Author: goldenboy

“(Almost) HFWO With Peridise”

[Sorry, this blog is a day-late due to Aneros website issues]

Well, it was a new 5 days for semen retention. My wife gave me a great handjob a couple of days ago. One problem: due to my
DE, I was unable to ejaculate. I tried after ‘our’ session for about 5 minutes but, alas, no-go! To top-off everything, I have been horny all week.
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This morning, I was up REALLY EARLY and decided that I was going ‘off’ one way or another and in style! I set myself up to dose on an orgy of binaural beats: prostate health, erectile dysfunction, ejaculation (two), male orgasm, erotic lounge music; you name it, I did it! I had my tissues nearby since I really thought I would need them. But, alas, still no-go!

After about 4 hours with no ejaculation, I am feeling a little sleepy so I retired to my (private) bedroom and decided to finish-myself-off with a Peridise (Large) session. I used Slippery Stuff Gel since I used it recently and liked it. I inserted it most of the way, rolled-over on my side and relaxed…… Read more »

“Ride-Em Cowboy”

Following my AM session with Peridise and Helix, I still did not feel satisfied. Well, the stars aligned this morning. My wife was out of the house, I just cleaned-out my bowels as much as possible and felt ready for another session. I felt the need for something large and decided (WTF) to try Progasm Jr. I didn’t have too much success in some recent rides with it, and realize that it has been a full 3 MONTHS since I last rode it.

I felt ready and decided on Slippery Stuff Gel as the lube. I laid over, lubed-up the Progasm Jr and started the perilous journey in. Much to my surprise, it went in extremely easily and I felt it pull-in almost like it was being guided in by an unknown force. It went all the way in and stayed in! Saying that it felt good is a gross understatement! My prostate never felt any better! Read more »

“A 20-Minute Anal F**k”

Sorry again for the vernacular, but that is exactly how this felt. I think it is well over a month since my last Aneros session and I felt like I was long overdue. I was not very aroused in the early AM but I felt the need for a Peridise adventure. So I grabbed the smaller version and began the session. It lasted about 40 minutes. I am always amazed at the level of anal stimulation which can be achieved with this small device. I could sense it moving slowly in and out as it should do. After the 40-minutes were up, I felt better but still needed something more. So I decided between PS-NEW and Helix Classic and the Helix won!

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I continued with Boy Butter since I was already lubed-up. The Helix went in so easily and—-OMG!—went to work immediately on my prostate. I had the feeling of a Dry-O (or two or three) IMMEDIATELY and I felt the need to muffle my moans (and quiet screams) almost from the start. I have the unmistakable feeling of a prostate ‘warmth’ and tension that comes with an orgasm. But my penis remained flaccid. It was literally non-stop for 20 minutes. It felt like an anal fuck. I felt the need to do some STRONG contractions. When I did these, and released, I had the auto-fuck contractions take over. OMG! The Helix is fucking me non-stop and is blowing my mind! (No exaggeration: I am feeling like I am being fucked out of my mind!) Sorry again for the expletives, but that is how I felt. Read more »

“Semen Retention: An Update”

I thought I would update my progress. Two things of note:

First, there is something to the ‘extra attention from women’ thing. I don’t know what is going on, whether it is my attitude towards women or something else. But I have noticed recently that I am able to “connect” with women more easily. I have not had any sexual advances (nor do I expect to) but things are definitely not as they were before starting the semen retention regimen. I suppose I need more time to make an assessment.

Second, and I think this is significant, is that I am getting hornier and more aroused even with sporadic ejaculations while practicing semen retention. It seems that my (sexual) body is again being ‘programmed’ much as it was when I embarked on the Aneros journey. This may seem trite, but I am noticing women’s bodies more than before; all women! I am feeling a horniness especially in my prostate. Realize, however, that I have not had regular Aneros ‘sessions’ in a while so this may be a part of it. Sometimes my prostate horniness seems to be screaming for a session! Perhaps this is the sexual ‘aura’ which is discussed with reference to semen retention. We’ll see!

