Tag: Breathing

Progress report again, think I’m on the right path—what you reckon?

Hey there,

I wanted to follow up the post I made a little while ago to discuss new feelings and sensations I’ve been feeling with the toy.

One thing I want to mention, in case anybody new is reading this, **overuse is bad!** Prior to today’s session, I’ve had 3 pretty underwhelming sessions with the Aneros which were in quick succession, a day or two between them. Last I posted about it I said I’d take a break and refrain from using the toy for a week. I think doing that is why I’ve been able to have such a good session with it today, using the prostate too much leaves it feeling a bit sore, which isn’t fun.

I wasn’t planning to have a session this evening but I was laid in bed, struggling to fall asleep and I just felt horny. So I decided to pop it in.

I hadn’t been actively trying to do anything with the toy, when I put it in I was perhaps shivering slightly because it was cold but it didn’t take long to start feeling good. I realise I have tendency to hold my PC muscle at a certain point which seems to hold the toy in just the right spot that it feels like a pleasure spot is being pressed. It isn’t *intense* but it’s certainly a nice feeling.

The feelings were building, I don’t notice myself quivering the muscles around my bottom but I do feel a gentle body quiver, particularly my upper body and arms. Read more »

Any recommendation/opinion is welcomed

I have not yet achieved a super o and my goal is to achieve on a consistent basis that is why I bought the aneros

My usual practice is to insert the aneros and then to edge(masturbate) myself and try not to fully ejaculate

When I just insert the aneros I do not feel any arousal. But I can milk my prostate which means I can contract my pc muscle and a clear fluid is coming out of my D.

I have been told that you need to be aroused in order to achieve or discover the super o. The problem with arousal is that there are low levels and high level of arousal. The other problem is that the time of arousal can be very short or a bit longer than short. Therefore I am practicing edging which allows me to train my level and time frame of arousal. So the goal of edging is to be able to control my arousal if I ejaculate then obviously I cannot continue my practice. When I am almost at the edge which is the moment I am about to ejaculate then I am at the highest level and longest time frame of arousal

Today I was doing the same where I have my aneros inserted while also masturbating (edging). When I am close to the edge so the moment when I about to ejaculate. At this moment i was trying to focus deliberately focus on breathing with my belly and I started to notice a different feeling in my body. After that I ejaculated only a bit but my D stayed hard and I was able to continue my practice Read more »

Euphoria

This Saturday was different. It started at 0300 as two feral cats conducted loud diplomatic negotiations under our bedroom window.
This causing my wife and I to be awake well before her 0600 shift was due to start. Thanks cats I thought.
So as my wife left for work I had about 7 hours of free time in which I’d usually go for a Progasm session. This morning I meditated for an hour and went back to sleep for an hour… in my dreams I was moaning like a little bitch in heat with a Progasm screwing me over – woke up with a slightly sore throat and a fuzzy afterglow feeling… not sure but it felt like I’d had PGASMS while sleeping – that warm buzzy afterglow effect was in play.
On a whim I decided to do something different and grabbed my Eupho being a toy I’d never really got on with. Some gentle nipple play (several nipple gasms ensued) wow.. Ok lube the F*&! out of Eupho and insert gently.
Breath slow.. gentle… on back knees up feet flat.. breath.. what the holy hell? Super O – like a roaring wave of pleasure… and yet it felt sublimely gentle, like this wave had been teased out of me… it wasn’t the sledgehammer a Progasm sometimes is, no contractions needed just effortless gently starting building to a surge of pleasure over and over and over… after 30 mins of this I thought I’ll try the Progasm… still having orgasms and shaking I inserted the Progasm (more lube) – OK instant sledgehammer spasming Super O seeing colours and feeling like I’d left my body… carried on with the Progasm for 20 min then started to feel a little tired back there… removed. Cleaned up. Went and had cup of tea and vape (not weed) realised as I sat on the deck outside that ripples of pleasure were still happening.. put tea down.. ALESS super O and another and another… suddenly thought shit neigbours could see me. Staggered back indoors.
Ok. Time out. But prostate says NO. Lurch back to bed shaking and moaning (still Aless) go back to Eupho.
What followed was 90 mins of the most exquisite pleasure I’ve ever had.. I was one energised moaning and at one point singing ball of constant full body orgasm every cell in my body rang and I could feel myself rippling around the Eupho.
Exhaustion and dehydration finally called an end… drank a bottle of water and tried to pee (difficult with a swollen prostate).
Got dressed (took 5 mins because still shaking) went outside in the sun with my vape and felt my body blend into a wall of slow pulsing energy – just sublime.
Curled up back in bed to try and cool down… and just blissed out in a sea of ALESS orgasms and pleasure waves for another two hours then slept for an hour.
Later on having calmed down enough to be slightly rational I mowed the lawns. And wound up having more ALESS Wave orgasms while pushing a mower…. these carried on with decreasing frequency all day.. they got soft enough and gentle enough that they weren’t noticeable to anyone.
So a toy that I never got on with just turned me into a total space junkie without weed or indeed any great effort.
It’s gentle enough that my prostate doesn’t tire out and just about perfect for long sessions (for me). I think this is the beginning of a beautiful friendship.
Hope others weekends are going as well or better….. just wanted to share what has been an almost religious experience for me.

