Tag: Relaxation

Receiving My Aneros and My First Two Sessions

Thought I should write a few logs on my sessions.

Well for starters, I'm sorta pretty good at knowing when my packages are coming into the mail. So last Saturday, I was pretty sure I would be getting something from "HLH." So for most of the morning and bits of the afternoon, I was extremely anxious. I really wanted to keep this private(That's actually why I enjoy this forum, I can still discuss my experiences and still be anonymous).

Once the mail carrier began doing his rounds, I knew I had to intercept this package. I felt like ages for the guy to get to my home. Once he stopped in front of my home, I when out like I was looking for my mail.

He says to me, "I bet you were expecting this!"

I completely froze and I thought, "Does this guy know what I'm going to do with the stuff in this box?"

He assumes that my silence means that I wasn't, even though I had been impatiently waiting for my Aneros.

After he walks away, I quickly rush my package into my bedroom and open it all up.
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A few hours later, I finally find some time to try out my new Aneros. I've never done any sort of anal play, so I was extremely nervous. Read more »

Eros and the Tale of the Phantom Tail

A couple of months ago, having really explored the many orgasmic possibilities of the pelvic basin in the joyous soft penis sex adventures to date, I felt something else "present" down there. Doing the varied massages, consciousness in and following the orgasmic and related sensations through all these organs, something like a ghost of a feeling , as yet undefined, kept appearing and disappearing.

The area on my lower back around the sacrum, and below around the coccyx bones, and the musculature/connective-tissues on either side of the groin/hips/lower abdomen are all involved when this happens. Then I saw an early pre-release trailer of Avatar, and it hit me. And I recalled both reading about and seeing documentaries about phantom limb consciousness; the muscle control or twitching and the pain amputee patients can experience, and its reverse, the powerful feelings some people experience that a particular limb, often a leg, does not belong on their body.

Was it possible that what I was sensing during wonderful orgasmic/energetic explorations and powerful orgasmic experiences in my pelvic basin, was the phantom of my long lost tail???!!! So, I began testing and mentally conjured up the sense of the tail being there and the moves with all the tissues down there as if I was moving it. The strongest and most long lasting sensations came from imaging pulling my tail inward and upward toward the front, between my legs. Read more »

Did something just happen…?

It’s been a week now since my MGX arrived, and it has been….well, interesting!
I still have a bit of a hang up about the whole playing with the hole bit, and as much as I am starting to get excited about using the massager, that little prude that lives inside me keeps finding things for me to do to put it off.
I’m starting to get some sort of ritual going, getting things ready in the bedroom – towel, massager, lube, lighting subdued. I also now make sure the lube is warmed very slightly. Things can get a bit chilly in the flat, even with the heating on, and I found early on that cold lube can be a bit of a shock eekkkkk!!!!!! The shower is also important, not just to warm up the body and clean your bits, but it’s my way of telling my inner prude to go and cover his eyes!
I have accepted now that all those wonderful things that these devices can do are a little way off yet, but reading about them still adds a bit to my natural impatience. I saw a video last night a guy posted showing himself having what everyone agreed as a super’o’, or pretty near. On first sight it was a little disturbing, my orgasms never looked like that. Then I wondered – and here is a question for those who read this – was the first big orgasm scary or worrying? I’ve read about quaking of the body, losing control of muscles in what appeared in the vid as almost an epileptic fit, losing track of time, and almost altered conscience. But everyone apparently seems to enjoy them so… just remind me not to film myself when I finally have one!!! Read more »

Ten sessions, two dry-O, variation and kitchen appliances

I now have had myself ten sessions with an Aneros over a period of 52 days. At least I think it is 10… There has been mostly Helix but also mixed in some Beginner Peridise; once with the larger and twice with the smaller. Each session has lasted 3 to 5 hours and they seem to play out differently each time. Many have been nice but calm. Some sessions I have fallen asleep with the toy (and always wake up cold), many times I have a bathroom break.

The eight session was a week ago during the night starting at one o'clock and not ending before six (sex, we say) in the morning. I prepared myself watching some good porn for quite a while seated in the armchair and then lubed for a moment with my faithful rod of beads. Having tried watching porn during one earlier session, I found out in the forum that I could try a slideshow of more or less naked women instead, giving more room for my aroused mind. I also added some relaxing 1-hour CD music, which I restarted three times during the night.