PS This semen retention is a ‘tap-dance’. On one hand, being horny usually leads to an arousal and ejaculation. But that is contrary to what I am trying to accomplish. Hence, I am dancing-around the ejaculation! Oh, it’s not easy being a guy! Read more »

“Would I Recognize A Prostate Orgasm If I Tripped Over It?”

I kind-of backed-into this session quite by accident. Here are the details as I remember them……

I was up not too early and since it was a beautiful night (very cool for July) I decided to catch a few winks on my favorite couch. [I just had a BM so I decided to lay-down, just relax and perhaps do a few contractions.] I began to do the slightest ‘whisper’ contractions and ‘thought’ contractions as I have done in the past. This felt really good; I kept it up for a while, realizing that I am again heading to an Aless ‘nirvana-like’ state once again. After a while, however, I began to feel a strange sensation like a prostate-horniness and an overpowering ‘fantasy-sequence’ that I am preparing myself for penetration by my male lover. I don’t know where this came from but it felt so real. So I ‘positioned’ myself on the couch for the rendezvous and waited. As I re-positioned myself on my right side, I suddenly felt an overpowering prostate quivering like I remember all-too-well from my Aneros sessions. It was a prostate orgasm! Perhaps a Dry-O (or two!) OMG! My entire body spasmed as it sometimes did during a Super-O! I can’t stop these orgasms now and I am completely blown away! I can only stay in position (I felt paralyzed with pleasure) and let these feelings wash-over me. How long did this last? Not really sure, but I think it was at least an hour. Read more »

“Follow The Kegel-Brick Road!”

An interesting ride! Here is how it went down…….

I am continuing my ‘experiment’ with semen retention. Last night, following a 5-day stint, I had to reset the clock once again. An unexpected arousal and erection led to a 25- minute handjob from my wife that resulted in marathon moans and an explosive ejaculation! It took me about 5 minutes to recover from it. Needless to say, I was very relaxed and slept well.
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This AM, I awakened fairly early and decided to dose on a 30-minute binaural for hands-free male/female orgasm. Upon completion, I just decided to continue to relax and perhaps do a few contractions until it was time to get up. What happened next blew me away! For some strange reason, I decided to ‘experiment’ with the kegels. So, I started to do the following ‘sets’ of contractions:

(1) long hold for perhaps 3-4 minutes; (2) very rapid contractions for another 2-3 minutes; (3) no contraction at all for another 1-2 minutes (relaxation with auto-kegels).

I continued this for several ‘sets’. I began to feel what I thought was some prostate buzzing but it felt different this time. OMG! I think I am experiencing an anal orgasm and/or a rectal orgasm! I need to re-position myself on the couch. I am now rolled-over on my side or face-down and these orgasms are continuing! I need to put my fingers near/on my perineum and anus and I can feel the strong sensations down-there. This went on for probably 15-20 minutes or so. I am shaking, quivering and slightly moaning…… Read more »

“Sweet Aless Session Takes Me To Nirvana”

I was up early this AM and decided to retire to my favorite couch for a while. Usually, I put on headphones and dose on some stimulating binaural beats or erotic hypnosis. However, this morning, I just decided to forgo the headphones and relax with an Aless session. I wanted to see how far I could ride.

I am always amazed at the feelings my body can generate Aless. Yes, it has been several weeks since my last “official” Aneros session and I do miss them. But the feelings I began to get while doing some light contractions (and reverse contractions) just seemed to put me into a blissful (Nirvana–like) state. OMG! The feelings continued to build, gradually, until I felt a ‘shudder’ all throughout my body. All the while, I felt a ‘quivering’ in my prostate that felt so good…..

I continued this session for about an hour. I probably dozed-off somewhere in between. When I awoke again, I am reminded of the blissful sensations I just experienced, knowing that I can return to this place anytime I want! I’m delighted to be a man! Read more »

“Semen Retention: This Ain’t Easy, Guys!”

