Updating

Just to bring you up to date. I’m not ready yet to declare what I make of all this or what my theories are of how to provoke what I’ve experienced, so I’m just going to lay out what’s been happening.

I did order the Helix, and found a good price ($45) on Amazon.com. The problem is that it took a week for the seller to ship it, and after almost another week, it’s still not here. If you have patience and price is a big factor, a reseller may be a good choice, but if your need is urgent, maybe you should order directly from the manufacturer.

I lost a few days after my last post because of some personal difficulties that took away any incentive for pursuing pleasure for a while. But after a few days, things returned to normal and I resumed my interest in the Aneros.

My next couple of tries with the device were kind of disappointing. I could get the involuntaries and some P-waves, but they easily faded. It was fun trying, but I didn’t pick up where I left off.

Just ordered my first Aneros – why I decided to give it a try

I discovered the Aneros website just last week, so this weekend I haven't spent much time on anything besides obsessively reading up on the subject and having breaks for food, sleep and bathroom. Haven't left the house since Friday and it is now Monday noon. But let's start from the beginning of my end.

In 1998, when I was 23, after having tried some lubed backdoor fingering, I got my first anal toy. This was a rod of thai jelly beads with double ends, one larger and one smaller with five beads each size.

I have got myself ten or so different toys over the past decade. In retrospect, these probably were more for the female body even though marketed as they would fit both. Their effects often disappointed me, but with a few exceptions, so at least they made me curious to try other toys once in a while.

The rod of beads for example gave good pleasure while slow-thrusting and if left inside, they could make my ejaculation stronger. Sometimes I also could take my hand(s) off my penis right before the finish line and the beads inside would take me across, with less friction and more pure pleasure as a result. This is still my favourite toy, probably because it bends, which many other toys don't.

Where I'm coming from

10/24/2009 3:20:35 PM

Ten years ago I bought an Aneros. At the time, I believe they had only one model, what’s now called the “Classic.” I read the directions and experimented with it over a period of weeks, but I had no success. It was trouble to fool with, since you had preparation and clean-up time involved, and that had always steered me away from any kind of anal play, so I eventually left it in the nightstand drawer. Every couple of years I’d pull it out and try it again, but I never made any progross toward the special sexual thrills it was supposed to convey.

In the past year, however, I’ve begun to enjoy anal play more and more. I’ve gotten over some of my aversion to it on hygienic grounds, and I’ve begun to add light touching or insertion of fingers to my masturbation routine fairly often. Then something I read somewhere made me think that prostate massage just might be beneficial for my erratic PSA scores. No looming health crisis, thankfully, but a urologist who worries about me (bless his heart). And I remembered the massage therapist who once told me I carried a lot of tension around my anus. So I thought again of the long-disused Aneros, and I fished it out and went to the web to read about it again, since I’d long ago lost the directions.

The right fantasy counts the most! ;)

Ok people…
I just had the most amazing Aneros session. 😀

But let me step back a moment in time today. When I woke up this morning I was feeling kind of frisky from a dream. So I figured I might try an Aneros session. Helix first, which never felt comfortable. (I'm starting to think that maybe I've gotten used to how a particular Aneros model feels in me.) So after a bit I removed that, and inserted the Progasm. I just didn't have much results at all. And noticed that I wasn't having a lot of success with the sexual fantasy thing. So it was probably a pretty short session.

Fast forward to later in the day…
I decided to look at some porn for the heck of it on the Internet. I read some erotic stories first, and then looked at some pictures. But it was the stories that really got my imagination going, and my prostate was feeling really, really excited. So this one story really effected me, I read it three times and it excited the hell out of me each time. So I quickly shut off my computer and went to my bed to have an Aneros session with my Progasm. My GOD!!! Many wonderful dry-O's were to be had! Both from rubbing my penis, and some from not. Although the ones without penis rubbing were still low in pleasurable sensations, but still good to experience. Anyways, after many dry-O and probably mini-O's, I edged just a bit too much rubbing my penis, and ejaculated a little bit. So I figured, what the hell, I haven't ejaculated since last Sunday. So it's been about four days. Well let me tell you that was the most amazing super-T and ejaculate spawned orgasm I can ever remember having. The intensity was really, really high! But what really got my attention was the duration felt like a long time! I remember thinking maybe about halfway through it, I can't believe I'm still orgasming! LOL 😀 And then I looked down and saw the biggest pool of cum on my belly I think I've ever seen! Good God! I feel very relaxed, calm, and happy at the moment. What an experience!

Making progress!

So I think that I am making some progress towards achieving super-O's. And thought it would be prudent to post my experience and thoughts just after my Aneros session. I was inspired to have a session without looking at porn prior, and just knowing that my body was ready and/or accepting of an Aneros session by Cockadoodle's new thread.

http://www.aneros.com/forum/penis-not-part-ii-t4670.html

Not that I personally think that porn is bad for you. But it was more of just learning to trust that I could be, and/or make myself aroused without it. So I went into this session not particularly aroused, somewhat tired, and at the tail end of recovering from a hangover headache. Certainly not the best circumstances to go into an Aneros session. So I was quite surprised with the results.

