Tag: Rewiring

What if I masturbate before a session (without Cumming)?

Hello.

Until now, I’ve made some progressions, but I still see the orgasm pretty far away… Somehow I cannot get there hands free. Last time I had to masturbate after two hours of playing with my Aneros, in order to get closer and cum (it was quick tho). I still need the penile stimulation to get there.

Until now, all my sessions I’ve avoided touching my penis, maybe just in the last two minutes after a long session to empty my fluids. But I always avoid masturbating before and during the exercise.

But someone told me here, that it is ok to masturbate while enjoying the Aneros, or even before that. And now I am confused about it… I thought that using my penis would difficult my rewiring, also when I don’t masturbate and I caress my nipples they are really sensitive. However, only when I masturbate my prostate gets sensitive enough that I reach the orgasm.

So… I’m wondering what would happen if I masturbate and edge two or three times without getting to the orgasm, then wait a couple of minutes, and start the prostate play. Do you think it could be a good idea? Maybe tonight I’ll try this.

Thank you.

Blue balls pain

Rewiring and didnt want to have a standard ejaculation so its been 5 days and after todays aneros session, I started to get that lower abdomen/groin pain just like when you get blue balls. Honestly really uncomfortable right now.

What should I do? Thinking I need to “clear the pipes”

The Quick and Dirty Path to the Super-O

Taken from the Aneros forum, from user CaveOfMystery… With all the problems inherent to their forums, I thought this should exist outside the forum, lest it should disappear one day… Enjoy and good luck:

The purpose of this post is hopefully to help a few people who are not getting the results they hoped for with their Aneros. By no means will these techniques necessarily guarantee you a Super-O, but they may help you on your journey.

I bought my Aneros models a couple of years ago (Eupho and Helix) and during that time they were a point of curiosity but nothing more. I didn’t do a whole lot with them, and I didn’t really do deep reading on either device. The few times I used them, they provided some interesting sensations, Super-Ts, and the like, but nothing close to a Super-O. In fact I pretty much thought a Super-O was a Super-T. I did do some reading in the forums, but when I read the accounts of the Super-Os, I thought they were impossible exaggerations designed to hype an overpriced piece of plastic. Boy was I WRONG.

Recently I’ve revisited these devices with incredible results. This time I went through and read everything, the Wiki, forum posts, etc. I took note of the advice and set off to see if I could get these doohickeys to fulfill their ultimate purpose… The Super-O. Read more »

Should I totally abstain from ejaculating?

Some background: I just got my first Aneros toy over the weekend (Aneros Helix Trident) and used it twice with minimal results, though my lower body began to shake uncontrollably the first time, so I’m taking that as a good start.

I already have some prior experience with prostate stimulation. I’ve had some really intense pleasure waves just from fingering myself. They were way more intense than regular orgasms, and longer lasting. However my fingering sessions are very hit or miss. Around 70% to 80% of the time nothing happens and I give up after 30-ish minutes. Hence why I decided to get an Aneros.

So as I begin my Aneros journey, my theory is that if I lay off from touching my dick for the foreseeable future and only receive stimulation exclusively from my prostate, it’ll do a better job at “rewiring” me so that my odds go up from my current hit-or-miss situation. That means not jacking off during, after, or even in between sessions on off days– at least for a week or two.

Am I overthinking this? Should I masturbate like usual in between Aneros sessions? I’m currently planning on doing 2-3 times a week as suggested. Thanks for the feedback.

Infrequent use, am I wasting my time or undoing process?

I got a toy late in october but I’m current in a stressful situation and I never feel in the mood. I’ve been doing kegels and stuff on the side, but even that I’ve been too distracted by work.

Best analogy I could give is it’s kind of like going to the gym and I feel really bad not working out, but I’ve just been too tired and not in the mood at all.

It might not really be pleasurable at all for me given my current mental state but should I still be doing it just for the sake of rewiring?

“Who Are We? Just Play The Game!”

[This blog was inspired by an Aneros member]

Introduction
While listening to some erotic chillout this morning, I began to dwell on this topic. And the more I thought about it, it made perfect sense to me. So I’d like to share it…..

We as men share a unique role in this world. We are the sex who (for lack of better words) penetrates, thrusts and ejaculates. It really it that simple! But along the way, we have developed many other ways, other ‘tools’ if you will, to cultivate and ‘grow’ our manhood, our ‘maleness’, our sexuality. Among these are ways well-known to Aneros members such as myself. I am referring to the practices of semen retention (SR), NoFap ® and Aneros prostate massage. Of course, there are others and one which I endorse and promote is the use of ‘chastity cups’.

Now what do all of these have in common? It really is quite simple, IMO. All of these activities are designed to enhance our sexual pleasure, not only for ourselves but in the general scheme of things, our male ‘vision’ of the world. (Our female counterparts share their own ‘vision’ that is (thank goodness!) completely different from our own). Together, we can make a new world (literally).

