Tag: Rewiring

first attempt today! I have some questions about some sensations that i’d love your comments on

Background: I am a total size queen and love anal play with large toys, but my anal pleasure has always been VERY dependent on penile stimulation. The pleasure immediately turns off as soon as I’m not touching my penis. so I decided it would be a good idea to go for a Progasm and do a little re-wiring!

After reading the wiki, i spent a good several minutes just letting my body adjust to having the progasm inside, on my side with a leg lifted. then i started doing some breathing and contractions at various levels, occasionally trying toe breath of fire to see how that felt. I eventually got to what i suppose could be involuntaries, i didn’t really have to try to make the contractions happen as much. that was nice and pleasurable and i could really hone in on it pressing against my prostate. it definitely felt like a step in the right direction, but nothing that felt like it would lead to a Super-O (not that im really worried about getting there yet).

What shocked me was the feeling i got when i tried the do-nothing method. i switched to laying on my front and just sitting there. slowly building was this distant feeling that my body and mind told me was something to chase. it didn’t really grow in intensity, but i definitely felt like it could be the roots of something intense.

has anyone else had a similar experience?

My Sexuality

It is a real challenge to describe this sexual journey I have been on for more than 20 years now. Each year brings a new set of experiences expanding the envelope of my erotic mind. Things that were avant garde to me 20 years ago are routine to me now. The things that titillate and arouse me now seem to have gotten edgier and edgier year to year. Clearly a major turning point for me was rewiring. With the enervation of my prostate and the mind – body awareness that came with it, came expanded sexual response and an interest in sexual intimacy with men. It started as a prurient attraction to gay porn on line; first with pictures of attractive cocks arched in erection, then to videos of ejaculations with semen erupting from swollen cock heads. Eventually I began to seek out video sex scenes of guys frotting and cumming on each others cocks and ultimately videos depicting a guy on his back legs spread as his asshole was drilled by another guy. I watched in fascination, my own cock stiff and throbbing as the perpetrators ass clenched as his partners anus received him, stretched to accommodate his girth. As the receiver grimaced in sweet agony his anus clutched the intruding penis that was penetrating it. As he was being fucked the penis that sank deep into him was forcing is face to contort in the familiar confused anguish of erotic ecstasy. Watching the receiver’s face grimace and contort as the sweet ecstasy of anal orgasm consumed him made the precum drool from my erection in a stream wetting the chair I sat on in my nudity
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When I reached the tipping point of men having sex that was when my own craving to male sexual intimacy reached a fevered pitch. Since then my experiences have been very limited but they have been very satisfying. I have not been disappointed. Read more »

Prostate Massage and Hand Job

Last weekend was the first “down time” weekend in our house in several weeks. The relaxed time paved the way for some together time watching TV and cuddling on Saturday night. That kind of contact in a relaxed environment always translates to intimacy in bed later in the evening. By 10 PM there was no doubt that when we both got in bed later that night, sex was in the offing. I am lucky in that J relishes exploratory foreplay and extended intimate tantalizing.

So on Saturday night with candles burning and the bed turned down with both of us naked, kissing the tender cuddling turned decidedly sexual in a relatively short time. It started with her taking my soft nipple in the tender grip of her lips. She drew my softened teat into her mouth, pinching it between her lips and flicking it assertively with her tongue. My dark pink nub hardened to the taunting prodding of her tongue. When my nipple was throbbing, tingling and hard it rigidly protruded begging for more stimulation. She released her pinching clasp and drew my entire nipple into her mouth, firmly stroking it with her tongue as she kept a gentle tugging suction on it. Jolts of erotic pleasure shot directly from my nipple to my prostate. Since rewiring there is a hot wire connection between the two. The erotic shock made my prostate harden and begin to throb. With my nipple and prostate throbbing in arousal my cock was warmed and awakened to join in the glowing chorus; it stiffened and lengthened as I closed my eyes and surrendered, suckling her and sliding into a nipple induced erotic stupor. Read more »

Waves Of Pleasure

I had just returned to bed after my usual early morning rise. I was trying to get some more rest. As I was lying there, I felt one distinct "twang" deep in my lower abdomen (I think I have felt this before just before a Super-O). Perhaps it was my prostate, I thought? I decided to do just some voluntary anal contractions as I tried to drift off to sleep.

