Tag: Aneros

Holy Shit, the world just changed for me! What a ride!

Okay, 50 yo M here. Mostly, I just have to write this experience out. As much for me as to share with others.

Read about prostate orgasms, toys to achieve it, etc. Thought I’d try. My married sex life has become routine. Dull. Love my wife but sex for both of us simply isn’t that much of a priority anymore. For me this was/is as much about experiencing it as enjoying it. I want a frame of reference sort of thing (welcome to my psyche!).

Got an Aneros Helix, finally. Wife was gone for a few days to a wedding so I decided to have some fun with myself.

I will say that I’m not unfamiliar with physical feelings of pleasure, or analyzing what is going on with myself. I’ve done hallucinogens far more times than I can count in my youth, been so incredibly high with pulsing body stones, or mental confusion, etc. I know how to mentally center in the midst of it and evaluate, etc. So, being such a ‘heady’ guy I think I might overthink this thing and miss the mark. I have always been a *very* heterosexual man. I have gay friends but the though of a dick, or man’s ass just does SFA for me sexually. I may as well be thinking of a pair of pliers, or how I should cut the grass for all the sexual arousal gay sex gives me. Zip! Read more »

What model?

Hi, today I ask the age old question… What Aneros model should I purchase?

My back story.

I am not a complete novice when it comes to anal stimulation. I have taken dildos, plugs and other stuff of various sizes. Even my wife’s fist, but that was a while ago. I have milked my prostate manually with good success so I know where it is.

The reason I ask this question is that Aneros is unavailable in my country so I have to order it online. That takes a few weeks so I wanted to try and minimise the risk of ordering something completely wrong for me. Although I do realise that this could always be the case anyway.

Do you have any suggestions for me?

Wednesday 6/29/16 session, there is always Aless sweetness no matter what the session!

Hi guys,

I woke up this morning in the 4 o’clock hour as I do usually. Often I’ll listen to the news on the BBC and NPR Morning Edition for couple hours. Most mornings though I rise around six to get ready for my daily routine. But this morning, I woke up feeling horny and randy. So around 5, I prepped for a session using in order models Helix Syn, Progasm Jr, Tempo, and Maximus as I did on Monday.

There is hardly a morning when I have session that my body is not psyched for a session. My randiness and horniness this morning made me receptive for my models. The “do-nothing technique” is now second nature for me. Relaxation through calm breathing, with perhaps an occasional Kegel or two, activates the motion of my models. It is so wonderful that I am rediscovering Helix Syn and Progasm Jr in new, exciting ways. Helix Syn works well with subtlety, especially for experienced Aneros users, which is so gratifying for me. Progasm Jr truly “locks” itself in place delivering direct stimulation to my perineum, anal canal, and prostate. It is not so heavy duty as its older, bigger brothers of the Progasm line. Actually I could wear it around the apartment if I wished for possibly fifteen or thirty minutes or even an hour! Read more »

“Sweet Aless Session Takes Me To Nirvana”

I was up early this AM and decided to retire to my favorite couch for a while. Usually, I put on headphones and dose on some stimulating binaural beats or erotic hypnosis. However, this morning, I just decided to forgo the headphones and relax with an Aless session. I wanted to see how far I could ride.

I am always amazed at the feelings my body can generate Aless. Yes, it has been several weeks since my last “official” Aneros session and I do miss them. But the feelings I began to get while doing some light contractions (and reverse contractions) just seemed to put me into a blissful (Nirvana–like) state. OMG! The feelings continued to build, gradually, until I felt a ‘shudder’ all throughout my body. All the while, I felt a ‘quivering’ in my prostate that felt so good…..

I continued this session for about an hour. I probably dozed-off somewhere in between. When I awoke again, I am reminded of the blissful sensations I just experienced, knowing that I can return to this place anytime I want! I’m delighted to be a man! Read more »

Helix Syn: help with sweet spot, contractions, and lube

I’ve had the Helix Syn for 5 months and have about 15 sessions. I’ve had some success with milestones such as pleasure through contracting, feeling the prostate, sometimes on the sweet spot, occasional involuntary muscle contraction, overall enjoyment, jerking, pleasure by blood pulses internally, and moaning during the sessions.

