Tag: Perineum

“Tantra: Fantasy With A Stranger”

An amazing, amazing session! But, I decided that this blog will not be a “kiss and tell” narrative. Most of the details will remain private. However, here is the background……

I am in a bar just having a drink and chilling, when I meet a beautiful blonde. Well, we get to talking and we are really hitting it off! Somehow, we get on the subject of tantra and massage. I told her that I have some experience with self-tantra. Before too long, she invites me to her apartment where she can do a tantric massage on me “the right way”. She apparently has extensive experience with tantra so I eagerly said “yes”. She said, though, that there would be some ground-rules. First, she would be in control of me and all the details of the tantric massage. I was to remain completely passive. And second, only she would be in control of my ejaculation (if there was to be one). Not knowing what I was in for, I reluctantly agreed, and then we left the bar for her apartment. It was quite early in the morning……

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As I said, I will not include the details of the tantric massage as they will remain private. I will say that this was the most relaxing, sensual, thought-provoking tantric massage I have ever received (in fantasy) or given myself. It contained a number of “new” elements which I have not experienced before in a massage. Here are some of the elements as I recall them: Read more »

“Self-Tantra: Erotic Transformation”

OMG! What an erotically-supercharged session! I am eager to put this into words. [But I must caution in advance: this is going to get very graphic]….

This session began with some erotic music which I discovered on YouTube: “musica romantica erotica, compilation rilassante”. Very soothing and it seemed to put me in the right mood. To further accentuate the mood, coincidentally, a thunderstorm was approaching! Well, I decided that this ‘session’ was to concentrate only on my scrotum since it was clear from a previous session that I could experience more pleasure from that part of my body. I began to perform very slight touches, strokes, all-over and under. This continued for I don’t know how long. After a long while, I somehow began to move lower down the scrotum, towards the perineum and continued the touching and light ‘massage’ there. This kept up for a while and I began to feel a distinct bulge in my prostate. OMG! It is feeling amazingly good! ….. Read more »

First time with any type of anal/prostate play

As a straight guy (29/m), I’ve never had any experience with anal play or direct prostate simulation. I find myself “in-tune” with that area when I’m aroused and frequently apply pressure to my perineum subconsciously when I masturbate. However, I typically feel a “pressure” in my prostate area after I ejaculate. It almost leaves me feeling unsatisfied…Like the job was only halfway done. That’s what got me curious about prostate orgasms.

My new Helix arrived today and I couldn’t wait to use it. I thoroughly lubed up with a water-based lubricant and coconut oil to be safe. Laid on my side with one leg raised and inserted the toy.

I must admit, I really did not enjoy my first experience. Not that I disliked it necessarily, but I felt little sensation other than the feeling that I had to take a shit (I didn’t, that’s just the sensation the toy was giving me). I waited maybe 10 minutes but this feeling really didn’t subside. I really wasn’t aroused at any point and figured I would try it again another time.

I should mention I had cum twice already today and so maybe that had something to do with it…

Any insights or tips greatly appreciated!!

“Follow The Kegel-Brick Road!”

An interesting ride! Here is how it went down…….

I am continuing my ‘experiment’ with semen retention. Last night, following a 5-day stint, I had to reset the clock once again. An unexpected arousal and erection led to a 25- minute handjob from my wife that resulted in marathon moans and an explosive ejaculation! It took me about 5 minutes to recover from it. Needless to say, I was very relaxed and slept well.
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This AM, I awakened fairly early and decided to dose on a 30-minute binaural for hands-free male/female orgasm. Upon completion, I just decided to continue to relax and perhaps do a few contractions until it was time to get up. What happened next blew me away! For some strange reason, I decided to ‘experiment’ with the kegels. So, I started to do the following ‘sets’ of contractions:

(1) long hold for perhaps 3-4 minutes; (2) very rapid contractions for another 2-3 minutes; (3) no contraction at all for another 1-2 minutes (relaxation with auto-kegels).

I continued this for several ‘sets’. I began to feel what I thought was some prostate buzzing but it felt different this time. OMG! I think I am experiencing an anal orgasm and/or a rectal orgasm! I need to re-position myself on the couch. I am now rolled-over on my side or face-down and these orgasms are continuing! I need to put my fingers near/on my perineum and anus and I can feel the strong sensations down-there. This went on for probably 15-20 minutes or so. I am shaking, quivering and slightly moaning…… Read more »

Wednesday 6/29/16 session, there is always Aless sweetness no matter what the session!

Hi guys,

I woke up this morning in the 4 o’clock hour as I do usually. Often I’ll listen to the news on the BBC and NPR Morning Edition for couple hours. Most mornings though I rise around six to get ready for my daily routine. But this morning, I woke up feeling horny and randy. So around 5, I prepped for a session using in order models Helix Syn, Progasm Jr, Tempo, and Maximus as I did on Monday.

There is hardly a morning when I have session that my body is not psyched for a session. My randiness and horniness this morning made me receptive for my models. The “do-nothing technique” is now second nature for me. Relaxation through calm breathing, with perhaps an occasional Kegel or two, activates the motion of my models. It is so wonderful that I am rediscovering Helix Syn and Progasm Jr in new, exciting ways. Helix Syn works well with subtlety, especially for experienced Aneros users, which is so gratifying for me. Progasm Jr truly “locks” itself in place delivering direct stimulation to my perineum, anal canal, and prostate. It is not so heavy duty as its older, bigger brothers of the Progasm line. Actually I could wear it around the apartment if I wished for possibly fifteen or thirty minutes or even an hour! Read more »

Helix Syn: help with sweet spot, contractions, and lube

I’ve had the Helix Syn for 5 months and have about 15 sessions. I’ve had some success with milestones such as pleasure through contracting, feeling the prostate, sometimes on the sweet spot, occasional involuntary muscle contraction, overall enjoyment, jerking, pleasure by blood pulses internally, and moaning during the sessions.