How To Play The Game
As I continued to meditate, it became clear to me that all of these sexual activities are entirely and always under our direct control. Here are some examples…. Read more »

Have been using the classic for years. Think I’d benefit from a different model. What do you reccomend?

Hey! So! I’ve been using the classic model on and off for maybe two or three years now! I’ve definitely learned a lot of my body. Not sure how the community would define it, but I’ve goteen as far as the feeling that I need to pee and shaking a lot. You might say I’m rewired to an extent.

Anyways, I’ve always had some complaints with my classic, and wondered if the design might be somewhat preventing me from getting my best O. I like size/stretch, and on top of that, my prostate is very small, so I find large ridges are the only thing that actually hit my p-spot. I know I’m going for subtle, but the classic is I think probbaly alittle too subtle to bring me over the edge.

Secondly, the perineum tab becomes an annoyance over time, usually pushing too hard against me or rubbing me until my skin becomes a little raw. I tend to put a folded square of TP between it and me before I play, but this only really stops the rubbing issue. It’s still pushing too hard, and in general is a distraction, and seems ineffective.

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Lastly, I suppoe I’m curious about adding vibration! So yeah, anyone have any toy suggestions, Aneros or otherwise?

Thank you LSD!

Hi! I want to share my story with the Aneros.

I bought the Aneros Helix around two years ago and have used it intermittently since. In the first few weeks I had it, I used it a few times a week, but never actually got much from it. I did have some pleasurable experiences, but I think I never really put in enough time and effort to get further. I think I’ve used it around once per 1-2 months as of late.

The best sessions were after smoking weed, where I definitely got some p-waves at times and felt reasonably good. It finally clicked for me a few days ago after taking a pretty high dose of LSD.

I was a few hours into the LSD-session and decided to have an Aneros session to see how that would be on LSD, and let me tell you I’m so glad I did. It finally clicked for me. I had some really intense pleasure and my body was shaking all over. I lost sense of time (that might’ve been the LSD though) and enjoyed the ride for probably at least two hours. I decided to see how adding a small amount of weed would it, but I wasn’t able to get as much pleasure as I was having on LSD alone, so I stopped a while later. Read more »

Musings and Tempo

Over the last 5 weeks away, I’ve been travelling overseas and, during that time, along the Aneros road, learning about my different friends, Helix, Maximus and MGX. Eupho got to hold the fort at home.

It’s been a mind blowing road so far and although I dabled with Tantra, some 30 years ago, I would have liked to have discovered the Aneros ‘training wheels’, which have rewired me in an amazing way.

Seeing my wife for the first time in 5 weeks, our sex was pretty magical. I reaquainted myself with the Eupho while she was out in the morning and I found new pleasures within minutes, which set me up with that familiar buzz all day long. I had bought my wife a new Lelo wand, so in the afternoon we got to try that out. Apart from the fun that generated, I also found that my orgasms were more intense and I was able to last longer before ejaculation. In addition, I had a beautiful dry-O with my wife lightly tonguing my frenulum. What was most apparent was that the ability to relax into the sensations made the feelings far more intense and I could understand that the mental connection with my wife is a major factor in feeling. Before, it was always more physical. Read more »

“Some Reflections On NoFap”

[Note: NoFap is a registered trademark owned by Alexander Rhodes and NoFap LLC]

Introduction
I kind of backed-into this “NoFap*” thing by wanting to extend my semen retention run (SR) and eliminate the dreaded “blue-balls”. I also wanted to experience another wet dream. It all seems to be working. Let me explain…..

Semen Retention
I am currently at Day 11 of SR and not feeling any blue balls. Yes, I should have had them by now and that usually meant that I would have a strong need to ejaculate. I am getting close to that time (Day 12) when I experienced my last wet dream and I am looking forward to another one any day now.

NoFap Technique (So-called Hard Mode or “Monkmode” (No PMO, no sex, no stimulating media at all. That generally means cutting out all social media, most tv, movies, video games, whatever else might convey sexualized or suggestive material)).

There are a couple of things which I am doing differently in NoFap that I haven’t done before. They include the PMO* rules:
• No porn. This is a critical component of NoFap PMO*. Absolutely no viewing, “teasing”, “sneaking” or even thinking about porn is allowed at any time.
• No masturbation (including edging) at any time. This one is harder than it looks. It includes NO TOUCHING (except for normal hygiene). For me, this also includes any form of touching my cock/balls/package through my jeans. While showering, it includes no playing-around with the slippery soap “down-there”. Anything that can cause me to precum may induce blue-balls and trigger masturbation and ejaculation and so it should be avoided.
• No orgasm (except for a wet dream). This is a TO (usually caused by masturbation). Read more »