Wow! What just happened? Unintentional Aless?

TLDR at the end.

M 28. Long time lurker of this sub. Throwaway account obviously. Been using my helix syn on and off for a few years now, but the past few months I have been making some pretty substantial progress.

Yesterday morning I had the house to myself and decided to have a session before starting the day. It was pretty uneventful to be honest. Small p waves but I could tell I wasn’t in the right mindset. I was chasing the feeling, not letting it happen. Getting better at that but still it takes some focus. Even though I have been trying (unsuccessfully) to end my sessions without finishing with a traditional orgasm I couldn’t help myself. I edged with my syn still inserted and had a pretty decent traditional orgasm. I cleaned up and went about my day hoping my next session would be more eventful without my cock involved.

I get home from the gym last night and popped a weed gummy to relax and watch tv, nothing out of the ordinary for me. Watch some tv with the wife and have a good evening. I pick up a little around the house and it’s time to go to bed. My wife had gone to bed already and fell asleep while I was picking up and putting dishes away. At this point I’m not horny in the slightest, just a little high. I lay down in bed and about 30 seconds later I feel my prostate tingle and my pc muscle contracts involuntarily. This gets my attention. Read more »

I finally struck gold.

I post this in equal parts to pay it forward, hoping that my account might help someone else who’s still trying to figure this stuff out as I’ve been helped by so many posts here, and to assure myself that it actually happened.

I started my adventure in August this year with the purchase of Helix Syn. I was a complete newbie with no prior experience but for a few years I’d had the itch to try Aneros. Eventually I had to pull the trigger on it because it became apparent that it wasn’t something that would go away if I ignored it.

My first session wasn’t anything to speak of. I did feel something but I wasn’t sure what and if I hadn’t imagined it. To put it short, I was flying blind. Frustration began to mount and on a whim I ordered the Progasm. I was looking for anything that would give me direction. And boy, did it ever.

Its prodigious size was astoundingly helpful. Whereas with the Helix I was fumbling around, unsure what I should be doing, with the Progasm it was basically impossible to “miss”. Any muscle contraction would result in my prostate getting worked which pointed me to the exact sensations I should look for and showed me what movements were required. Read more »

A great session

I’ve owned a syn for multiple years that I bought as a curiosity. I never dedicated much time to learning it and seldom used it. I’d try once every couple of months and just shove it back in the drawer.

I read some recent posts for tips, and it really changed my session tonight. It peaked after about 10 minutes where I was shaking involuntarily, was hard, and had difficulty breathing. It still wasn’t a super o as I felt there was more to build to, but it was one of the most intense sexual experiences I’ve ever had. I got distracted from my prostate and forgot to keep breathing. I’m excited to try again as I’m definitely going to be picking it up to play with most evenings!

What definitely helped was a number of things:

1. I put a few pillows under my hips and it made it more comfy

2. I smoked a little weed which definitely helped me get in tune with myself and be more relaxed. I think I might have an edible next time for a longer session.

3. Clenching and breathing. I breathed deeply while flexing my pelvic floor 10-20% power. I played around a lot to found what worked for me.

4. I focused on the warm feeling behind my stomach that just felt really good and just relaxed into it. Don’t rush it.

Only getting HFWO looking for insight long post

Like the title says. I’ve been at this for like 10 years and only have had hands free wet orgasms that end the session.

I’ve used various aneros toys, the Njoy pure wand, dildos, plugs, and various other objects. So im well versed. Seems odd to say if I think back to shaking with anticipation and wonder the first time i used an anal toy.

