Tag: Relaxation

well I just don't know

Ok this is how it went. I found the time to have a nice uninterrupted session. I put the eupho in and withing like 5 minutes I felt the trembling in my body, moved to a position where I was on my back, with a pillow under my hips. For the first time could feel the aneros starting to move with my anal sphinkter. Felt more treamors and was awash with a trembling all over my body. There was a lot of very heavy breathing and a feeling not unlike getting ready to have an orgasm. This lasted about 5 minutes. I just got too tired to keep it going. I relaxed a bit and when my breathing had subsided a bit I clenched again and it started again. Heavy breathing and quivers all over my body. this time it lasted maybe 3 minutes, I get so tired I can't hold it in any longer. At this point I notice that my eupho had almsot wiggled itself out of me. I moved to my stomach but this was too much pressure on my penis, and I was afraid I would have a penil orgasm.

moveed back to my normal position on side with pillow under bent leg, inserted the Progasm, and the whole thing started again. Much more pleasure than I have ever had before, but still not sure If I can call it a super O. Still thinking it is mini o's that have move up a notch. Read more »

Reports from an Asstronaut

A cautionary entry: don't push it too hard. This entry is for yesterday as I had not had an opportunity to update the blog before now. As I recounted in my last post, I had received the Progasm that day. As they say, "boys with their toys" — I just had to try it, again.

Alas, my poor butthole protested . I did manage to get the Progasm in, but could only tolerate it for a short session. So we have our physical limitations. I suspect I'm going to need more work with the smaller models to get up to regular sessions with Progasm.

I am now an Aneros junkie, however. I decided I wanted to give the Eupho a try. Each of the Aneros has it's own characteristics and I'd like to experience what each has to offer. I think the Eupho is a good progression from the SGX, but we will see once I have it, so to speak, in hand.

Also, all of my sessions to date have been about an hour in length. I am looking forward to being able to schedule an open-ended session, taking as long as I can and taking the time to really relax into it. My sessions to date have been delicious, but I suspect I have only scratched the surface. I long to sink below the surface, to experience what lies there.

And I will.

Have now tried Helix and Progasm

Well I have now had the chance to try out my new models. The Helix, and the Progasm. Let me begin by saying I have only had minimal success with any model. The very first time I tried the SGX I got a nice tingling in my anus and a kind of light kissing response from my anus, but was never able to repeat that. I have read so much about aneros taking over and doing its own thing to massage the prostate, but never really understood what that was like.

Last session I cleaned up used marksman lube as an interal lube and then lubed the Helix with ID Millenium (found it to stay slipprier longer, even if it takes more to clean it up) I inserted Helix and relaxed. I started slow clenching of the anal muscles and found that there were more muscles I was using, I guess they are called the PC muscles, the ones by the Perineum. It took about 15 or 20 minuets but then I began to feel a kind of pulsing in my penis, not my anus or the PC muscles but in my penis like it was bobbing on my body. I have to admit I wanted to get back to the body shutters I had experienced the very first time I used the SGX, (nothing since)so I concentrated very hard on what I was doing. The pulsing in my penis began to grow very slowly, and I could start to feel something, what I was not sure in the area of my prostate. It was vague and undefined. After about 40 minutes I decieded I was not free enough so I put a pillow under my bent leg (legs were in position as noted in the instructions). It began to feel much more comfortable, and I could feel myself relaxing even more than I had been. I felt a quiver in my body much like I had the first time I used the SGX, not as strong, or as long lasting but definately there. Read more »

My journey begins………

So, I thought I'd share my journey of discovery here to hopefully contribute to the collective, as well as learn from other users.

I have had my Helix for about a month now, and have had about 5 sessions with it. I have not yet experienced an orgasm, but have definitely noticed some wonderful sensations and have begun discovering some of the more subtle muscular movements.

SOME HISTORY:
I have been very sexually-oriented person since childhood, and started masturbating at the age of 5, in the form of rubbing on my bedpost. Since then, I've tried just about everything under the sun, but, of course, the majority of it was (is) "penile-centric".
I'm now 41, married to the same woman I started dating 22 years ago, and we are mutually expanding our sexual horizons.
I started reading books on Tantric / energetic / spiritual sexuality about 5 years ago, and began experimenting with perineum massage in combination with penile masturbation, which is what spawned my desire to learn more about prostate and perineum orgasms.
I also began learning about the incomprehnsible scope of the female orgasm (beyond the normal orgasm) at this time, and have learned of the female prostate in the process. Although the female prostate (g-spot) is located in a different place (it surrounds the urethra), it can be massaged in much the same way that the male prostate can be massaged to bring on new levels of enjoyment, beyond the typical rocket-O associated with the g-spot.
It is interesting that I am now a fledgling student in this pleasure for myself, after having learned (and continuing to learn) how to bring about ecstatic prostate orgasms for my wife. Read more »

I've had a mini – O

I bought my helix some time ago and had very little success in my first several attempts. It sat unused for several months. Last night I got it out, cleaned out my rectal canal really well and spent time just relaxing with it in place. I lay on my side for a while, did the recommended deep breathing and got comfortable with the helix in place. I delayed contractions for a while too. Still not much happened in the way of sensation.

I then rolled onto my back and put my feet flat on the bed. I contracted the scphincter a few times and then lay still. Quietly, waves of delightful sensation started to build. I held perfectly still for fear that movement might break the spell that was coming over me. I don't think it actually lasted that long and it wasn't a body wracking experience but it was like nothing I've ever experienced before. As the sensations subsided I contracted a few times but the whole experienced passed.