I’m feeling blocked, although i’ve spent a dozen hours reading wiki and forum posts for ideas. I seem to be the most successful while standing or sitting / over slouched on the couch with my butt hanging from the edge. Challenges:

1. I’m unsure where my Sweet Spot is. I’ve tried the tests in the Wiki, but I can’t seem to nail down. Sometimes during a session I reposition the p-Tab and know it’s the right place, because I immediately begin involuntary muscle contraction, but soon quit if the p-TAB moves. I try to secure it with my fingers, but it moves and I lose track of the right position and have trouble to find it again.

2. I often get the most pleasure from the combination of moderate to severe rectal contractions with anal and clower pelvic/kegel contractions. But pleasure seems mostly to come from when the Aneros comes out and the p-tab is an inch or two from my perinium. As if my body wants to push it in and out, but if I’m not careful it ejects and I have to keep a hand there to keep from coming out. Does this mean that my prostate is more shallow than the Helix Syn and I should try another model? Read more »

Re-Wiring Reversing?

For the first time in 6 months, I have been away from home, (travelling in our RV) and my Aneros toys; no sessions for 5 days. I am used to having sessions 2 to 4 times weekly so I was sure my re-wiring process would be reversing itself. Does it ever reverse itself?

During the trip, I practiced Aless contractions and abdomen breathing on a regular basis (while driving, eating etc.). The feeling I was experiencing were almost as good as the ones I was feeling with the toys.

One morning in the trip, I woke up (at dawn) with a very hard erection and I just quietly contract my PC muscle with deep abdomen breaths. I was rewarded with an explosion of feelings that were almost orgasmic specially in my glans and this lasted for about a half our until I fell asleep again. This makes me believe these feelings may be similar to the successful Aless sessions described by so many members. If so, the future is looking good!

We returned home yesterday and my prostate was screaming for action. After my wife went to bed, I lubed up and inserted my Helix Syn. The feelings resumed to exactly where I left off 6 days ago. Read more »

Monday, 6/27/16 session, the power of Aneros subtlety *

Hi guys,

Wow, what a hot session I just had this morning, and wow, what sweet, powerful Aless as I type this entry!

I began with Helix Syn. My well-educated hole and prostate this model, my very first purchase Aneros product, rode it with such finesse and verve that it was uncanny. I didn’t need to prompt its motion. But I did perform Kegels and Reverse Kegels, which fueled my Aneros horniness.

Then I switched Progasm Jr. The same thing, only my smaller black version of the much larger Progasm Classic, Progasm Ice, and Progasm Ivory did something unique. I let Progasm Jr of its own accord massage a special area down there. It could have been my prostate or my anal canal, but it was sweet, powerful, subtle sexual energy that seemed like electricity, a buzz, which I am stimulating with Kegels as I type these words. I also used Kegels and Reverse Kegels on Progasm Jr. and what I produced was indescribable sexual sweetness.

Next I used Tempo, and again I didn’t to do anything. My anal musculature and prostate handled Tempo in their own way. The heavy stainless steel of Tempo magnified its action and its effect.

I concluded this morning’s session with Maximus. Maximus always slips easily and hits its target(s). This morning however Maximus seemed aggressive. So I had to go easily with Maximus. Read more »

“Semen Retention: This Ain’t Easy, Guys!”

I kind-of stumbled onto semen retention due to several personal factors: my recent experience with DE, discovering tantric sex and just no ejaculations for a week. I am on a new pathway now. It is now eight days and I feel I can go farther. However, IT IS NOT EASY! Let me explain…….