I’m feeling blocked, although i’ve spent a dozen hours reading wiki and forum posts for ideas. I seem to be the most successful while standing or sitting / over slouched on the couch with my butt hanging from the edge. Challenges:

1. I’m unsure where my Sweet Spot is. I’ve tried the tests in the Wiki, but I can’t seem to nail down. Sometimes during a session I reposition the p-Tab and know it’s the right place, because I immediately begin involuntary muscle contraction, but soon quit if the p-TAB moves. I try to secure it with my fingers, but it moves and I lose track of the right position and have trouble to find it again.

2. I often get the most pleasure from the combination of moderate to severe rectal contractions with anal and clower pelvic/kegel contractions. But pleasure seems mostly to come from when the Aneros comes out and the p-tab is an inch or two from my perinium. As if my body wants to push it in and out, but if I’m not careful it ejects and I have to keep a hand there to keep from coming out. Does this mean that my prostate is more shallow than the Helix Syn and I should try another model? Read more »

“What Is The Pinnacle Of Male Sexual Arousal?”

Well, I was unable to perform an Aneros session last night. In addition, my wife was not very receptive to my advances. So, where does that leave me? Horny! Penis horny and prostate horny! I am writing this entry because with recent developments, I believe I am ‘pushing’ my limit of sexual arousal beyond where it has been at any time in the past.

As my arousal grows with no release (ejaculation or prostate orgasm) on my part, I distinctly feel that male ‘energy’ starting to build-up in my body, like before. Only this time, it seems to be much stronger. Therefore, I ask the question:

What is the pinnacle of male sexual arousal? Obviously, it is different for every man.

In my case, there are several factors at play:

-My recent visit to urologist, and having my prostate ‘thoroughly examined’
-Taking Cialis for a couple of days with resulting effects, then having to give it up (withdrawal effect?)
-No ejaculations for about 5 days now
-Recent dosing sessions of binaural beats for sexual arousal
-Recent dosing of erotic hypnosis for ED
-Continuing to swim most days. This is a sexual turn-on in itself, not including the stimulating effect of the cool water

In essence, I can feel this sexual ‘energy’ building up in every part of my body and it is SCREAMING for release! I have a constant quivering in my anus and my prostate that will not stop now. I have a bulge in my perineum. I need to ejaculate! Read more »

Chapter 8

So after a few weeks of chat in which we goaded each other’s arousal by volleying lurid chat back and forth between us. By the end of five weeks parrying each other’s libidos to desperate passion we decided that a meet up was definitely in the cards. We set up the planned meeting to be in NYC where he lived. I needed to be in the city for work so I would have a hotel room for our tryst. I got the room mid town Manhattan where we could be anonymous in the crowd.

When the day finally came I was aroused beyond words at the prospect of getting together and experiencing the things we had had chatted about. After what seemed like an interminably long drive of 2 hours I arrived at the hotel and checked in; it was 7 PM. I was two hours early. Two hours seemed like forever to wait, but I had no choice so I did. After showering I settled in to watch TV while I waited. Read more »

“Helix, How High Can I Go?”

I was already greatly-aroused. Following a “tantric” cuddling session with my wife, I retired with a nice hard erection. I was awakened in the very early AM still aroused and checked-out some erotic music, sexual arousal hypnosis and binaural beats for about two hours. Guys, I was feeling it and was in desperate need of a session!

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I quickly lubed-up the Helix (this is the one my body wanted) and took my time inserting it. I got it in only half-way and let my body take over the rest of the way. It took about 2 minutes overall (very nice!) I got onto my right side position and began very light contractions. Surprisingly, I did not have any auto-contractions this ride. However, I began to feel an almost immediate pleasure, almost like a “quiet ache” that seemed to intensify quickly. I began to practice a “new” technique for me which I don’t remember doing before: I did a fairly slow, strong contraction and HELD IT for an extended period (perhaps a minute or so) and slowly relaxed. As I did this, I began to experience some toe-curling feelings from my prostate. What happened next blew me away……. Read more »

Chapter 6

Mid morning I left them as they showered and cleaned up from the nights activities. Compared to sexual activity with a woman, sex between three guys means three guys spewing cum. And then considering that each of us came several times, the bed was covered in semen. The opportunity to go back to my own room and clean up was very appealing. So after a soft relaxing shower I decided to go outside and spread a blanket on the grass and doze in the sun.

The intense session with the two guys left me wasted and drained. I was exhausted. After arriving back in my room I drank glass after glass of water, I was totally dehydrated from the cum spew I had done the night before. I spent the first hours after I got cleaned up drinking water and sleeping in the sun on that soft blanket spread on the lawn in the yard. Lying with the warm sun licking my body was mesmerizing, lulling me into peaceful serene slumber. I dozed on and off for the better part of the day.

Yet oddly enough while my body was exhausted and relaxed, my arousal was roaring like an inferno. My balls felt like they had run a marathon, yet in spite of my fatigue, my cock stiffened and lengthened as it was warmed by the cress of the suns warmth and sweet sexy memories. Drifting in and out of soft naps as I lay there, I was keenly aware that my cock was stone hard and my anus was tingling and quivering. An orgasmic knot had developed deep in my asshole from the extended sex of the last few days. My prostate was erect and buzzing. My libido had been ignited and would not be extinguished. Read more »