Tag: Relaxation

Fitment Question (Possibly Too Big?)

Ugh, this is gonna sound like a weird question but I suppose that’s what we’re here for, right?

Been working at sessions and such and as part of that, I cut out masturbation. Needless to say, I’m fairly “full” and easily aroused. Sometimes I’ve been putting the toy (Helix Syn) inside and just going about my day at home, to become more comfortable with it. Something I’ve been finding though is that I tend to dribble a lot immediately *after* I take it out, but not during. Same goes for bowel movements. If my prostate is full, I don’t feel much *during* the bowel movement, but it’s immediately *after* I’m done that I get that pleasurable leaking sensation.

Admittedly I sometimes have trouble with physical comfort while the toy is inside during a session; it seems easier to relax all my muscles when nothing’s in. The fact that I’m getting leakage when pressure is relieved from my prostate, be it removal of the toy or after a bowel movement, makes me wonder if this is a clue as to the size of the toy, and whether I need something smaller and more precise. Can you shed any light on this, be it with personal experience or experimentation? Thanks for the help!

In right now, advice?

I have it in right now (the trident syn, typing this on my phone). It’s been about an hour and here’s what I’ve felt:

1. A subtle “shaking”, very faint but continuous through my whole lower body. My legs aren’t actually physically shaking around or anything, just a very subtle continuous shaking/tensing.

2. A few times I managed to get in this weird headspace and my whole pelvis began to tingle, but I lost it each time.

3. After being tense for a while, I intentionally relaxed my sphincter and pc and got a wave of chills/little tingles. Haven’t been able to replicate it.

4. Generally, intentionally cleching doesn’t seem to do anything for me.

5. Once or twice the shaking got more intense in my glutes and legs, but nothing else happened.

It feels like I’m slowly experiencing intensity in waves that are many minutes long. I’ll have 10 minutes or so where I feel basically nothing, then my body will start to shake a little and I’ll have some tingles, then nothing.

I understand how you gotta relax and not expect anything. The way I udnerstand it it’s almost like a dreamstate? Am I not relaxing enough? Am I relaxing too hard / focusing too much on trying to relax.

I intend to leave the device in for another hour or so. Ima try to relax again and check back here later.

Some crazy as p wave or somethin

I used the aneros again last night. And it was the most intense session Ive had. I didn’t get any orgasms from it but I got a lot of intense pleasure which is good.

I was like 2 hours in I felt myself twitching and shaking like crazy, breathing hard af, my muscles where squeezing hard and then relaxing then squeezing again, this happens fast it all happening on its own. My body was super tired. And waves of pleasure going across my whole body, I was seriously dripping wet. It was like 5 mins of constant hard twitching and faded over 10 mins or more. I tried to relax but my body just wanted to twitch. This felt soo good.

But what interest me the most was that I just couldn’t stop moaning, I just couldn’t help but moan so goddam loudly, I was embarrassed hoping nobody heard me. I’m usually a quiet guy, but this helix trident is a dangerous weapon which caused me to go absolutely wild. I’m almost a little afraid but excited to use it again.

I think I got to this point by abstaining for 1 or 2 days, the night before I used the aneros but decided to not masturbate traditionally, this helped. But last night I was too horny after the aneros and I broke the 2 day streak. I think if I kept abstaining even after using the aneros for longer, then maybe I can finally reach an orgasm

Great session – slowly getting there..

Yesterday, I was feeling in the mood, installed the Aneros Helix Trident and put on some binaural beats.

I relaxed, did some nipple play, and within a few minutes, I started feeling tingles and muscle shaking.

Fast forward 30 minutes, and I was a shivering mess. Not orgasming, exactly, but involuntary shaking all over, and the Aneros was – for lack of a better word – going on almost full auto mode. It felt amazing. Not Super-O, I am quite sure (not that I’ve had any yet), and not fully up to speed with a penile orgasm either. But the prostate was pulsing a bit and I definitely did not want it to stop. Pleasurable and intense.

Tried to relax into the feelings, and every time they subsided, it was possible to restart a new “cycle” after a few minutes of deep breathing, light contractions and a bit of nipple play. Kept going for far too long and I feel quite tired today.

Anyway: No drugs/weed/poppers, and the beats was from YouTube, creator is called SSEM Binaural-sexual Stimulation Erotic Meditation (look it up). Lots of playlists, and it really worked (for me at least). Kept my hands off the hardware at all times – and did not finish, either.

I feel that I am finally moving in the right direction.