This was the first session after my Peridise debut, and the improvement was very noticeable. My involuntaries with the Helix had been rare before Peridise, but now they came way easier and also returned over and over during the entire session. After laying on my back for an hour enjoying these, I restarted the CD and turned on my left side instead, with my legs in a more restful position. Read more »

My current 'Journey' session

rook: 6 ft. / 180lb / 45gm prostate / MBTI=ESTJ / 7 mo. into journey

First off guys and gals — there's no Super-O at the end of this tunnel but some pretty intense scenes along the path. I've attempted eight of these sessions during the last two months Five have yielded multiple waves and those have ended in one or two mini-Os. So, I'd call it repeatable for me.

This session avoids direct voluntary anal contractions. I build arousal with my hands and trigger from my foot. I've borrowed from popo's foot stim technique: – http://www.aneros.com/forum/on-stomach-bottom-up-t4489.html –

It took five months for the experts J4, artform, Arctic Wolves, Love-is, rummel, and others to get the idea across that 'trying' isn't the way to get there.

Coaching new Super-O candidates must be like shepherding a bunch of neophyte flight students — when the instructors get together they drink and ponder why all newbies make and then repeat the same mistakes. Upfront, coaches and instructors can tell a newbie that they must avoid 'forcing it.' The newbie then says, "I understand" then marches off smartly and 'forces it.'

The Forum recently addressed the idea that there were other trigger points on our bodies that may be 'cultivated' to improve our sensual experience.

The same week the Forum was considering alternate stim locations I attended a business client's seasonal marketing kick-off. The motivational speaker opened her pitch with some 'touch point' examples — specifically the sensuality of fingertips. We were told to 'touch' our inner self via our fingertips. — got me thinking. Read more »

Intro

Hi, I'm rook (unpromoted shogi-hisha).
Height: 6 ft.
Weight 180lb
Prostate: 45gm
Current Wiring: Monogamous-reproductive
Age: 70s
MBTI: ESTJ (goes with the name)
First insertion: Feb 2009 (for foreplay)
Started Journey: May 2009
Prior Anal Play: nil (now making up for lost time)
Toybox: Helix, MGX, Eupho, SGX, modified Progasm, tailless SGX
Favorite Lube: Pastuerized 70/30 mix of Shea Butter and Coconut Oil (tks alv).
Other Interests: Aviation, Restraints

I use Aneros tools three ways:
— Journey (orgasmic) sessions. Strictly with the Eupho. I employ meditation or physical relaxation techniques or audio.
— 'Ano-rectal' (fun and fitness) sessions: These, using Helix or MGX sometimes finish with an SGX or Progasm. My intent is to build and maintain perineum, prostate and the anal muscle and tissue, Also great to explore new moves, sensations and better arousal techniques. These make up for my having missed 65 years of anal play. Think of these as practice in the "Three R's" (raunchy, raucous and reprehensible). 🙂
— I pack an SGX during foreplay (cool tool to maintain arousal.) Also use one to maintain an good sense of DanTien during TaiChi. Recently I tried some easy trampoline with the SGX — no conclusions.

I also do Aneros-less sessions.

J4, Love-is, helixbill, Arctic Wolves, artform and darwin all contributed valuable info, tips, suggestions and an occasional kick in the posterior to move me to where I am. Thanks guys. And a special thanks to Zaneblue for her diet and supplement suggestions. …rook

