Tag: Perineum

Night Play

It's been about three weeks that I've been using the MGX and things are going swimmingly. One night last week I tried using it at night instead of the usual daytime. Usually I avoid that time since I don't want to wake the partner up with the sounds of a shaking bed! (we have separate bedrooms, by the way)

At first, nothing much happened and I considered giving it up for the night. But — having no light makes a big, big difference in terms of clearing your mind and focusing on the various feelings you get. After awhile I was generating a general "warm" feeling all through my midsection. I was doing my usual on my side with gentle pelvic thrusts and a contraction when my midsection was pointing out. I remember at this particular session that I was really getting the hang of controlling the muscles down there. I was getting a better understanding of which ones need to move which way to touch the sweet spot. Pretty soon I was getting the most pleasurable sensations yet. An incredible building went on for about five minutes. Instead of fantasizing about something concrete, I focused on the MGX itself and imagined it was a tongue and my body was a lollipop that got turned on by being licked. Strange as it sounds, that got me pretty hot! After that 5 minute wave of pleasure, I switched sides and couldn't quite replicate the sensation (although I did get some pretty good mini waves going). Read more »

First Few Sessions: Whoa

I first found out about the Aneros a couple of weeks ago in an online forum. Curiosity piqued, I eventually found out more at this very website and immediately bought an MGX at a locally owned sex toy shop. It seemed a bit pricy, but after reading all the stuff about how wonderful it was, what did I have to lose? Turns out it was a wise investment.

I couldn't wait to try it out the next morning after the partner went to work. Having had a lot of anal experience, the lubed MGX slid right up there nicely. It felt odd at first, but good! I laid on the bed and did some breathing exercises to calm me now. Unfortunately for some reason (nervousness?), I was easily distracted and the session wasn't as good as it could have been. I got into some sphincter-tightening and eventually built up a nice, low-level tingly feeling, but that was about it. Mostly this time was spent getting used to the aneros. At one point I started thinking sexy thoughts and my dick went from soft to rock hard in about two seconds – interesting. Since I had held off for several days, it ended with a nice but not mind blowing penile orgasm. Read more »

Energies and Transformations

The following is a post on my blog at the KSMO site but it all applies here too. It is a further example of our couples practice that has merged Aneros and KSMO so closely.

I had my first session, after an earlier brief experimental one, with my new Helix a few days ago and have had after effects and general Butt Buzz since then, which was part of energizing this morning's love nest described below! Helix is my new best friend; but that is before Eupho has a real session! So it remains to be seen…

"After sensing a misunderstanding in the Aneros Chat focused on KSMO, and having the very good discussion in our Evening KSMO Chat later on the 10th, I have been reflecting a lot on the nature of what I have experienced over the last year and a bit, referring back to the Three Models post earlier.

The question is, how expansive, transformable and transformative are the energies that can be tapped and directed using the Key Sound?

I would really appreciate thoughts and points of view from other perspectives.

This morning, mrs. a and I stayed in bed after waking early and had a wonderful time. After early delights and some traditional p>v intercourse we settled down to our intent which was focused more on her prostate (G-spot), still penile/vaginal rather that our mutual manual Wedding Band position. Read more »

ed's journey

been doing a lot of sessions in the last few days–can seem to get near the threshold but never over it–got the peridise advanced set yesterday and used the larger 20 mm one yesterday and this morning–also tried the smaller 16 mm one just now–they are similar but different– i like both, in fact the 16 mm makes me want to buy the eupho, the movement is so exquisite, which is what i imagine the eupho will give from all i have read about it–i have been able to relax to generate a good feeling and then catch it with the slightest contraction i can make, both anally and pc-wise–then it builds and builds but never goes over that edge where it self generates–fun though–sure wish i could learn that method which will make it self sustaining, leading to nice orgasms, one after another–now i can bring one on after another tapers off but they are not earth shattering nor repetitive–can anyone out there help me?–maybe i should ask on the general forum??–will try the 16 mm again after some rest–i find that i have to piss a bucket after an hour or so–i have the feeling of needing to piss with the buzz from ass to prostate, but when i take a break i find that i really do need to piss so badly–making a ton of precum too!–wish i could get over that edge just once to see how to do it–oh well i guess i'll just wander dumbly along until i stumble on it and then have to stumble along again until i recognize what i have done–that's how it is with this journey–you can do the right thing but not recognize it at the time and then have to search for it again, hoping you realize it when you do it again out of trial and error–that's the way it has been with me about the relaxation and the contractions–i think i know now what is what but i still don't know everything i need to know–when i get this thing cracked i will probably be spending hours on my back reaping the rewards for all this work Read more »

