Tag: Concentration

Sod's Law, Murphy's Law & drying laundry

I thought it was time to blow the dust off the blog.
I visit the site on a daily basis to see what is happening.
I have had many sessions with the Aneros, usually every second day.
On a couple of occasions I have come close but have not gone over the edge.

Sod's Law.
The wife is out for a couple of hours so I have a session.
Just coming to the boil and the house phone rings.
Her son answers but the moment is gone.
Concentrate, try again. Getting close and my mobile rings(The wife)
End of session.

Part 2.
Similar to the above but 2 day's later.
Wife out.
On the edge and my mobile rings.
Can I go to the neighbour as he wants to talk to me about something.
End of session.
Go to the neighbour, he is out.
Am I smiling.

Murphy's Law.
To the gentleman in Ireland whose Aneros was lost by An Phost.
This is an example of Murphy's Law.

Drying Laundry.
There was a post about "Pegging".
I had a read and saw that a "Feeldoe" was mentioned.
Googled it and had a read.
Posted the link to the original post.
It got me thinking.
The wife did say when we tried the Aneros together if
there was anything for her.
She ment front door not back door.
I told her I thought I had found the very thing.
Sat her down at the computer last night to look on the website.
Cannot acess site. Site has a problem.
Sod's Law!!!!!!!!!!!!! Read more »

Another morning session…

I’ve experienced some intestinal cramping in just about every session I’ve done so far so today I changed up a couple things. One, I skipped the anal douche, and two; I used Surgilube instead of Maximus lube. And guess what… cramping appears to be thing of the past! All I need to do now is narrow it down to either the douche or the Maximus. I suspect the douche is what’s causing the cramping…we shall soon see.

Another thing I changed up is how I approach my sessions. I feel I’ve been somewhat “short circuiting” my sessions by thinking too much about the path to the super-O. So from now on I’m going to attempt to put the super-O (or any other O) out of my mind and just enjoy the journey for what it is. If one day the super-O does show up on my doorstep that’ll be terrific, if not, that’s just fine too.

Just like the last session, today’s session generated very few involuntaries, but with the super-O thoughts banished from my mind I was able to concentrate more fully on the subtle movements of my Aneros. Every breath, every contraction, every movement, no matter how slight, produced the most exquisite feelings in my anus and prostate. It’s now been several hours since this morning’s session and I’m still floating on cloud nine.

I continue to be totally amazed how a little piece of plastic can generate such nice feelings. The Aneros has truly changed my life for the better. Read more »

Fast forward a couple of weeks

During the past couple of weeks I’ve discovered quite a few things that work for me. (And some that don’t).

1. As mentioned quite often in these forums and blogs, trying for a session every day is not productive, I’ve found I need to take a day or two off between sessions to make any progress.
2. So far my best sessions have been in the early morning (7:00 ~ 8:00 am) shortly after breakfast, kicked back in my recliner, mostly fully clothed.
3. The relaxation / deep breathing exercises work well for me, but the suggested 20 to 30 deep breathing / contraction exercises seemed to make me numb. I don’t know, maybe I was contracting much too hard and wearing myself out. I still may do a couple of hard or medium-hard contractions, but it mostly depends upon the feedback I’m getting at the moment on whether I do them or not.

This morning I had my best ever session…

Took a nice dump after breakfast, gave myself a quickie douche, lubed up the hole with a couple-three of cc of Maximus lube, lubed up and inserted my handle-less helix and headed for the recliner.

The other day while browsing the forums I saw where someone mentioned they took a towel, folded it in half length-wise, and then rolled both ends towards the center stopping when the rolls were the same width as their butt cheeks. When placed under the butt there is then plenty of room for the Aneros to maneuver. Today I tried this, and it was a winner. Read more »

Fifth session—wonderful and bizarre

Today has been bizarre.

After waking I had a quick Aneros-less session to start the day.

My energy levels today were nothing like they were yesterday, though I was still getting into listening to my music while I worked. There was something else, though—not quite depression but a melancholy and anxious feeling about something I couldn't quite identify.

In the late afternoon I was getting horny and decided to get into using the Aneros again. The first hour was unremarkable, mostly because I couldn't get satisfied with the lube. I had generously pre-lubed, but I couldn't get any of it to stay on the backside of the Helix (away from the prostate) and it would keep getting dry and irritating as it seemed to attach to the wall of my rectum.

I probably should try another type of lube; I've only been using ID Glide so far.

After re-lubing a number of times, I was finally getting into it. The next 30 minutes to an hour were filled with a number of wonderful dry-Os. But then things were starting to get kicked up a notch or two or three. Read more »

New experiences—some positive, others perplexing

In my first entry I mentioned I might try combining my pleasurable day-after effects with traditional masturbation. I did, and the result was one of the strongest orgasms and ejaculation I've had in recent memory; it was quite enjoyable.

That was last night. Early this morning I woke up to involuntary spasms and arousal sensations, as though I were having an Aneros session—but I wasn't! The convulsions literally woke me up. Unfortunately, I was still tired and wasn't in the mood to go for a spin. But there was no stopping the movements and sensations. Frustrated, I got out of bed and started my day—tired, but at least consciously able to suspend what would otherwise have been a pleasurable experience.

