Aneros users blogs and guides
Hi everyone! I’m an East Asian trans woman and I recently discovered what the prostate is.
I think it’s something I want to explore some more. Which one should I start out with? Is there one that works better tor trans women?
Are there any that are more comfortable to wear under clothing to go about my business? I looked on the website and I like the white ones. They look kind of adorable.
Any advice would be greatly appreciated!!
Has any uncut guy tried *slowly* (every side) rubbing their retracted [“ridged band”](https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Ridged_band) area of their foreskin like [this](http://www.can-fap.net/preview/fundraiser_preview_multipleforegasm.shtml) or [this](https://www.reddit.com/r/EdgingTalk/comments/q001ww/uncut_edging_guide_ridged_band_stimulation/) while simultaneously using their Aneros? I couldn’t stop moaning from the pleasure.
It was by far the most I’ve felt in my life. The foreskin and prostate are the two most underrated parts of a man’s body in terms of sexual pleasure. By far. I barely even touch my bellend when I’m edging or using my Aneros anymore. It isn’t where the fun is. The tip of my foreskin is ***so much more pleasurable*** when properly stimulated vs. the glans. (The two links above literally changed my edging life. omfg.) I can barely find anything about this area online and I’m absolutely shocked it isn’t mentioned almost anywhere. Is it absolutely crazy for anyone else? Am I just imagining things? Why is there so little about it online? Am I the only uncut guy who nearly exclusively touches it when using my *Aneros.*?
For the past two weeks, I’ve obsessed with stimulating the nerves of the foreskin’s ridged band while my Aneros drills me. It’s the most pleasurable and multiorgasmic part of my penis and it converts Aneros edging into something unholy. I worship my cocksnout so much now.
With Aneros and this rabbit hole… I just want to moan and scream in pleasure. I recommend everyone try it and reporrt back.
I’ve (21 m) been using the Helix Syn Trident for about half a year and had my first experience with involuntary contractions today and I want to make a post about it.
I was feeling kind of passively aroused so I decided to go for it just with the intention of experiencing some nice feelings and relaxing for a little bit. I feel like this might have had something to do with what happened, me going into it horny but with an intention to relax.
It started normal for me, just some nice feelings, feeling a little bit like I was floating/relaxing. I normally play around with different contractions while occasionally using the do nothing method and I try to let my body do what feels right. *Normally I lay on my back with my knees bent, feet on the bed, but this time I was fully flat on the bed with just my head on a pillow*.
I started to do a few contractions and the slowly, on and off, became rhythmic with occasional bursts or holds. Every once in a while, I would halfway or one-quarter clench and the helix would “buzz” against my prostate like a vibrator for a moment and when it did I would release a little precum. I have occasionally leaked a tiny bit in the past but never before like this, where I could feel it flow out just a bit.
I’m an experienced aneros user who has never gotten much from nipple play but I want to learn. Sure, it feels nice but eventually I feel stuck. I lightly touch them, circle them and pinch. Eventually, they stop feeling anything.
I’m interested because some users describe their nipples feeling connected to their prostates. The Aneros wiki also talks about them. I’d love any additional tools I can learn in the prostate journey.
To those who swear by nipple stimulation, could you describe your process and how it helps drive arousal?
My partner has super low sex drive due to medical, hormonal and situational reasons. I’m super supportive and patient but I have needs. Our progress or desire to have progress has stalled.
Finding prostate play has given me a new lease on life. I’m new to aneros with only a a few sessions so far and nothing amazing to report.
But I feel great, I have control, I have excitement, anticipation, new experiences.
What I love about sex, giving oral etc; is the female orgasm and it’s complexity. I feed off it, ride the wave, I love the endorphins.
But now I can have all that mediative and spiritual like experience on my own (or with partner). I have back taken control and it feels great!
Update at the bottom.
Long post, thanks again to all who read and respond.