ed's journey

i took yesterday off as i thought that my prostate had been extensively stimulated by both the external massages and the aneros sessions–this morning i prelubed and used the helix and it was as i thought it would be, namely, a little less than last session–it has been my experience that a great session is never followed by another great session–i could get the control i discovered last session but not the looped maintenance of arousal i wanted–so, all in all, it was a good session but not great and not instructive–i definitely need to move the p-tab around during a session to get the feedback i need and to vary the contact with my prostate–also i think the fact that i had not voided my rectum made it a bit more difficult–my good session always allowed a bit of time after a bm to provide more mobility for the aneros–i will have another session this afternoon

ed's journey

well, i've had a lot of no advancement sessions and maybe even some one or two steps backwards sessions since the last post–tried cutting back the hot glue and also reshaping it–got feelings going but could never complete the loop to self generating feelings–very frustrating after thinking i had cracked it!–finally decided that the p-tab just wasn't hitting my spot and that the pressure on my perineum was too great–i discovered the post on the forum about external prostate massage exercises and after doing them i saw that my prostate responded better to soft, subtle poking rather than hard, aggressive poking, so i thought that this would be true for the p-tab too–therefore i removed all of the hot glue from the mgx and the helix and tried them again–success!– what i had been missing in closing the loop was the feedback from the external pressure on my perineum, just as i had thought–maybe it should have been obvious to me earlier cause i could generate the feelings i was after but could not get them to self generate–anyway now i could get the loop closed and now i had to learn how to start the feelings and how to control and vary them–i have always been greatly confused about contractions and complete relaxation and when to do one and when to do the other–now what is working for me is almost complete relaxation to get a little flutter going and then very, very light contractions to keep them going once started–also i can now use anal and pc contractions for different effects–after a flutter starts i can capture it with a slight anal contraction and place the prostate massager in different spots on my prostate to generate different sensations by varying the anal contraction to move the massager up and down my prostate–then when i like the sensation from the degree of contraction and the placement on my prostate i can use my pc contraction to "play a tune" that pleases me on that spot–different spots on the prostate feel different and different intensities of pc contractions feel different too–so using this and varying the frequency of the pc contractions i can find what i like and then maintain this pleasurable activity until i discover something else to amuse myself–if the feelings go away i simply relax as much as i can and then "capture" the next pleasant feeling that comes along with another slight anal contraction–in this way i can try to maintain pleasure and start pleasure almost as long as i want– i haven't gotten the out of control, i guess it's a super o, response yet but now again i feel that i am closer–last week i wondered if i would ever get here and so close–i can't say enough for those external prostate massages as posted in the forum–i do them in the morning, before getting out of bed and they make my prostate all warm and alive–they feel like the echos one has the day after an aneros session without the aneros–i recommend them to everyone–they will wake up one's prostate and get it conditioned for aneros activity–also they will teach one what to look for when searching for pleasant prostate feelings and where they are located–part of the learning process is knowing what you are looking for–this is hard as one needs to feel it himself and to identify it and then to see what controls it, and someone else cannot do this for you–today i had all the models in and out and i stopped several times and did other things, etc, and i was able to start again whenever i got back to bed–i inserted whatever model i wanted to use and took right off into my pleasure–i knew when something wasn't going to work and so changed the p-tab location and then i also knew when something would work and simply waited for it to happen–i think now i will know when simply lying there will be productive and when it won't–i used to waste a lot of time waiting for things that never happened and i think now i won't–also i think that now i can try a different approach if something isn't working–hope this helps someone