Now the funny thing is, is that what I did during this session goes completely against Cockadoodle's penis not philosophy. For some time now I've not been a strict follower of rules with Aneros play. As I've found that following my pleasure is more important. Although I have for the most part in the last few months adhered to the no penis touching during an Aneros session, and practicing ejaculation abstinence to increase arousal.

The reading I've done here in the forums has shown that other users have success achieving super-O's with different techniques. Woodsman's thread is a good example of that.

http://www.aneros.com/forum/my-unusual-path-to-ecstasy-t4529.html

Like a dog

So, after a relative good first session, I was ready for some more action with my Helix.

Before I actually started with my second session, I aroused myself by downloading some good porn. Next thing was to do some bowel and take a nice hot shower.

This time I used oliveoil to lubricate my anus and Helix. This lubrication is really nice to use, I often use it when I masturbate because it doesnt dry out. The problem I had yesterday though, was that I lubed up the Helix too much, which caused it to drop down and then my fingers got all lubed up, and then I had to clean that really well. Also when I lubed up my anus, I noticed that the perenium area was kind of slippery as well. So I need to do that a bit more gentle the next session. But aside from that, this lubrication is awesome.

So this time I decided that I needed to be well relaxed. I downloaded some music from Air, their album called Moon Safari. I really recommend this type of music for you guys, it gets you really relaxed. Nice and easy listening tunes 😉

New discoveries

So last night as I started a no-Aneros session sitting in front of my computer while looking at porn, I noticed that I wasn't having much sensations. I also noticed that my conscious contractions had unknowingly shifted to PC muscles only. So just to experiment I tried contracting just my anal muscles, and was pleasantly surprised by very pleasurable sensations. So I worked with holding a quite firm anal contraction, and found that it kept the level of pleasurable sensations quite high. And that unconscious anal contractions would still occur within this firm hold that were very nice. I probably mixed in some PC muscle squeezes in there also.

This got me wondering if perhaps what I thought to be light squeezes were not hard enough. As I've often read posts in the forum about the muscles in the anus and PC group needing to acclimate and tone up. This also gave me the idea that there is more to the Peridise then I may have previously understood.

So I started an Aneros session with my Progasm. It was ok. I tried doing the firm anal contractions, which felt good. But I noticed that the Progasm stem is too large in diameter to get those wildly pleasurable sensations on hard anal squeezes that I was getting in my no-Aneros session. And it also seemed like the Progasm went too deep past my prostate on hard squeezes. I'm not sure how important that is. But switching out the Progasm for the largest of the advance Peridise confirmed my suspicions. I was able to get similar sensations with firm anal squeezes as I did in my no-Aneros session. On top of that, I got this wonderful sensation of the Peridise kind of squirming in my ass. That was a really nice sensation!!!

A Do-Over

So, after buying the product earlier this year with hopes of being one of the few that experiences amazing results in no time, I found that I didn't feel anything life altering. It was more uncomfortable than comfortable, so I put it in my sock drawer and forgot about it. I recently got a new dresser and when I was transferring my clothes over, I found it again. I wasn't feeling particularly horny, but I decided that instead of watch porn and stimulating my penis, I would try again. Popped it in and just laid there for a couple of minutes. Well, I felt something twitch and boom something took over. The first sign was my heart rate started to speed up, and I my penis started to twitch and I got a semi-wood. I tried to breathe through it. I got waves of a feelings that felt like they were building. I was on pins and needles hoping for a new level of wave. Then my heart rate went back to normal. It may have lasted about 5 minutes, but I am not watching the clock when this is happening. Well, needless to say I want more. I want to get that Super-O. I laid there for another 45 minutes, and near experienced the waves again, but I will stay that I was hornier than ever. The next day I was just sitting at my desk and my heart started to quicken a little and I knew it was time for me to start another session, but I had somewhere to be and I didn't have time. Later that night, I did a new session of 1 hour, but I didn't get anything. It was more uncomfortable than anything. I used a generous amount of lube and I wasn't dry by any means, but I feel like it burns a little closer to the hole.
I am having a hard time finding useful links in the forum. I looked for a sticky that was for beginners and training techniques, but all I find is success stories. I decided to start this blog because I want to track my progress. I have lots of questions about how many times a week I should attempt, but the forum is so disorganized that I might just post them here and see if I get a response.

Ah, that was good, time for a little re … oooo… maybe not

Man, I've had this happen before but it still is astonishing and I really felt like writing about it.

I was getting really horny looking at porn and decided to do a session. Lubed up and got going. I had about 4 or 5 mini-O's in this 20 min time span and they kept creeping up on me.

I would finish a mini-O and think that I could you know rest/enjoy a small afterglow. But it seemed the act of relaxing that much just switched something on and started the march to another one.

Its great to have a toy that gives you sexual release multiple times in a short time and I didn't even need to masturbate. Mind you, sexual release with the aneros is different than a regular jo session.

This toy keeps proving itself to me that it is worth every damn penny.

weird sensations?

yesterday I was watching porn, and I was really really horny, and suddenly anal contractions started, like my butt needed the aneros…am I getting used to it????

today I tried again, and the anal contractions started too 🙂 and I can feel like something swollen inside me..finally I think I'm understanding the sensations of the prostate swelling 😀

can't wait for my next session!