Tag: Rewiring

Losing control

Update at the bottom.

Long post, thanks again to all who read and respond.

Always knew there was something back there, so I finally joined the club about year ago. Great fun, slowly re-wiring since I can’t play often…family, 3 kids, time is not my friend.

Had to travel for work recently, so I finally had some alone time. Took my toys, had a great few days. No super, maybe dry O’s for first time. And I can now HFWO every other time.

I even realized the progasm is the wrong tool for me. Gave me great pleasure, but its a jackhammer, and I end up wet and then sore every time. So I threw it out, and I might do the same with my MGX since it also doesn’t feel like it moves. If that makes sense.

Haven’t been able to play for a couple weeks. Now, the losing control….it’s like my body doesn’t belong to me this week. Almost like I broke a nerve or something. Is this normal?

I ride bike, a lot. Love everything about it, even the tight cycling clothes if I’m honest. I work hard to be fit and it’s a turn on to wear in public and catch people checking me out. I do get the odd erection, but in 20yrs on a bike I have never had an orgasm in the saddle. I’ve had two on my peloton this week, both wet. Yes I know the seat can put pressure on the sweet spot, but this has NEVER happened to me before. Second time I was soft and it was less than 5 min after I got on the bike. WTF? Read more »

Random & on-demand a-less P-waves

I’ve made a couple of posts on this sub about my experiences with the Aneros, haven’t had anything especially mind blowing to share recently, but I’ve noticed something today and I wanted to ask others about.

It’s typical I find, a couple of days after an Aneros session, to get random p-waves. Typically when I’m sitting down, in fact a few of them have happened when I’ve just been bored at work.

I noticed today though, I was driving home (well I was stationary in traffic) and I just started thinking about my prostate and… In doing that… It just felt good. I’ve tried a couple of other times this evening and I think I can just generate p-waves by basically just thinking about it. I notice when it’s happening I tense up, and when I relax the feeling dissipates quickly, but the feeling is pretty damn nice!

Has anyone else noticed this? Can I consider this good progress on the “rewiring” front?

Thanks!

Very curious and excited about pgasms but concerned about developing a habit

I recently bought a Helix Trident Syn, have had three sessions, and on the third I had some real breakthroughs. I can tell that where this is headed is going to be extremely pleasurable. However, I am also a little scared.

For most of my life I had no idea the p-spot was a thing and I had no interest in anal play whatsoever. Like many straight men, I watched porn since adolescence and just went to down on my dick for years and years. Over the last year I’ve realized that my porn use was problematic (compulsive) and had been for a while. In researching how to live a porn-free lifestyle I came across reddit subs and articles about semen retention, tantric masturbation, etc. etc. which led me to learn about prostate orgasms, which appeal to me for a number of reasons (note that I’m not a true believer of semen retention):

1) If it’s the best orgasm a man can have, why *wouldn’t* I want to experience it?

2) I’m older and more experienced now and have way fewer sexual hangups about butt stuff.

3) It doesn’t involve porn.

My worry, though, is that it will be SO good that I won’t be able to stop doing it and will begin to prefer it to having actual sex. The word “rewiring” gets thrown around in nofap and pornfree all the time (rewiring your arousal pathways away from porn to sex with a partner/physical sensation) and I’ve noticed that in this sub it gets thrown around a bunch as well (rewiring your arousal pathways away from your dick and to your prostate). Read more »

abstinence is very important

To anyone who is struggling on the journey…. I consider myself rewired (have had Aless super Os and could Aless at will)… but will go thru phases where I stop for awhile…..

When I am in the process of not cumming at all…. I can aless anytime… anywhere… turn it off and on at will… sessions are amazing….

As soon as I start to cum alot during the week… I lose all ability to be able to have any Aless feelings / sessions are much worse / have little desire too have them.

So for anyone who can’t quite get over the edge and is struggling… you really have to avoid cumming during your sessions or after… try stick with it for 1 week and see how much better they become…. you might be surprised at the difference it can make.

Edging after rewiring?

I currently in the process of successfully rewiring myself, I can have HFWO with involuntaries pretty consistently, but not Dry Os or super O yet. Once I do eventually reach a super O, will edging/normal masturbation impede my ability to give myself dry Os? I want to edge to increase my sexual stamina, but I’m concerned I’ll ‘undo’ the rewiring process. Am I overthinking this or is it a valid concern? Thoughts from more experienced users?

My Second Tryst Part 3

Part 3
In my first hookup with a man two years earlier we were both nervous. At that time I was not really at ease with my morphing sexuality. However, two years had passed between my first tryst and this one. During that time, I grew to be more comfortable with who I was becoming sexually. I was getting more at ease with my changing desires and my anal orgasmic response; as I relaxed into my rewired “new sexuality”, a desire for male intimacy infiltrated my psyche. The desire to kiss a male sex partner became an expression of my libido and a must do in my menu of sex acts with any man and this one that evening in particular. Kissing had always been a cornerstone in my foreplay with women and that night it would be no different.