Always knew there was something back there, so I finally joined the club about year ago. Great fun, slowly re-wiring since I can’t play often…family, 3 kids, time is not my friend.
Had to travel for work recently, so I finally had some alone time. Took my toys, had a great few days. No super, maybe dry O’s for first time. And I can now HFWO every other time.
I even realized the progasm is the wrong tool for me. Gave me great pleasure, but its a jackhammer, and I end up wet and then sore every time. So I threw it out, and I might do the same with my MGX since it also doesn’t feel like it moves. If that makes sense.
Haven’t been able to play for a couple weeks. Now, the losing control….it’s like my body doesn’t belong to me this week. Almost like I broke a nerve or something. Is this normal?
I ride bike, a lot. Love everything about it, even the tight cycling clothes if I’m honest. I work hard to be fit and it’s a turn on to wear in public and catch people checking me out. I do get the odd erection, but in 20yrs on a bike I have never had an orgasm in the saddle. I’ve had two on my peloton this week, both wet. Yes I know the seat can put pressure on the sweet spot, but this has NEVER happened to me before. Second time I was soft and it was less than 5 min after I got on the bike. WTF?
So I’ve been using the Helix Trident for a while, but I always felt it was not big enough, compared to other prostate massagers I have. So I bought the Progasm Ice Red, but I couldn’t enjoy a bit.
All because of the P tab, or however it’s called, the handle that rests on the perineum. It applied a pressure, that was not pleasurable at all, but it was painful instead. It was a sharp pain that was extremely distracting, and well, painful.
It feels so antinatural compared to the Helix, and the fact that is hard plastic instead of silicone makes it so much worse. In fact I think the whole thing would be better if it was silicone instead of plastic.
So I was wondering if I’m doing something wrong, or if there’s a workaround for it, like adding some extra cushion or whatever, or if it’s ok if I just cut it off.
But as it is right now, it’s just impossible to wear for more than 5 minutes.
A few months ago I started having what I consider to be orgasms while using my MGX and Eupho. It’s been glorious and I’ve been playing almost every night. The feeling I get is basically the sensation that I’m right on the edge of orgasm, then everything clenches up and I feel pleasure in my internal muscles that lasts for like 15-30 seconds (I can’t tell) and usually rolls into another orgasm in my PC muscles if I give them a few squeezes during the previous orgasm. During my PC orgasm it almost feels like I’m cumming but not quite. And during the height of my sessions these orgasms can continue rolling into each other. In the end though, I still feel the desire to cum and like I never really “got over the edge.” It’s strange to feel like I’m orgasming but also not satisfying that itch to cum. (Because the orgasm is a totally different type than a traditional penile orgasm). Overall the sessions are wonderful and I’ve been really happy with how things are going, while also knowing that there’s more out there.
But then…
This last week I decided to get a new toy. The Maximus trident. I wanted it because it’s shorter but also thicker than the Eupho, and I thought it would put more pressure in the right areas.
I’ve been wanting to buy an aneros for a long time now, but because of the price and my financial situation I would only be purchasing one.
With so many models I am unsure of what model to purchase.
At the moment I am leaning toward the progasm as I enjoy larger sized objects, but I’m concerned it may not be as good for the g spot stimulation in comparison to something like the helix for example.
I am looking for something I can use solo and practice for prostate orgasm entirely hands free, I enjoy a fuller feeling of something a bit thicker, I do have a lot of experience with butt stuff in general as I have cheaper prostate stimulators and I occasionally do pegging with my wife.
If anyone could help me with a recommendation that would be great
Honestly I’m just not sure if I’m like following the directions right. This is 100% true, I purchased the njoy pure wand and really stopped having success with it. But I just purchased the eupho syn and it doesn’t do much for me on its own. Like if I’m not manipulating it somehow, it feels super good but have never really had any desire to try to use it completely handsfree, like many on this sub do. But if I start fucking myself with it or just using one hand to put some pressure on my prostate, I have a wet orgasm within about 5 minutes handsfree. Every time.