I kind-of stumbled onto semen retention due to several personal factors: my recent experience with DE, discovering tantric sex and just no ejaculations for a week. I am on a new pathway now. It is now eight days and I feel I can go farther. However, IT IS NOT EASY! Let me explain…….

First off, my body is ‘adjusting’ to this newfound absence from ejaculation. Yes, the tantric sex sessions are extremely stimulating but since there is no expectation of climax, there has to be a sense of orgasm without ejaculation. This would be similar to an Aneros session! Have I experienced an orgasm yet? I don’t know for sure….probably not.

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Every day that passes now brings a new awareness of greater sexual stimulation (I’m climbing the mountain again and before long, I should be at the top, if I can hold-out until then!) Yes, there are some erections but not as many as you may think. I have done a fair amount of reading on the subject of semen retention over the past week and it definitely seems to “fit the bill” as far as my sexual progress is concerned. Some guys may be saying…..how can not ejaculating be considered progress? Well, it seems that the release of semen in males is draining in more than one way. By retaining semen, the energy is transferred or “transmuted” into other areas of the body. For example, it has been discovered that testosterone level increases, mental focus becomes sharper and sexual stamina is greatly increased since there is no ejaculation expected. At this point, however, I am making no advances toward experiencing multiple orgasms without ejaculation. That takes a great deal of control and I believe there are some risks involved. So for now, I’ll just stick with basic tantric cuddling which I like a lot. If I will happen to go-off during one of these sessions (through grinding or partial penetration) well, that will be it and I will start a new ‘clock’! I will not purposely ‘kill the mood’ in order not to ejaculate! I’m not that foolish! Read more »

“No Ejaculation For A Week: How Does That Feel?”

Well, I made it! It has been a full 7 days since my last ejaculation. Yes, I have had many erections and regular tantric sessions with my wife. But no climax. How do I feel? Let me try to describe it……

I am NOT:
– feeling horny all the time
– trying to suppress an erection during the day (they don’t seem to happen that often)
– thinking about penetration all the time
– developing a feeling of ‘blue balls’
– embarking on any Aneros sessions at least for the time being

I AM:
– producing a lot of precum during tantric cuddling
– getting aroused with a rock-hard erection very quickly when I’m in bed next to my wife
– noticing my package is longer and fuller
– sure I will be heading towards a wet dream soon if I continue to abstain
– able to trigger a nice Aless feeling when I want it

Frankly, I am surprised that I am able to refrain from ejaculating for a full week. Where am I on the arousal ‘mountain’? Right now, I don’t think I’m too far up.

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Conclusion: I was under the impression that I would ‘explode’ sexually after a week without ejaculation. However, that does not seem to be case, at least with me. Perhaps this is part of the re-wiring process? I guess the real ‘test’ will be when I reach the PONR and am ready to go-off. What will that erection feel like? How much ejaculate will I produce? What will that ejaculation feel like? Where will my cock be at the time (in or out?) Oh, the anticipation itself is very arousing! Read more »

“Short Refractory Period?”

Following just one day after my Super-T, I thought things would ‘settle-down’ for at least a couple of days. NOT! Things were hot and heavy with my wife this AM (quite unexpectedly but very intensely arousing). I didn’t climax but came really close. Following a nice swim, and entering this blog, I now have an amazingly STRONG anal/prostate pulsing which is blowing my mind! I thought there would at least be a refractory period during which time I would be at the ‘bottom’ of the arousal mountain! NOT AGAIN! I am actually going into erection mode just with some simple, easy kegels. What is going on here?

It is as if my body is in tune for a greater frequency of arousal and is rewarding me with unimaginable pleasures!

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I realize now that this was a ‘tantric sex’ session without climax. It started slowly but continued to build. It could have gone on longer but we ran out of time after about an hour.

PS: Had to lie down. Still experiencing anal/prostate pulsing. OMG! Experiencing at least three Dry-O’s in succession (with moaning).

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