Im straight so I took a bit getting past the stupid certain stigmas as a young adult. Im comfortable with my exploration now and respect everyone’s choices, so things have been a lot better since my mind is free and clear. Pot helps.

I’ve always been chasing a feeling I had when I first learned what my penis does. I didn’t cum. I was humping a stuffed animal straddling it (like I’d seen in adult movies on cinemax). I got really strong butterflies and warmth in my belly, pelvis, and anus. The feelings grew into tingling in my crotch and buttcheeks and before I knew it my chode, anus, and my buttcheeks started shuddering with pleasure. It was so good my muscles would give for fractions of seconds, and my whole body was warm and tingling. Rock hard erection but didn’t cum.

I’ve only got close to that ONCE since. I was just relaxing, breathing, and lightly playing with the rim of my ass. The same feelings started but I got distracted when someone came home. Read more »

First Experience – Aneros Progasm

TLDR: used the progasm for the first time and it absolutely ROCKED my world.

In terms of prostate play I would still consider myself a rookie but I am proud to say I’ve been slowly gaining progress. I initially started off with the helix syn (very popular choice in here), this helped my body better understand the difference between the muscles used in prostate play. After 6 months, I felt like it was time to step it up to the next level so I decided to treat myself to the progasm. Few days pass and I get a notification saying my progasm has arrived. I wanted to wait until the night since my body tends to react better but the anticipation and excitement was driving me CRAZY! After I lubed myself and relaxed the moment had finally come (no pun intended). I slipped in the program and WOW immediately my body started to tremble. I literally had to catch my breath and relax again since I was going out of control!! After probably about 2 minutes I was leaking out of control, probably the MOST I’ve ever leaked in my life. However, here’s the climax, literally after a few contractions my body couldn’t take it anymore and I exploded EVERYWHERE. Never in my life did I think a piece of plastic would drive me this insane! I don’t think I’ve experienced something so powerful ever in my life!! Read more »

Cock Head Massage

Esteemed old friend Turnrow and another fellow forum member have both asked me to talk about sulcus (cock head cleft) massage as a Super O enhancement and facilitator” as well as the practices I apply in stimulating my sulcus during a session. Specifically Turnrow asked me to respond to his request and elaborate in a blog entry. I have known Turnrow for many years as a reader on my WordPress blog and as an esteemed member of the “brotherhood of the prostate” here. So here you go Turnrow.

If I delve into my sexual practices immediately and provide background later, I am sure you will be afflicted with a certain stiffness that will hinder your ability to read serious content and understand my thought process (LOL). So ……… I will discuss the thinking stuff first. Then once you have background, I will get into the cock hardening stuff.

When I joined the forums many years ago and started on my path to achieve the holy grail of Super O, I followed the sage advice of respected elders of this community. These respected elders were hitting them out of the ball park so speak, so I dutifully did everything they suggested. Tantamount in their advice was the rule that prostate orgasm needed to be separated from penis oriented orgasm. The basis of the advice was that if one focuses on ones stimulated cock, it would be a distraction from sensation in the prostate and anal canal. In addition the advice also was rooted in the potential danger that stimulation of one’s cock would trigger ejaculation and “let the air out of the balloon” of your Super O. Read more »

My Second Tryst Part 3

Part 3
In my first hookup with a man two years earlier we were both nervous. At that time I was not really at ease with my morphing sexuality. However, two years had passed between my first tryst and this one. During that time, I grew to be more comfortable with who I was becoming sexually. I was getting more at ease with my changing desires and my anal orgasmic response; as I relaxed into my rewired “new sexuality”, a desire for male intimacy infiltrated my psyche. The desire to kiss a male sex partner became an expression of my libido and a must do in my menu of sex acts with any man and this one that evening in particular. Kissing had always been a cornerstone in my foreplay with women and that night it would be no different.

The key that opened the door to this new world that night was that I had cast aside my shame, and given into my limbic desire. My own admission to myself was feeding my libido. Revealing it openly and unabashedly to an attractive and very desirable male sex partner was feeding his libido in equal measure; his cock was stone hard. It was profoundly arousing. The excitement and lack of shame I felt kissing a hot naked man in foreplay was flying in the face of the social taboo that had governed me in my past; that excitement was forging my cock to iron. Kissing him on the lips was a big deal; however kissing him in bed in foreplay was beyond a big deal. All of this was having a profound impact on me. Read more »