It wasn't long before my tiredness caught up with me, and I decided to take a nap. I slept for maybe an hour, and awoke again to the same orgasmic teasing and uncontrollable body movements. This time I was a little less tired, and kind of enjoying the experience, and since I couldn't seem to stop it anyway I gave in to getting the Helix and going for a full session. I practiced some deep breathing, trying to calm my body as much as possible. I focused on bringing the pleasurable sensations into every part of my body, filling me up. By concentrating on keeping my body completely relaxed, I think this helped spur the involuntaries as the only remaining avenue of release for the mounting erotic tension; I don't think I induced any voluntary contractions at all. Read more »

Very first experiences (3 sessions)

I've experimented with anal play a bit in the past, but have never been completely satisfied with it. In the short span of a few days, the Aneros has changed my entire outlook on sexuality and linked together a number of unlikely experiences in my life that until now simply seemed odd or unexpected. I'll elaborate after first describing the past couple of days.

Based on recommendations I gleaned from the Aneros forum, I placed an order for the Helix. However, anticipation got the better of me while waiting the few days for it to arrive, so I looked up a local retailer and picked up the MGX to get some instant gratification, so to speak.

My first session was a learning experience to say the least. The MGX was comfortable, and acceptable to me given my limited past experiences. Following instructions and the advice I've been reading, I relaxed and began becoming familiar with the sensations of my new friend. I eventually began experimenting with some contractions, and it was not long before I noticed a strong yet intangible reaction when fully contracted. I could not identify anything particularly pleasurable inside, but the P-tab was definitely doing something for me. Finding the "sweet spot" for the P-tab definitely goes a long way in getting pleasure. (As an aside, I found the pressure from the MGX P-tab to be a bit severe, and ended up adding some cushion in the form of a soft cloth.) Read more »

Something has changed

Thanks to the comment of slipperybugger, I tried inserting the aneros and concentrating on feelings from my lower body.

As I am not recognizing any feeling of my prostate, I tried to search for it with an old toothbrush. I know the pressure on my prostate as a painful feeling from a doctor visit in the past. Now with the toothbrush I did not recognize any feeling…

So my concetracte was on the rectum and peripherum. There was a little tingeling, but nothing to cry out in ectstasy only to say this feeling is nice.

I think from other posts in this forum, that this feeling is at the beginning of a very long journey….

I am curious about what else will come….

Thanks for your comments and suggestions.

Greetings from Germany.

Relax…

So my current approach during sessions is to relax and do mostly nothing. Sort of meditative and focus on deep breathing. But I do a twist on it. I get bored quickly doing nothing. So what I do is concentrate on relaxing all of the muscles in my anus. This gives my mind something to do. And really helps to bring on the pleasure with little to no exertion.

This method really makes it clear to me how consciously taking control of the action generally reduces pleasure. Plus I like the idea and practice of not working, or exerting so hard to feel pleasure. It feels nice to just relax and allow the pleasure to come to you.

I haven't reproduced the super-O yet. But hope this approach will bring me closer.

Love is Peace

Edging, and More Edging

This is a first. I actually started to write a blog entry on my great session from last night, but thinking about it gave me a buzz — so I had to have another quick session. When it's good, it's good!

But I'm getting ahead of myself. About three weeks ago, I discovered the joy of holding back. I was having a crappy, stressful week and couldn't jerk off for a while. By the time I was ready for the MGX on Friday it was 4 or 5 days since my last ejaculation. Although having a few dud sessions lately got me down, something stirring down there was telling me this one would be different. And it was. Mini-os, dry-os, Cheeri-os and just about every other kind of -o for about two hours with very little down time. The difference this time was that I was trying to re-create the fantastic super-T experience I wrote about a couple of blog entries ago. I know that Aneros tells users NOT to stimulate the penis during a session, but I've been getting fantastic results from gently rubbing or stroking the underside of the penis, then concentrating on anal contractions as the penis hardens. Let the penis soften a bit, then repeat. This sends me into beyond blissful waves of pleasure which are probably classified as mini-os (but not quite super-os, not that I'd know). At it goes on and I get closer to traditional orgasm, these waves get more and more intense. It's amazing. Read more »

Wednesday Weirdness

Great week. Had an excellent three hour session Monday with the MGX. It climaxed with about an hour of really intense p-waves and dry-os. Although now, looking at the wiki, I think I might possibly be having super-os. They feel like full fledged orgasms, but they're not full body encompassing or taking me over the moon as I've seen described. Whatever they are, it's fantastic! Strangely I've never had any involuntary muscle movements.

An odd thing about this session is that it was so intense, it made me kinda disoriented the rest of the day. You know the feeling of butterflies in the stomach? This was butterflies going crazy in the stomach, intestines, colon, penis, etc. That along with shortness of breath and a more pronounced heartbeat. Really strange and exciting.

That out of the way, I decided to do sessions twice a week, after my Monday and Thursday showers. Thursday couldn't come fast enough, however. My prostate was all aflutter on Wednesday. Finally I couldn't stand it and put the larger Peridise in. Bizarrely, the sensations stopped. Once it was removed, the feelings came back! It felt so good when rubbing my "sweet spot." Read more »