I’ve been trying for a few years and I’m still hardly getting any pleasure out of it.

Technically it would be more accurate to say it’s off and on for a few years. I tend to give up on it for a while or not be able to for a long time for one reason or another.

I’m using the “do nothing” or the “try not to orgasm” approach. Try not to orgasm is a nice one because then if pleasure stops I’m less likely to get frustrated. I’ve tried intentionally moving the aneros inside me but it never works more than a tiny bit. Any attempt to directly control the movement of the aneros or the feeling of pleasure itself leaves me worse off than I started. Fine. I just won’t do that.

I’m still at the stage where the sensations are mild and never last more than a few seconds. A couple times I’ve gotten better than that but I haven’t gotten back there in about a year. As soon as I want it to feel better than it does in the moment, all pleasure stops, which is extremely frustrating.

I’m not focusing entirely on the possibility of the super O. I’ll be satisfied once I get to the point where it feels better than regular masturbation. I can’t explain why but I have a feeling that once I get to that point I’ll advance pretty quickly. Even if it doesn’t, I can be patient about how good it feels as long as it satisfies my need for it. I don’t think I’ll be bored once I get the fundamentals down.

Was I close?

Never had a super o but I think I just got close, Im very new to this or 4 or 5 sessions. I was using my aneros trident and about 10 min in I started involuntary shaking, about 10 min after I realized I wasn’t controling the massager anymore. Then I physically felt my heart pound and my face and chest felt really warm… Then I immediately came out of it and couldn’t get that feeling again. Kind of discouraged I think I was overthinking it in the moment but I’m not sure,

advice would be very appreciated

How to prevent shit getting on your aneros?

I was aroused, I was feeling my aneros on my prostate, I was enjoying it and then shit was on my aneros and the mood went down. It’s not the first it has happened to me and it’s one of the reasons I haven’t reached my first super-o. Before starting my sessions I always clean my ass with tap water in an enema until the water comes out clear, but however then some shit come out in my sessions. Just in case, my lube doesn’t have glicerin. Thanks in advance.

new toys

New toys in my box.

I’ve been finding my sessions in the last few weeks to be lacking something. I’m unsure if it is related to the fact that I have a new job or the fact that I’m now working 2nd shift. On the flip side of this I now have a few hours of “ME TIME” that doesn’t involve just being in the shower.
Now don’t get me wrong, I’ve not had just duds, although there has been some, but for the most part my sessions have been just lack luster. Perhaps it’s the fact that since I now have me time time I’m pushing myself to reach the previously acquired pinical levels, or the fact that I’m not used to having me time and I’m unable to let go?, or maybe my body is still getting used to a new normal.

Lately during my sessions I’ve been spending more time being active performing clenching (kegels) trying to increase sensations even though it never got me very far in the beginning, thus I adopted the do nothing approach that has given me several super o’s. So in review of these findings I feel that I need more pressure on my prostate but still retain the do nothing approach. So I purchased the NJOY Pfun Plug. I have used this a hand full of times. What a wonderful piece of kit this is. So smooth and shiny, and incredibly heavy. The first time I went to join with this I was concerned I would have problems getting it in as it is larger than the progasm jr, but because of the shape it slid in so easily. I absolutely adore the cold of the steel at room temp once fully inserted. But all this comes at a price. Because the shaft is not a rapid taper and the fact that it is 3/4# in weight, this thing is almost impossible to keep in when standing. Now to the meaty part.

Anyone here with depression using aneros?

I recently started Lexapro for mild depression and anxiety and unfortunately after the first week I definitely noticed decreased libido. I don’t have trouble getting hard but it’s definitely a struggle to orgasm. Even masturbation hasn’t held the same appeal and I began to notice a loss in actual physically pleasurable sensation. Last night I inserted my aneros before sex with my wife and definitely seemed like it brought things back to a baseline for me. In other words, the aneros didn’t add anything on top of the regular sex like p waves or super O but definitely enhanced penile sensations and I was able to orgasm much quicker then the few times before without it.

Anyone else have similar experiences?

Can we lose the magic?

I’ve started the journey there is about 3 months. The beginning was very encouraging, I started to have super pleasant feelings after 3 sessions.

I got to the point where I had amazing, super sweet, very long (like 3 to 5 min) orgasms every sessions. I don’t know if it’s what you guys refer as a super O but anyway I was very happy with it. I tried things like thrusting and touching very slowly my cock and I got some of the best penile orgasms of my life (like crying intense).

The things is all sensations started to fade away at a point where each sessions were less intense than the one before. I’ve read forums and all and learned that thrusting, touching my cock and watching porn could be detrimental. So I stop all of this and tried techniques like the relaxing a lot and “do nothing”, I tried to lower my expectations and enjoying the present moment. It is most of the time kind of enjoyable, I have involuntary contractions and trembling very quickly, but nothing comparable to what I had before and I feel quite frustrated.

Did anybody go through a similar situation? If so, how did you get the magic back?

Is the Eupho worth the money?

It’s been months since I started this journey, but I haven’t reached the “super-o”. I have the Helix Trident and the Progasm. The Helix Trident does nothing for me, I don’t feel anything; it’s like it’s not there. The Progasm has brought me close to the “super-o”, but no sucess. Lately, I’ve been reading about guys who’ve had a “super-o” with the Eupho, but it looks skinny so I guess for me it will be like the Helix. So the question is for those that reached the “super-o” with the Eupho: why do you think the Eupho helped you reach the “super-o”? How do you compare it with other models? Thanks in advance!

Had my first super O

This more of a thank you post to this community and the helpful people who comment. A while back I expressed interest in getting another product to compliment my helix Syn, with my original choices being between the helix trident and the prograsm Jr. Ultimately thanks to some recommendations I decided on the Eupho Trident and in my first session managed to have 2 Super O’s in one session. Thank you those of you who share helpful comments and help others along the journey and I wish good experiences to those of you still on the Journey to the Super-O.

Possible Super O Pro tip: Cut/shorten the handle off the helix syn

This is based purely off of personal experience and I won’t claim that this is a guaranteed method to get you to super o land, but it worked for me on the first try. I’ve only been exploring aneros for about 3 months now.

First off if you search for “remove handle helix syn,” you’ll see lots of posts on the official forum about other users that have done this modification. It’s particularly effective for use while laying on your back.

Modification:

* Used a hack saw to remove the red curl, leaving about .75 – 1 inch of the red plastic.

* used a high grain sandpaper (2000-3000 grit) to smooth out the cut tip

Without that pesky red curly handle, the helix moves around on a completely different level. Let me tell you, the super o is everything others mention (involuntary lip biting, full body pulsating pleasure, uncontrollable back arching, moaning, and more.) I actually had to take it out because I was actually a bit scared of the feeling. Even without the toy, I felt the aftershocks every 20-30 seconds and a hot glowing warmth in the groin area where the leg connects to the pelvis. This lasted about 15-20 minutes after removal.

disclaimers:

1. You’re responsible for your own modifications.
2. A little bit of indica MJ was involved which may have contributed to the success.

Struggling, Did Put Aneros In While I’m Work, Works?

I am still struggling for achieving Super-O, it’s already 10 months and I only managed to get 1 successful P-Wave.

I am working online from home, my office is my bedroom and I work myself alone.

Most of the time I will sitting in my chair doing my work.

I am wondering, is it gonna help if I put in the aneros while I’m work?