Tag: Prostate

A beginner that discovered a jump pad to great sessions with my Progasm.

First the disclaimer, I’ve only been serious about this journey for about couple of months. My fist toy was the Progasm and love it but wanted to experience other toys and see what they have to offer. I also bought an Edge 2. Last night I was extremely horny after watching porn on and off all day and been abstinence for about a week I went a different route and it paid off big. This route is something that I haven’t really seen talked about yet so I figure if anyone is struggling they can have a different play to try to get them into the red zone. So he is my break down.

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Had an amazing session last night, but need some advice

I had a FANTASTIC ride last night. I smoked a little (probably a tad more than I should’ve tbh lol ) and I had my emerald DS poppers ready. I inserted the MGX and turned on my side both legs bent. I could immediately feel a bit of pleasure. Started doing some VERY light contractions of the PC muscle only, and I feel a buzzing start and get more powerful with every contraction. Soon my prostate felt like it had swollen up to the size of a baseball and I was in ecstasy for about an hour before I decided to end things by jacking off. But it was a surreal experience after the initial few contractions I felt waves start come and go on their own. At one point I sat up to take a sip of water and a wave started when I was taking a drink lol

This was really amazing because I had started to lose faith in the aneros massager it hadn’t done much for me until last night, and I was starting to think it was some sort of hoax. But after what happened last night, I’ll be keeping it haha

The reason I say it might have been too much is because when I would get REALLY into it I would feel my heart pound and go a Lil lightheaded and this kinds scared me so I would tone it down a bit. Anyone experienced this before? Should I continue? Was I right to hold back?

Can achieve dry O, but how to reach hands-free ejaculation?

Hi there. Longtime lurker here. 29 years old and have been exploring prostate play for a decade. The first toy I ever bought was a pink vibrating Aneros when I was 19. They don’t even sell the model anymore, but it was far too big for my first toy. A couple years later, I experienced my first and only hands-free wet orgasm to date. I was riding my boyfriend’s dick and suddenly just came hands-free. I started looking into hands-free orgasms at that point and purchased the Aneros helix. I have had dry orgasms on a couple of occasions since then, maybe about 4 times, but I’ve never cum from it. Last night I got really close. My eyes were closed, and I had the most amazing orgasm. I could feel all my muscles contracting and my cock was pulsing. It felt really amazing. The feelings came and went for a couple of minutes, but I never opened my eyes because I didn’t want to be pulled out of my orgasm. Once the feelings died down, I opened my eyes expecting to see multiple loads of cum running down my cock, but there was just a small amount of precum.

I feel like I’m on the track to reach hands-free ejaculation, but I’m not sure what to do. Any tips or suggestions? Should I just keep going? It took me probably an hour to get to the point of dry orgasming and I was pretty tired at that point, but I really want to reach hands-free ejaculation.

Standing at the top but thinking “what now?”

so i’ve recently just had my first super o and now i’m trying new things and wanting too find new things that might interest me.

I’ve been capable of having multiple penile dry o’s and now i’m able too have mini os (anal) and dry penile orgasms back to back while masturbating. it’s very amazing since i love when my dick is teased (tho it still “cums”) and only my ass is getting that “release” . it’s like my dick is literally begging too ejaculate and watching ass my get what it needs.

As good as this sounds i still feel like it’s not enough. I still feel like as a whole i’m missing that satisfaction. For so long i wanted a super o or any type of prostate orgasm and now that i achieved that i want more lol not that it wasn’t satisfying but i know i’m capable of even greater pleasure. I get great sensations out of my nipples, they are always part of masturbation, but i never achieved orgasm from them.

I also have the njoy wand and this has become my “anal masturbation”. what i mean is i usually stay plugged all day. then when i go to have some fun i’ll use the njoy wand and go too town. i’ll add masturbation with this of course not ending in ejaculation. Read more »

Just a little heart broken

So after realising weed and poppers were a short cut to the Super O I’ve been working on calming techniques and recently managed several super O’s with just meditation breathing and the do nothing technique… I was thrilled and amazed. Ok it takes longer than vaping a little weed, but it’s awesome to do this stone cold sober.

And now my wife say’s she finds the whole thing ‘ick’ and thinks I don’t want her. Which is odd given we still have an active sex life and she’s previously been supportive of my quest or at worst neutral. Kind of sucks to find someone you hoped to share this with finds something so wonderful (to me) ‘ick’.

So we’ve talked. At length. She isn’t asking me to stop. But she doesn’t want me doing it when she’s home (which is a major block on play time as she’s almost always home). She doesn’t want me to talk about it either.

I view this as controlling behaviour and while I am not angry at her I am deeply saddened by her U turn. And quite hurt. I really don’t want to wind up resenting someone I’ve given 20 years of my life to – and I also don’t want to give up Prostate orgasms. Read more »

No sensation?

I’ve tried other prostate toys to no avail, but I thought this would be different. I’ve tried things and I don’t know that I’ve ever found my prostate. Things say it’s this little spot that’s really sensitive and you’ll know when you’ve found it, but I’m beginning to think I don’t have one.. I’ve been trying my aneros helix trident like they’ve said and noting. Anyone else have this problem?

Is this a me thing or is it just a coincidence?

I jerked off and ejaculate via penile orgasm couple hours (12 hours ish) before my aneros sessions and my sessions turn out to be good.

Some people here say to let the prostate fluid build up for an aneros session

Just weird that I find ejaculating and emptying out the fluid helps me to concentrate more on prostate orgasm (if i go on nofap for a period of time Im more tempted to penile orgasm instead)

Just curious if some of you feel the same way?

Self massage?

So. I have done prostate play for almost a year. I have three aneros toys and have tried the lelo Loki and Hugo. I’ve also listened to mindgasm.net along w the aneros. Done the aless muscle clenching exercises and all. So far, nada. So, I was thinking that I really need to try finding my prostate with my finger to recognize how it feels and the massage it myself without a toy to learn how it feels and the signals. Has anyone been through this journey before? Any recommendations on what’s the best position to do this since you really have to contort your arm and hand to just to get your middle index finger in. Any help would be appreciated!!!

A realization I had as I had a mini prostate orgasm

I was watching porn of a girl reaching nipple orgasm as I had an Aneros in my ass.

I made a profound and beautiful realization of how anal play and nipple play unites both genders and both girls and guys can experience the same pleasures.

Versus the narrative that girls have better and longer orgasms this realization has made me feel proud of myself (and you should be too, straight guys especially) of being open minded and trying out prostate/nipple play to experience better pleasures than the penile orgasm shoved to us by media all the time.

Progress with my helix syn. Two HFWO

I have had a helix syn for a couple of months now. I’m new to aneros but not new to prostrate play.

The last two nights I’ve had a lot more time than normal to play with my aneros. I was excited all day to do it, so my adrenaline was definitely going. These were some of my best sessions ever.
I was tracing the good feeling and just going with them, and both times I ended up finishing with very strong HFWOs. It’s never happened before, it was amazing. But I also want to know what I should do to avoid that and continue with dry orgasms.

Also, if I feel good feelings with soft contractions, should I go with that instead of the “do nothing”? I’m wondering if I should just embrace what feels good. And I can’t even tell if my “involuntary” contractions are truly involuntary, or if I’m contributing to it. I’m so in the moment it’s hard to tell.