As I kept doing these light contractions, I began to drift-off into a deep, relaxing thought……what if I can achieve a Super-O right here, right now. But after all, I had not had an Aneros session in over 2 days now. It probably was not possible. Anyway, I continued to do the light contractions when the most amazing thing happened…….

OMG! I am beginning to feel the beginnings of a prostate-induced orgasm! I began to feel it build, ever so slowly, but it distinctly was building. I had the urge to put a few fingers of my left hand back near my anus. Much to my surprise, the anal contractions now were "automatic"! I could feel the "pulsing" going on as the orgasmic feeling continued to build…..and build…..I realized that I could not stop it!

I I am now in the middle of a whole-body Super-O! I am starting to shake and convulse on the bed (Aless!!) I exhale a slight "moan" now with every breath. I feel an orgasmic "bliss". Read more »

Busy March

(This was just posted to my blog at Bateworld.com – thought I'd re-post it here, too)

March has been kind of a strange and thrilling month for me, bate-wise. Ever since getting re-wired to have prostate orgasms with the Aneros massagers, all of my bate sessions have been enhanced with those great sensations eminating from my prostate. Some give you a mild, buzzy sensation and waves of pleasure (called p-waves by Aneros fans). Others approximate the feel of a normal orgasm, only you can have them over and over without losing stamina. A few times, however, I can work myself into these full-body orgasms which give your entire body the sensation of having an orgasm – with no cum! These full-body orgasms are called Super-Os by Aneros fans. I usually have these once a month, like clockwork, and most of the time they can be had without any massager inserted. Read more »

Aneros: One Month In- – What Have I Learned?

Having experienced Aneros for little over a month now, I feel it is time to "explore" all that I have learned thus far. It is an extensive list!

The Male Body:
Our bodies are truly incredible! Besides the "necessary" functions of heart, lungs, eyes, brain, etc. to keep us alive, there is this "optional" pleasure function….sex! I have learned that sex is that mysterious "organ" that pervades our lives in numerous ways. As males, we are "enrobed" in the sexual experience: hardly a moment goes by in our lives that we are not thinking about it nor acting upon it. How many times have I masturbated? I couldn't even hazard a guess! Did it feel good? You must be kidding! There is no feeling on earth that compares to ejaculation (right guys?). At least, I haven't found one yet! Add in the pleasurable feelings of the aroused prostate (and rectum and anus) and related orgasms and….well, you get the picture!

The Aneros Experience:
With the advent of Aneros and prostate stimulation, I have become to realize that the prostate gland is the "master sex gland" of the male body and is responsible for so many things "sexual": erection, testicle and perineum stimulation, nipple arousal. I have found that by Aneros' stimulating the prostate, besides the obvious ejaculatory response (numerous times!) there is this "deliciously" sexual feeling inside my body that is hard to put into words ("buzzing prostate" for example). I can "feel" more alive (in a sexual way). This is how I was created and I love it! Read more »

The Aneros Peridise – A Review

The Aneros Peridise is designed to be a deceptively simple device. It is very easily inserted and, once in, is supposed to provide an enticing and stimulating anal and rectal stimulation.

So far, I have used the "large" beginner device and the "small" more advanced device, both with water-based lubricants. Each "session" lasted only about 15-20 minutes. Let me say right off that I was "underwhelmed" at the feelings I received from these devices. Is the Peridise over-rated?

I wondered…….

I decided to perform an "experiment". I would use the "large" device this time with my "regular" oil-based lubricant (Boy Butter). I lubed up the Peridise and my anus, rolled over and inserted it. It inserted very easily and I felt it "pull" itself in as promised. I waited a short time, not expecting much, until……

O M G!!! I had an immediate erection and at once, I felt the intensely pleasurable waves of anal pleasure as the Peridise began to easily move in and out of the rectum with moderate contractions and anal "pressure" on my part. It would not stop! I kept this up for a while…..I remember contracting it harder and finally "held" the hardest contraction and…..

OMG! I can't take it anymore! This is ridiculously insane pleasure!

