Tag: Wife

“Follow The Kegel-Brick Road!”

An interesting ride! Here is how it went down…….

I am continuing my ‘experiment’ with semen retention. Last night, following a 5-day stint, I had to reset the clock once again. An unexpected arousal and erection led to a 25- minute handjob from my wife that resulted in marathon moans and an explosive ejaculation! It took me about 5 minutes to recover from it. Needless to say, I was very relaxed and slept well.
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This AM, I awakened fairly early and decided to dose on a 30-minute binaural for hands-free male/female orgasm. Upon completion, I just decided to continue to relax and perhaps do a few contractions until it was time to get up. What happened next blew me away! For some strange reason, I decided to ‘experiment’ with the kegels. So, I started to do the following ‘sets’ of contractions:

(1) long hold for perhaps 3-4 minutes; (2) very rapid contractions for another 2-3 minutes; (3) no contraction at all for another 1-2 minutes (relaxation with auto-kegels).

I continued this for several ‘sets’. I began to feel what I thought was some prostate buzzing but it felt different this time. OMG! I think I am experiencing an anal orgasm and/or a rectal orgasm! I need to re-position myself on the couch. I am now rolled-over on my side or face-down and these orgasms are continuing! I need to put my fingers near/on my perineum and anus and I can feel the strong sensations down-there. This went on for probably 15-20 minutes or so. I am shaking, quivering and slightly moaning…… Read more »

Holy Shit, the world just changed for me! What a ride!

Okay, 50 yo M here. Mostly, I just have to write this experience out. As much for me as to share with others.

Read about prostate orgasms, toys to achieve it, etc. Thought I’d try. My married sex life has become routine. Dull. Love my wife but sex for both of us simply isn’t that much of a priority anymore. For me this was/is as much about experiencing it as enjoying it. I want a frame of reference sort of thing (welcome to my psyche!).

Got an Aneros Helix, finally. Wife was gone for a few days to a wedding so I decided to have some fun with myself.

I will say that I’m not unfamiliar with physical feelings of pleasure, or analyzing what is going on with myself. I’ve done hallucinogens far more times than I can count in my youth, been so incredibly high with pulsing body stones, or mental confusion, etc. I know how to mentally center in the midst of it and evaluate, etc. So, being such a ‘heady’ guy I think I might overthink this thing and miss the mark. I have always been a *very* heterosexual man. I have gay friends but the though of a dick, or man’s ass just does SFA for me sexually. I may as well be thinking of a pair of pliers, or how I should cut the grass for all the sexual arousal gay sex gives me. Zip! Read more »

What model?

Hi, today I ask the age old question… What Aneros model should I purchase?

My back story.

I am not a complete novice when it comes to anal stimulation. I have taken dildos, plugs and other stuff of various sizes. Even my wife’s fist, but that was a while ago. I have milked my prostate manually with good success so I know where it is.

The reason I ask this question is that Aneros is unavailable in my country so I have to order it online. That takes a few weeks so I wanted to try and minimise the risk of ordering something completely wrong for me. Although I do realise that this could always be the case anyway.

Do you have any suggestions for me?

Re-Wiring Reversing?

For the first time in 6 months, I have been away from home, (travelling in our RV) and my Aneros toys; no sessions for 5 days. I am used to having sessions 2 to 4 times weekly so I was sure my re-wiring process would be reversing itself. Does it ever reverse itself?

During the trip, I practiced Aless contractions and abdomen breathing on a regular basis (while driving, eating etc.). The feeling I was experiencing were almost as good as the ones I was feeling with the toys.

One morning in the trip, I woke up (at dawn) with a very hard erection and I just quietly contract my PC muscle with deep abdomen breaths. I was rewarded with an explosion of feelings that were almost orgasmic specially in my glans and this lasted for about a half our until I fell asleep again. This makes me believe these feelings may be similar to the successful Aless sessions described by so many members. If so, the future is looking good!

We returned home yesterday and my prostate was screaming for action. After my wife went to bed, I lubed up and inserted my Helix Syn. The feelings resumed to exactly where I left off 6 days ago. Read more »

“No Ejaculation For A Week: How Does That Feel?”

Well, I made it! It has been a full 7 days since my last ejaculation. Yes, I have had many erections and regular tantric sessions with my wife. But no climax. How do I feel? Let me try to describe it……

I am NOT:
– feeling horny all the time
– trying to suppress an erection during the day (they don’t seem to happen that often)
– thinking about penetration all the time
– developing a feeling of ‘blue balls’
– embarking on any Aneros sessions at least for the time being

I AM:
– producing a lot of precum during tantric cuddling
– getting aroused with a rock-hard erection very quickly when I’m in bed next to my wife
– noticing my package is longer and fuller
– sure I will be heading towards a wet dream soon if I continue to abstain
– able to trigger a nice Aless feeling when I want it

Frankly, I am surprised that I am able to refrain from ejaculating for a full week. Where am I on the arousal ‘mountain’? Right now, I don’t think I’m too far up.

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Conclusion: I was under the impression that I would ‘explode’ sexually after a week without ejaculation. However, that does not seem to be case, at least with me. Perhaps this is part of the re-wiring process? I guess the real ‘test’ will be when I reach the PONR and am ready to go-off. What will that erection feel like? How much ejaculate will I produce? What will that ejaculation feel like? Where will my cock be at the time (in or out?) Oh, the anticipation itself is very arousing! Read more »

“Short Refractory Period?”