The key that opened the door to this new world that night was that I had cast aside my shame, and given into my limbic desire. My own admission to myself was feeding my libido. Revealing it openly and unabashedly to an attractive and very desirable male sex partner was feeding his libido in equal measure; his cock was stone hard. It was profoundly arousing. The excitement and lack of shame I felt kissing a hot naked man in foreplay was flying in the face of the social taboo that had governed me in my past; that excitement was forging my cock to iron. Kissing him on the lips was a big deal; however kissing him in bed in foreplay was beyond a big deal. All of this was having a profound impact on me. Read more »

Riding P-wave for first time [M31]

Today I think I have been able to ride a p-wave for the first time during a couple of minutes and it hasn’t been amazing.

I had been masturbating for some minutes around reddit when I felt the urge to go and get my aneros helix syn.

As for lube I use the tenga hole real lotion, it is my favourite. Today I had raised one leg, placing the feet on top of the toilet when I inserted the aneros, and thanks to the position it hit the spot quickly and I started having some involuntary contractions which I was helping a bit with some light clenching. Then I started feeling a p-wave coming and I tried to focus on the feelings.

Normally I enjoy nipple massaging, I managed to rewire for that many years ago, and I tried it, but I found it was making me loose focus on the wave. I have been like this for a couple of minutes and finished with a whole body shiver.

It felt great, and it’s become a milestone on my rewiring process. For the reference I got my aneros in 2020.

My Second Tryst

Part 2
With my eyes closed I grasped the head of my erect cock; it felt hot and smooth in my hand. Anticipation of sucking his penis had forged mine to iron hardness. I love sucking cocks and swallowing rich creamy semen. Placing my middle finger in the sulcus underneath my cock head I began to gently massage it. I did not rub hard enough to encourage ejaculation but rather just firm enough to edge myself and keep it rigid. The deep cleft that sculpts my crown was slippery from my profuse precum. Aneros practice has increased my precum flow manifold. I was pleased I was already hard for him, I wanted it to be erect, or at least firm when he saw it in person the first time. I am relatively large erect. I like showing my size to male and female partners when I am aroused; I like to flaunt my sexuality as I am an exhibitionist at heart. My fingertip began to make little circles in my cleft as I slowly swung my pelvis back and forth. I imagined I was dancing in an erotic performance for spectators; as I saidf I am a closeted exhibitionist. Looking in the mirror over the desk I opened my eyes to admire the lewd dance I was doing and the sexy image I made. I imagined that he was watching the lewd show of my sexuality. The thought of him in particular watching me made my cock ache with need. Ever since rewiring, mental imagery has played a huge role in my prostate orgasm sessions and my arousal. Read more »

My Second Tryst

Part1
I obtained my Tempo by winning it here on the Forum. HIH was holding a contest some ten or twelve years ago. The challenge was to write what Aneros meant to you and how it changed you; the prize was a new Aneros Syn, which had just been introduced. I was urged by several guys in the Forum that read my blog to submit my personal story. I wrote my story and submitted it. To my surprise I won. When I was notified, I asked the company if I might get a Tempo instead of the Syn. Tempo had been out for a while and I wanted one; I had not gotten around to buying one yet. They agreed.

A few weeks later my Tempo arrived in the mail. Later that week I tried it. It was an instant success. It was vastly more effective and responsive than my Eupho which was my favorite Aneros device until then. From that first insertion my Tempo was my go to Aneros; now it’s all I use.
At that same time I did the contest I was communicating with a fellow Aneros user about meeting for a shared session and more. He was my second hook up with a bicurious married guy for sex. My first foray into M-M sex was quick and unceremonious. We were both too nervous to really explore the mental and full physical dimensions of our desires. this time it would be different. Also this time we would use Aneros together. Read more »

First HFWO

So I’m a beginner since I just started a month ago and like most beginners, I grew frustrated. I watched the mindgasm videos (highly recommended) and could feel something and get p shivers but that was it. When inserting the helix trident it would just feel like something was in there but nothing else, kind of uncomfortable especially standing up.

I have an open mind and if you’re a beginner you might know what I’m talking about. However, it happened today completely unexpected right after waking up. I read about how you’re less likely to orgasm if you’re wanting it. It felt like being in a half awake dreamy like state is the perfect opportunity.

I also read that edibles make a huge difference so I took two THC pills and I just laid back with my feet flat getting comfortable under the covers. I started get into a meditative state where all I could feel were my arms feeling heavy. I started focusing on breathing for 15-20 minutes while doing nothing, just breathing. Once the edibles started to kick in a bit I mentally contracted my PC muscle and held it. I started to actually feel my prostate. Read more »