First off, my body is ‘adjusting’ to this newfound absence from ejaculation. Yes, the tantric sex sessions are extremely stimulating but since there is no expectation of climax, there has to be a sense of orgasm without ejaculation. This would be similar to an Aneros session! Have I experienced an orgasm yet? I don’t know for sure….probably not.

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Every day that passes now brings a new awareness of greater sexual stimulation (I’m climbing the mountain again and before long, I should be at the top, if I can hold-out until then!) Yes, there are some erections but not as many as you may think. I have done a fair amount of reading on the subject of semen retention over the past week and it definitely seems to “fit the bill” as far as my sexual progress is concerned. Some guys may be saying…..how can not ejaculating be considered progress? Well, it seems that the release of semen in males is draining in more than one way. By retaining semen, the energy is transferred or “transmuted” into other areas of the body. For example, it has been discovered that testosterone level increases, mental focus becomes sharper and sexual stamina is greatly increased since there is no ejaculation expected. At this point, however, I am making no advances toward experiencing multiple orgasms without ejaculation. That takes a great deal of control and I believe there are some risks involved. So for now, I’ll just stick with basic tantric cuddling which I like a lot. If I will happen to go-off during one of these sessions (through grinding or partial penetration) well, that will be it and I will start a new ‘clock’! I will not purposely ‘kill the mood’ in order not to ejaculate! I’m not that foolish! Read more »

“No Ejaculation For A Week: How Does That Feel?”

Well, I made it! It has been a full 7 days since my last ejaculation. Yes, I have had many erections and regular tantric sessions with my wife. But no climax. How do I feel? Let me try to describe it……

I am NOT:
– feeling horny all the time
– trying to suppress an erection during the day (they don’t seem to happen that often)
– thinking about penetration all the time
– developing a feeling of ‘blue balls’
– embarking on any Aneros sessions at least for the time being

I AM:
– producing a lot of precum during tantric cuddling
– getting aroused with a rock-hard erection very quickly when I’m in bed next to my wife
– noticing my package is longer and fuller
– sure I will be heading towards a wet dream soon if I continue to abstain
– able to trigger a nice Aless feeling when I want it

Frankly, I am surprised that I am able to refrain from ejaculating for a full week. Where am I on the arousal ‘mountain’? Right now, I don’t think I’m too far up.

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Conclusion: I was under the impression that I would ‘explode’ sexually after a week without ejaculation. However, that does not seem to be case, at least with me. Perhaps this is part of the re-wiring process? I guess the real ‘test’ will be when I reach the PONR and am ready to go-off. What will that erection feel like? How much ejaculate will I produce? What will that ejaculation feel like? Where will my cock be at the time (in or out?) Oh, the anticipation itself is very arousing! Read more »

Fathers Day session, 6/19/16 p.m.

Hi guys,

I arrived home from church exhausted from conversations with friends. In a way that was good although I felt famished. I changed out of my church clothes into casual summer clothes. I bought some light refreshment and went to Rose Park to enjoy the warm, yet dry weather with a glass of coke. Then back to the 7 Eleven for more groceries returning to my apartment.

I saw that @GGringo had posted a blog entry about his first session with Progasm Ice. So I prepared for a late Sunday afternoon session with Tempo and Progasm Ice. Tempo worked well once again on my right side and on my back. However, I fell asleep with Tempo still inserted. When I came to, it took a minute or two to realize this. Fortunately I exercised caution and withdrew Tempo. When I did this, I had intense, yet pleasurable Aless.

Then I worked with Progasm Ice, first on my right side and then on my back. I used Kegels and Reverse Kegels with Progasm Ice in a couple sets. Progasm Ice performed much better than ever before. So I will add Progasm Ice to my regular lineup of Aneros models. I should do the same with Progasm Ivory.

I must say that for the last month or so after each session I have that satisfied, well-fucked feeling that comes with Aless, to be ever savored as I work with Aless and that well-fucked feeling. It is so beautiful and makes me glad that I am a man! So that is my salute to Fathers Day! Read more »