Following just one day after my Super-T, I thought things would ‘settle-down’ for at least a couple of days. NOT! Things were hot and heavy with my wife this AM (quite unexpectedly but very intensely arousing). I didn’t climax but came really close. Following a nice swim, and entering this blog, I now have an amazingly STRONG anal/prostate pulsing which is blowing my mind! I thought there would at least be a refractory period during which time I would be at the ‘bottom’ of the arousal mountain! NOT AGAIN! I am actually going into erection mode just with some simple, easy kegels. What is going on here?

It is as if my body is in tune for a greater frequency of arousal and is rewarding me with unimaginable pleasures!

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I realize now that this was a ‘tantric sex’ session without climax. It started slowly but continued to build. It could have gone on longer but we ran out of time after about an hour.

PS: Had to lie down. Still experiencing anal/prostate pulsing. OMG! Experiencing at least three Dry-O’s in succession (with moaning).

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“What Is The Pinnacle Of Male Sexual Arousal?”

Well, I was unable to perform an Aneros session last night. In addition, my wife was not very receptive to my advances. So, where does that leave me? Horny! Penis horny and prostate horny! I am writing this entry because with recent developments, I believe I am ‘pushing’ my limit of sexual arousal beyond where it has been at any time in the past.

As my arousal grows with no release (ejaculation or prostate orgasm) on my part, I distinctly feel that male ‘energy’ starting to build-up in my body, like before. Only this time, it seems to be much stronger. Therefore, I ask the question:

What is the pinnacle of male sexual arousal? Obviously, it is different for every man.

In my case, there are several factors at play:

-My recent visit to urologist, and having my prostate ‘thoroughly examined’
-Taking Cialis for a couple of days with resulting effects, then having to give it up (withdrawal effect?)
-No ejaculations for about 5 days now
-Recent dosing sessions of binaural beats for sexual arousal
-Recent dosing of erotic hypnosis for ED
-Continuing to swim most days. This is a sexual turn-on in itself, not including the stimulating effect of the cool water

In essence, I can feel this sexual ‘energy’ building up in every part of my body and it is SCREAMING for release! I have a constant quivering in my anus and my prostate that will not stop now. I have a bulge in my perineum. I need to ejaculate! Read more »

“Please, Somebody F**k Me! I’m Prostate Horny!”

BACKGROUND:
I had my first visit with a urologist on Friday. In addition to the “usual” checkout of my male package and a most-thorough DRE of my prostate (ouch!) I received a sample of Cialis 5 mg for daily use for help with my ED/DE issue. I tried one out on late Friday afternoon and by night-time—WOW! I’ve never had an erection that hard (I am not exaggerating!). It lasted well over ONE HOUR! My wife and I ‘played’ with it and she could not believe it! Needless to say, Friday night and Saturday night were sensational, to say the least! It was probably the best time in bed in decades. I felt like an animal on the prowl. My wife could not complain.

UPDATE:
I am no longer taking Cialis due to a perceived side-effect that I could not tolerate (I was getting light-headed and dehydrated). So I stopped the daily dose and will discuss it with my urologist next month. [My cardiologist has already cleared me for use]. Perhaps there are other samples which I can try.

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CURRENT ACTIVITY:
In the meantime, I got up early this AM and decided to listen to some erotic hypnosis for ED (what could be the harm?) as well as male sexual arousal binaural which sounded very different (especially with high-pitched tones) but didn’t seem to do anything for me at the time……or so I thought…… Read more »

“Helix, How High Can I Go?”

I was already greatly-aroused. Following a “tantric” cuddling session with my wife, I retired with a nice hard erection. I was awakened in the very early AM still aroused and checked-out some erotic music, sexual arousal hypnosis and binaural beats for about two hours. Guys, I was feeling it and was in desperate need of a session!

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I quickly lubed-up the Helix (this is the one my body wanted) and took my time inserting it. I got it in only half-way and let my body take over the rest of the way. It took about 2 minutes overall (very nice!) I got onto my right side position and began very light contractions. Surprisingly, I did not have any auto-contractions this ride. However, I began to feel an almost immediate pleasure, almost like a “quiet ache” that seemed to intensify quickly. I began to practice a “new” technique for me which I don’t remember doing before: I did a fairly slow, strong contraction and HELD IT for an extended period (perhaps a minute or so) and slowly relaxed. As I did this, I began to experience some toe-curling feelings from my prostate. What happened next blew me away……. Read more »

Chapter 7

It was difficult to leave the retreat campus that morning. The preceding days had been an eye opening – cock hardening cavalcade of sex acts and experiences that left me craving more. Moreover it was a demonstration of the mystery of the gender basis of my arousal. It clearly showed that my response to sexual ovation by men and by women is equal but can change from one to the other in hours. There are days when images of erections will inspire my own cock to turn to steel and ooze. The fantasies that drive my MMO’s at those times might be of oral sex on a guy’s cock or spooning a sexy guy’s ass in bed. Sinking into a fantasy of homoerotic sex will launch the chains of gripping pleasure that I crave.

Yet there are other times when it is the feminine mystique that entices me. At those times mental images of my lady’s downy vulva stirs a desire in me that not only makes my cock go rigid and ache with lust but also makes my prostate spasm with pleasure. The last several years my wife has been able to cast a spell over me whenever she wants, her feminine karma can wash away any homoerotic thoughts of cocks from my mind. I honestly believe in karma. Whether it is our time together or it is that we are so attuned to each other, I pick up on her most intimate mental inclinations without even thinking about it. she is a woman whose karma is very powerful, at least to me it is. I hope it isn’t to other men, although in fantasy the idea intrigues me. Read more »