Thanks for all the tips in this forum, BTW 👍🏻

Edit: Grammar

Just a p wave? Idk

I used the helix trident for a while now.

Last night I was using the aneros, maybe about an hour or two in I get subtle twitches and heavy breathing that last for a minute, I’m guessing that’s a p wave.

But then later on I start breathing really hard, my whole body is twitching really intensely, I’m squeezing into the pillow and I’m also moaning, surprisingly.

I didn’t feel an explosion of an orgasm though like the traditional way, but the whole feeling felt really full bodied, felt really good, it was like a long orgasm, kinda, but not fully.

This last for maybe 5 to 10 minutes? Or longer? I felt relaxed after and very out of energy but still horny

Was it just a p wave?

Update Helix Syn Trident arrived a couple hours ago!

Got all my responsibility done for the day and have had it in for about 2 hours now to prep took a nice shower and cleansed, layed on my bed and have been relaxed and feeling just zoned out almost like I smoked weed but I’m sober haha, have had quite a few sensations already but overall just a very calming and chill experience, just got up to smoke a cigarette and was going to take it out but this thing has this amazing balance to it with the 2 little things (can’t remember what they’re called) that go above your anus and on the taint so I’m just walking around the backyard enjoying it and as I’m walking around I’m even feeling sensations, a couple instances of weakening of the knees haha, looking forward to the future with this thing as I know this is just the beginning but have never experienced a toy this comfortable and really does just adapt to your body, very pleased!!!! 😁😁😁😁

May I ask for a clarification between aroused and relaxed?

Hi guys,

Wondering if I can ask a question.. everybody mentions don’t insert your Aneros “cold,” I.e. you should be turned on before inserting it (by watching porn, edging, etc. before hand).

But I’ve also read and heard that you should be totally relaxed once you have it in, but this seems to be in contradiction since (for at least me anyways) being aroused requires a certain level of mental focus (fantasizing, playing with nipples, etc.). So I’m just looking for some clarification as I’m wondering how one does both. Perhaps I’m just looking for other peoples’ input on where they take it. Thanks in advance.

“Dissociation”

I haven’t gotten to a super-o yet, but I think I realized something interesting and was wondering if others have experienced the same.

I started using Aneros about 3 years ago. I started with the basic advice: relax and do kegels. I could feel it hitting my prostate, which felt good, but it never escalated into anything.

Then I did some reading, and found what seemed to be two contradictory techniques. One was the “do nothing” technique, which didn’t work for me, and is honestly a pretty frustrating set of instructions unless you are one of the lucky people for whom it actually works. The other was the technique that focuses on the two-different-muscle-group kegel contractions. After some practice I was able to get muscle spasms going pretty reliably, but I ran into a dilemma. Maintaining the spasms required concentration and slowly made my whole body tense up. This did not sound like the effortless, out-of-control experience it was supposed to be.

Then I tried combining the strategies: getting the spasms started, then mentally backing off and “letting the aneros do its thing.” When I did this, the spasms would keep going on their own, for a bit, but they always slowed down and came to a stop when left to their own devices. Read more »

Lots of newbies here, I love it! Read this:

Love seeing so many of you exploring the magical prostate side. Hope my experience can help some of you to achieve the famous super Os:

It took me about 1 full year to achieve it, but one thing you guys need to keep in mind is that super Os are part of a process. Call it rewiring if you want, I just don’t stick to the labels. You guys definitely need to pay attention to how your body responds to it. The phases, such as shaken legs, tense pelvic area, deep involuntary breathing are all paths to the super O. I see a lot of you saying here: “oh, I think I’ve gotten there!” There’s no “I think”. When you get to get a super O, trust me, you and your whole body will know.

My recommendation is: RELAX! insert the Aneros on you and clear your expectations. Clear your mind! Explore (gently) your nipples, forget about porn (it’s often a distraction).

Concentrate on your body and have fun! It may be a long journey but I guarantee, it’s 10000 worth the wait.
Soon your legs will be up, your body will be shaking involuntary and the Aneros will be throwing you around just like there’s a magical energy inside of you ready to burst out.

Enjoy the ride!

How to get past this phase?

So in my aneros sessions nowadays, my abs and body start involuntarily convulsing and contracting.

I read somewhere to relax your body when this happens.

Im trying to embrace them and let them happen but I end up becoming tenser and tenser. I tried breathing deeper but it doesnt help because tense abs make it really hard to breathe deeply to relax

Does anybody have any tips to relax fully when my body is involuntarily spasming like this?