Shea butter.

Soon after beginning my session, and having rested for about a quarter of an hour after insertion, I became aware that the Helix was driving muscles deep inside my rectum, that were pulling quite forcibly on the device and literally pushing it into my prostate. There was almost no effort on my part, but within seconds, I could feel what I am now sure was a prostate orgasm that continued without variation for about two minutes. A conscious effort was required to come down from that state, but as soon as I relaxed, the process began again. This happened repeatedly over the next half hour.

I had been lying on my right side, so decided to take a break by rolling over onto my left side. Within about three or four minutes, the whole process began again. If anything, the orgasms seemed even stronger than before. Following about half an hour on my left side, I moved again, this time onto my back. Lo and behold, within a few minutes, it started up again, although this time the orgasms didn’t feel quite as strong. Read more »

Just ordered my first Aneros – why I decided to give it a try

I discovered the Aneros website just last week, so this weekend I haven't spent much time on anything besides obsessively reading up on the subject and having breaks for food, sleep and bathroom. Haven't left the house since Friday and it is now Monday noon. But let's start from the beginning of my end.

In 1998, when I was 23, after having tried some lubed backdoor fingering, I got my first anal toy. This was a rod of thai jelly beads with double ends, one larger and one smaller with five beads each size.

I have got myself ten or so different toys over the past decade. In retrospect, these probably were more for the female body even though marketed as they would fit both. Their effects often disappointed me, but with a few exceptions, so at least they made me curious to try other toys once in a while.

The rod of beads for example gave good pleasure while slow-thrusting and if left inside, they could make my ejaculation stronger. Sometimes I also could take my hand(s) off my penis right before the finish line and the beads inside would take me across, with less friction and more pure pleasure as a result. This is still my favourite toy, probably because it bends, which many other toys don't. Read more »

Where I'm coming from

10/24/2009 3:20:35 PM

Ten years ago I bought an Aneros. At the time, I believe they had only one model, what’s now called the “Classic.” I read the directions and experimented with it over a period of weeks, but I had no success. It was trouble to fool with, since you had preparation and clean-up time involved, and that had always steered me away from any kind of anal play, so I eventually left it in the nightstand drawer. Every couple of years I’d pull it out and try it again, but I never made any progross toward the special sexual thrills it was supposed to convey.

In the past year, however, I’ve begun to enjoy anal play more and more. I’ve gotten over some of my aversion to it on hygienic grounds, and I’ve begun to add light touching or insertion of fingers to my masturbation routine fairly often. Then something I read somewhere made me think that prostate massage just might be beneficial for my erratic PSA scores. No looming health crisis, thankfully, but a urologist who worries about me (bless his heart). And I remembered the massage therapist who once told me I carried a lot of tension around my anus. So I thought again of the long-disused Aneros, and I fished it out and went to the web to read about it again, since I’d long ago lost the directions. Read more »

big one!!

well i usually try and have 2 sessions a week just to appease my body cravings, but since i have a family its dfficult at times. so i had gone over my 4 day wait and on the 7th day which was the following monday i was really in the mood. i didnt have to pick up my sisters kids so i even had time for a nap. so what i decided to do was to take my nap with my aneros just to get things really going. once iwas in bed iwas able to relax and have some really nice involuntary contraction, not hard ones but very subtle . i was able to sleep for about 30 min before i had real strong contraction that woke me up. i got on my back and started my breathing and before i knew it i was moaning and groaning. it was by far my best session i have had since i got my progasm. i went to the tub, because i like to prop my legs up, and then i had the best O i ever had. its only been 3 days but i am trying to refrain as long as possible so i can get that craving once again. talk about torture, man i might have to tie myself up to hold out another 4 days!!

Three Nights Running

Over the past three nights I have had three sessions with various Aneros models as follows:

On Sunday night I used my recent favourite model, the Helix. With this, I had what I would class as my best session to date. Almost as soon as it was inserted, light PC contractions drove me immediately into the most delicious response of continuous waves of pleasure, from which I had some difficulty coming down! The significant difference from all previous sessions was the fact that the process continued without a break for well over an hour. In fact I was beginning to wonder if my heart would be able to withstand the strain if I continued any longer.

On Monday, I was keen to build on last night’s progress and decided to take another punt on my Eupho which had given me so much pleasure the last time I had used it. Preparation was exactly the same as last night and my expectations were well rewarded. As soon as I got into bed, slight contractions kicked off strong response waves, which continued without interruption for almost an hour and a half. As before, movement of the Eupho seemed more than the Helix, so I would rate the night’s session marginally even better than the previous night. Read more »

Another step

So it seems that I've moved on from what I was doing with rubbing my penis lightly during my Aneros sessions to achieve dry-O's. It was a useful experience. But now I find that it is too much of a distraction from the prostate sensations. And in my more current sessions seemed to become too much like edging.

So my last session I did not do any penis stimulation, and just concentrated on the prostate and energy sensations while deep breathing and relaxing as much as possible. I would hold that slight voluntary PC contraction that hits the sweet spot of pleasure on the prostate, and concentrate on growing that sensation through putting my attention on it, and also thinking really exciting fantasies.

I had enough moderate success with it to think it is a good path to follow for a while. No orgasms. But really nice pleasure that I liked. And there was very little distraction from sensations in my penis as it hardly even got erect at all. Which thankfully did not give me any desire to stimulate it. I felt my prostate swell with arousal quite a bit. And it was a much more calm session. Less movement, more concentration on relaxing. Very meditative like. Even though I still had smaller involuntary anal contractions occurring. I can now understand what other users have mentioned about interfering with the process by contracting to hard. As I noticed that as I held that slight PC contraction, as the pleasure increased, it was far to easy to unknowingly contract harder, which seemed to have the effect of making the pleasure disappear. That was difficult to be aware of and not do. It will take some practice. Read more »

Best session so far!

Wow!

This was my best session I have had so far. This was my 6th session, and I was kind of detached from my Helix after my previous session. This was due to the fact that I was really scared of my heart rate going very rapidly, some new intense sensations, and the fact that my mother and her friend are sleeping next to my room.

So this session I had it really planned out. First I asked some Aneros members about their experience and how they dealt with those factors I gave. I realized that I would have to embrace the new sensations and should continue my journey, because, well, it was great so far!

So today was my big day and I woke up at 10:30 am and started making my preparations for the session. I was kind of cold, so I thought it would be a good idea to put on my sun bed and get warmed up. After this I did some bowel and also got a nice hot shower. I experienced that the P-tab was sort of making an annoying pressure on the perineum area the last sessions, so I decided to take some toilet paper and put it under the P-tab. My next preparations were taking some olive oil and to power up my laptop. This may sound strange, but I always make sure my door is locked whenever I have a session, even though I’m the only one in the house. But I don’t have a key, so I must improvise, I stack some books and on top a baseball bat to hold the door handle from going down. These factors make it possible for me to be as relaxed as possible, so now I was ready to get this thing going! Read more »