Nevertheless, I take it as a first success. If I can duplicate and intensify that sensation over time, I'll be very satisfied. I feel like I've crossed into a new frontier of sensation that I've never experienced before, in many ways similar to the first orgasm I had in my early teens.

I'll keep this forum posted.

My KIT arrived and wanted to report

Well after nearly two weeks of waiting my aneros kit has arrived. was able to find time almost immediately to try the SGX. First thing I must state is that I was very surprised at the size of the SGX and for that matter of the MGX. I have to admit I have had anal play with other items and both of the aneros seemed so small. I thought this can't possibly make me feel anything. Well I followed the guides on the package, the instructions from this sight, and all the advice I had read before receiving my toys.(I use the term toy loosely, because I see now this will be more than a play time, but a total adventure in mental and physical control)

I just finished cleaning up and wanted to write so thoughts are clear and to the point. But first thing I saw was a blog from Ashlen, and he let me see some of what didn't work for me on this first try. Patience being the biggest problem, being able to focus, and knowledge about contractions, (how long how hard etc.) Read more »

Reflections on My First Session

Reposted from the forum…

First of all, thank you for the kind encouragement and comments. From what I have read on this forum so far it is apparent that the members who post here are extremely supportive. On this journey, which in and of itself is ultimately a personal and solitary endeavor, having others to share experiences and insights with is vital.

I may take up the offer of starting a blog of my progress. I think it would be of general and personal interest.

As a brief follow up to today’s session, I wanted to touch on a few things. The most immediate is the “state” I find myself inhabiting. By “state” I mean my current emotional/psychological condition. I find it extraordinary that the feelings of well-being continue to persist. Throughout the day, I have reflected not a few times on how good I feel. I have been under the heavy cloud of depression for most of my adult life. I have taken medication for it. I have practiced meditation. I have experienced contentment and quiet joy at various times through medication and meditation. What I experienced today was very much like those occurrences. The major difference is that I haven’t been on medication in over four years or meditated for even longer.

Who could imagine a supposed medical/sexual device as an instrument of mental well-being? Though it’s early yet in my exploration, this first experience bodes well for this kind of application. Read more »

Experience, The First

I'm jump starting this blog by reposting my forum entries…

I recently bought a Helix after considerable reading here and on the web. Today, with the house to myself (a rare occasion), I thought I’d give it a try. Going into the session, I had in the back of my mind all the positive experiences I’ve read about. The negative ones were there as well. I though of them as guideposts along a middle path—one I would endeavor to travel with an open mind. I wanted this to be my own experience, not set against the expectations, hopes, and dreams (achieved or not) of those who went before me. There would, of course, be similarities in my experience, since the journey covers familiar terrain, and we are all human.

Guideposts. Markers along the way. With those acknowledged, I began…

I’ll not detail the usual prep and position—just that I lubed sufficiently, lay on my right side, right leg straight, left bent at the knee. I lay with the Helix within me for around 10 minutes. It did not feel uncomfortable—merely a sense of pressure (or fullness).

I began some gentle contractions of the sphincter. I felt pressure and then slightly more pressure. My penis moved with each contraction but did not become erect. At this point in the session, perhaps 15 – 20 minutes after insertion, I would categorize my experience as being minimal. Read more »

Calboy

I thought I would start an entry in this section as my posts lately, in the Forum, have been a bit depressing. Why depressing you might ask – well, I'm on my 5th month, and to date I've only experience some interesting waves of sensations, (no Big-O) – BUT, these are significant. They are unlike anything I have ever experienced, and completely engulf my body. The other point that you should know is that these waves are full body. Let me explain. I meditate on a regular basis. Meditation, when done correctly, can bring about deeply eurphoric feelings that wash over you, (by the way – those are highly effective at healing the mind/brain and body.) The sensations that I've experienced with the Aneros very similar to the meditative states that I've experienced. It's like an interesting high that washes over the entire body, and it's pleasurable.

I can't even begin to image what a full-blown Super-O is all about – but I bet its VERY good.

I'm hopeful that I'll get over the top and complete my re-wiring soon.

In my case – rest and relaxation are the keys. I really can't relax enough during the week to really enjoy a session so the weekends are the best for me.

More later.

If you're a newbie to this experience – do your best to enter this realm of male (prostate based) orgasm with an open mind, and above all Do NOT HAVE EXPECTATIONS. Read more »

catchemup

Well I think I can say I am on my way. Purchased the aneros (maximus) in February 07. The first few sessions were successful. Good feelings, some precum and more volume when jacking off. Then came a long dry spell with mostly dud sessions. In the last month things began to slowly improve with a better effort at lubrication and breathing technique.

I am married and have to be circumspect with the aneros. I showed the site to my wife but she is not interested. She has been away lately so I had more time to use the aneros in a relaxed situation.

The last four sessions have been wonderful. On 5/14 in a 1 hr 45 min session I experienced 6 2-3 minute mini O's of whole body shaking and the feeling I was on the verge of coming. Positon was on my back with a bit of cloth between the tab and me. Most of the action came within the first 45 minutes.
This was in the morning.

That afternoon I tried again with the maximus. I used plenty of lube and within 5 minutes of the start the whole body shaking O's began. plenty of moaning and groaning. Then the maximus began moving on its own for the first time. This produced about an hour of intense feelings with contractions. Best experience yet. Some precum maybe 3-4 drops. Abdominal breathing seemed to really help get the contractions going. Read more »