Becoming a seasoned vet

Well I have to say that my body has made this transformation and I have become very familiar with the process of reaching a prostate orgasm. I find the process pretty much effortless and very satisfying to say the least. My journey has passed through so many levels and I do continue to reach different levels on a weekly basis. I have tried everything from manually moving my Aneros tool to adding e-stim at one point. Each attempt added new sensations and brought me down different paths. In the end I have found using just my Aneros toystools to be the most satisfying experience to date. I have found lately that is I rotate my Aneros models during use I reach the most exquisite levels of satisfaction. I usually start with my Eupho and after driving me to unimaginable levels of ecstasy I then insert my Helix and again off I go on a completely different ride and to new heights. I am truly amazed at what these tools do to the male human body. Not only do I feel a great inner peace but also a total physical well being. I never look at porn or anything else to reach these levels. My body now is excited enough just looking forward to my sessions. Usually within 10 minutes prostate contractions begin with just relaxing and letting it happen. Recently I had a partial ejaculation during a session and I didn't even know it happened until I looked. The feeling was intense. I always follow up my session either being with my wife or taking care of myself. To me it gives me total releasesatisfaction. I have not been here much lately basically because I have needed less and less support here. I just want all here to know whatever your reason for being here……….enjoy this journey that we call life!!

A change

So I've been in somewhat of an Aneros lull lately, likely due to events going on in my life right now that are stressful. So I've hardly had any Aneros sessions all month long. And likewise have not masturbated very much at all either. So today I felt aroused enough to try an Aneros session after looking at some porn on the computer. My Progasm strangely hasn't been doing much of anything for me lately. So I experimented by starting with my Helix in hopes that a different model would produce some pleasurable sensations. And boy was I right!

Something has changed during this lull that I don't think I noticed until today. I basically haven't been having any tingling in my perineum or butt buzz like I've normally been having both within and without a session for many, many months now. But today I noticed when I started looking at the porn and getting aroused. I felt this new energetic sensation in my prostate that was different than what I've felt before. And when I started my Aneros session with the Helix, I found by just relaxing and doing absolutely nothing, this pleasurable energetic sensation would grow and gently radiate through me. It was a very nice feeling and had none of that sense of urgency to make it "over the top" in terms of orgasm/pleasure. I just relaxed, enjoyed it, and eventually dozed off, and felt very rested when I woke up. I found myself surprised that there really was something to the relax and do nothing approach! LOL Read more »

Latest developments

A brief report on several weeks of exploration.

I’ve learned that many factors affect my access to pleasure. Lack of sleep, diet, relationships, problems at work can all be obstacles. I find that they aren’t insurmountable, but they make the process more exacting.

My Helios finally arrived, and its arrival coincided with a period of difficulties in the various areas I’ve enumerated. For a couple of weeks I experimented with it, but the results were not much more than gently pleasurable. I even went back briefly to the Classic to see if maybe the problem wasn’t that the Helios didn’t suit me as well as it does most men. But apparently it was the confluence of factors, not the Helix itself, since the Classic didn’t do for me what it had done before, either.

Then one afternoon things changed. For whatever reason, when I first inserted the Helios, I immediately achieved that stillness that seemed to be for me the precondition of a good experience. In short order I began to have waves of pleasure and minor convulsions, and I enjoyed myself tremendously. The waves repeated for over an hour, with varying degrees of shuddering. I lay first on one side and then on the other.

Then I moved to a prone position, with a pillow under the small of my back. After several minutes I felt this seemed to reduce the waves of pleasure, so I started to explore other sensations. Read more »

Finally – my first session

So, here I was, my body had something boiling, buzzing, pounding, swelling, arousing trapped on the inside. Relaxing helped a little but it still was intense and returned by itself. I even got myself an awake hands-free ejaculation for the first time in my life. This happened as I laid on my back and was using only my breathing. It felt good of course, being a new experience, like having a sex dream while still being awake.

My Aneros Helix arrived quickly on the Wednesday after my order was placed, but I didn't rush to pick it up. By this time I hadn't slept more than one nights worth for five days, so I asked a doctor about it. Luckily he was discreet on the topic and advised me to use my old insomnia medicine which I hadn't needed for many years. So I did, and after two nights with these pills, I fell asleep without it on the third night. I also picked up the Helix package the same Friday, and it had been delivered in good order.

I used the weekend and some more days this week to regain some lost sleep and avoided further anal or prostate stimulation. Today was Friday again, and I had the entire afternoon free, so I decided to finally try my Helix package. I took a twilight walk, prepared my bed with towels and stuff according to the wiki, and turned on a couple old porno movies in the background. I use these mainly for the nice moaning sounds, to get in a good mood. Already five PM, it was time for personal preparations. Read more »