It seems to me now that the type of lube definitely makes a difference with the Peridise, as it does for the Aneros prostate stimulators. I find that I use Boy Butter now almost exclusively with the Aneros instead of water-based lubes with great results! Read more »

Sixty Nine

Every couple has a repertoire of sex acts. Like favorite meals it is easy to fall into a rut. I love Chinese food, Italian and Thai; I eat them whenever I travel and want to indulge myself. However, even though I don’t particularly care for steak, every once in a while it has a mouthwatering appeal to me. When that happens I will buy an over the top cut of beef and put it on the barbeque with a favorite rub and some barbeque sauce and go to town with an ice cold beer and some potato salad.

After 45 years of intimacy we know each others sexual preferences, orgasmic responses and erotic anatomy very well. Getting into bed aroused has become an opportunity to choose from the “chinese menu” of sex for the best way to expand erotic pleasure and get each other to an orgasmic conclusion quickly yielding a maximum flow of cum and quaking torsos.

Sixty nine is one of those sex acts that is “on our menu” of preferred acts. I must admit that it is me that took it off our sexual menu years ago because having her sucking my erect penis distracts me from giving her open dewey pussy mouth the orgasmic pleasure I would like to. I love making her cum and I can’t pay attention to the intricate responses of her pussy when the warm sucking of her mouth on my cockhead enshrouds my mind in orgasmic rapture.
I love the effect of long slow licks on her pink flower cause it to drip, bloom and open. As her arousal escalates her vagina opens, her pussy lips thicken and darken and glisten with her honey. Read more »

A Self-Challenge: Do-Nothing Session

I have been reading about the "Do-Nothing" Session and decided to try one. It was a quiet evening and I was expecting……nothing! Boy was I wrong!

Let me explain…

Here were the simple ground rules:

-Absolutely no anal contractions!

-Must lie in the same position perfectly still

-Normal breathing throughout

-Minimum time: 45 minutes

Following this initial phase, contractions will be permitted as in a regular session. However, the same position must be maintained. Simple, right?

Here's how this session unfolded:

PHASE 1=
I lubed up, inserted the helix and assumed a right side position which felt very comfortable. I was in bed naked but with the covers drawn so as not to be chilly.

All was going well for about 5 minutes when I noticed an involuntary "twitching" in my rectum alternating with some very powerful involuntary abdominal contractions. These abdominal contractions were completely unexpected and powerful and I reacted to each one with an audible moan. They occurred on a fairly regular basis for about 15 to 20 minutes or more. With every "twitch" and contraction, the prostate was getting a "jolt" from the helix. So much for "do-nothing" huh? It seems that the prostate just wouldn't stand for "nothing" (is this part of the re-wiring process?)

Around the same time, although I was covered and warm, I developed an uncontrollable shaking head to toe. This was also quite unexpected. The shaking lasted about 5 to 10 minutes I believe and eventually subsided. Read more »

A Perspective – 10 Sessions In

After about 10 Aneros sessions, I feel I should list some observations (in no particular order):

The idea of regular insertion of anal toys is something all Aneros users have to deal with. After a while, however, this seems to become routine and actually becomes rather sexually stimulating in itself.

It definitely makes for a better session if one is aroused, if not physically, then at least mentally. If I wake up in the middle of the night, for example, with a hard erection, I can either masturbate or Aneros. Now I prefer to Aneros. Since starting with Aneros, sometimes my erection is so strong and rock-hard, I feel that my prostate is signaling me that it is in need of some massage.

Although Aneros may be considered a sex toy, it really is much more than that. Yes, there is a VERY LARGE pleasure element associated with it and, unlike a penile ejaculation which may last seconds, the P-waves and Orgasms associated with prostate stimulation can go on for HOURS. It is very difficult to describe the feeling but you guys should know what I mean. There is nothing like it in the world and it feels SOOOOOOOOOOOOOO GOOD!
I remember when I used to masturbate for a very long time, edging toward an ejaculation. It's a similar feeling.

It is interesting and a little counter-intuitive that the PENIS really does not become part of the normal Aneros prostate stimulation. It will, on its own, decide to join in the fun! I have had fairly long sessions without any penile engagement. Read more »