ed's journey

i have been doing the last few sessions without prelube cause everything seemed to be going fine just before that, but then they slowed down, so yesterday i prelubed again–this is something i think i should do all the time no matter how well things are going–i got a lot more movement although nothing to sustain and nothing earth shaking–i will continue reshaping and repositioning the hot glue until i get back to where i was more than a week ago–i really think that i am not on my sweet spot and that makes all the difference in the world–i will also try the advice i read today about lightly rubbing myself between my p-tab and my balls–several reported that this works quite well for them–they said that they could feel the aneros under their fingers–sounds like completing the loop with their fingers instead of the p-tab–also tried the butt cheek spreading trick but it didn't seem to work for me–maybe i didn't hold them apart long enough, although i did for as long as i could–it is hard to position my fingers and hands down there and to hold the position for a long time–i feel that i am quite a bit farther behind than i was several sessions ago–it seems like i am nearer the beginning than the orgasm

8th session – First Super-O!

Today I started out by relaxing and massing my perineum after I inserted my Helix. I then tried several positions, such as on my stomach, on my knees, on my back with legs down, on my back with one leg up, on my back with both legs up, on my stomach with my ass in the air, etc.. Then I decided to go for a super-t, since I am familiar with "edging." When I felt I was ready to cum I stopped and contracted my anus, pulling the aneros deeper inside of me, and then letting go. When I was ready again, and felt like I was not going to cum, I started again until I felt that feeling again, and repeated the process. Each time I felt like I was going to cum, and I stopped, I got a mini-o, and I got harder and harder. After about 5 stop and starts I started getting anpther mini-o after I stopped. I went with the feeling, but it evaded me, so I started jerking again and shortly I felt like I was going to cum again, so I stopped and this time I felt a huge wave of orgasmic energy wash over me, but I stayed hard and did not ejaculate. After I felt that subside I started jerking again, and felt that same feeling, yet it was more intense and lasted longer. I lay there for a bit and got a few mini-o's hands free, and then started jerking again. By this time I was leaking a lot, yet I still felt like I could go longer. I started and stopped a few more times until I felt like I was going to explode, and then took my hands off of my penis, and started getting another super-o. In the middle of the super-o I started jerking again and couldn't hold back any longer, and I shot a huge load. While I was having the super-o I saw flashes of purple and felt like I was outside my body. I never expected the super-o to be so intense, even after reading all fo the posts here. Until you feel it yourself it's really impossible to imagine what it feels like – it is in another realm than an ejaculatory orgasm. I liked cumming, but it was actually not as fun as the waves of mini and super-o's that I was feeling for about 20 or 30 minutes. Read more »

ed's journey

i know i said i'd wait several days for another session but i didn't–i wondered what the helix would be like after this progress with my mgx and so i tried it out–not too much happening so i decided to add some hot glue to the p-tab like on my mgx–well i tried it out at 2:40 this afternoon and it was better than in the morning without the glue–also tried the last 10 minutes with no massager and i really think i get more action empty than with the aneros in–now i will wait at least 2 days before another aneros session but i bet i'll get some action empty without even trying before then whenever i lie on my back–i feel some thumping in my prostate right now while sitting and writing this–i had warm feelings and cozy feelings in my prostate several times today while shopping and standing around holding a shopping basket–it seems that my wiring is coming along fine

More Modifications & 2nd Session

Last night I woke up in the middle of the night and my body seemed to crave the Aneros a bit, but I was too tired and went back to sleep.

Today I got an extra fine emery board and polished up my Aneros to a smooth glass-like finish. I also added a 3/8" vacuum compression line cap to the P-tab, so instead of a dime-like edge it has a nice round ball. I added the cap by simply sliding it over the P-tab, and it is easily removed, with no damage to the Aneros itself, so if I decide to try it out with just the thin edge again I can do so.

I also decided that I was not using enough lube in my ass during my previous session, so I got a Red Cross Brand Baby medicine syringe, and measured out 5 ML of Astroglide. After seeing what 5 ML of lube looks like I definitely knew that I did not have enough last time. Read more »