Tag: Wife

Continued Progress

I know I might be getting ahead of myself a bit here, but yesterday, I received a Progasm Ice (which my retailer had told me I should have bought in the first place)!
This would have to be the most sensuous piece of kit I have ever laid eyes on. I could hardly wait to give it a try out, even though there was only a window of a few minutes available!

In Southeast Australia, we are currently suffering a drought, so water conservation is high on our priority list. Accordingly, because of the type of hot water service we have, to save water, my wife J. and I have an arrangement whereby she showers first and I follow immediately while it is still running. As J. announced she was about to start her shower, I knew I had just a few minutes to play with my new friend.

I injected (by means of the eye dropper) about 3ml lube into my rectum and then liberally covered the PI with lube. I tried to insert the PI from the crouching position but it was obvious that would be too painful. So, I lay on my left side on the floor with my left leg straight and my right leg bent and pointing upwards. In this position, taking it very slowly, I began to insert the PI, using the recommended Spooning technique. Was surprised to find that it went in quite easily. After some seconds, I received a call from J. summoning me for my shower. I eased the PI out and was again surprised, this time to find out how far it had gone in!. By this time I had at least three quarters of an erection and there was a considerable flow of precum from my penis. I also noticed that on completing my shower, my penis was still producing precum! This exercise has taught me that I will need some practice in insertion to become acquainted with the PI before attempting a session with it. Read more »

One Year Anniversary Musings

Well fellow anal adventurers, I am now entrenched in year two of the journey. I wonder how many of us there are out there who have committed a year plus to this undertaking with out ever achieving any of the o’s; super, dry or mini?

When you have been on this trip as long as I have, you stop classifying your “progress” by wiki definitions. I have reclassified myself as a “grinder”: a long term user who experiences incremental progress and tends to have a good time just wandering the path. The grinder is not desperate. We already have some measure of success in our lives and because of that we must integrate Aneros use into our existing relationships.

Brian Mayfield made a comment once about how Aneros users (sooner or later) hit the “snow ball effect” where all sorts of sensations just start cavalcading together. I don’t know when the avalanche will hit; I just know I have to keep logging the time until it does.

Before I began using this product and joined this forum I thought I knew what pleasure was. I thought I was pretty in touch with my body. This process has awakened not just my prostate but my perception of what sensations my body is possible of producing and translating. My traditional orgasms are many times more pleasurable than before. This little device has helped open up numerous erogenous zones. It has rejuvenated my sexual relationship with my wife – the importance of a few rousing kick starts over the years cannot be underestimated. In addition, the forum discussions here have provided many thought provoking threads in which to help me think through my ever changing world view. This whole experience has been a big net plus. Read more »

A Senior Citizen's Progress

I turned 70 years in February this year.

For many years I have been interested in the concept of males enjoying the benefits of multiple orgasms and first signed up for Jack Johnson’s KSMO seminar in 2004. Unfortunately, I have never been able to practice the Key Sound conscientiously. However, I have over the years developed some skill in the practice of ‘edging’. This I am able to do more or less continuously for up to an hour. (I didn’t even know it had a name until I came across this site)! By the way, I have also, for several years been doing daily exercises of my PC muscles, and this has greatly helped recent events.

Meanwhile, a couple of months ago, during a routine checkup, my physician declared that I have a slightly enlarged prostate and described some rather unpleasant remedies for it. This drove me to do some research on the internet, and hence, I arrived at the Aneros site.

I first bought the SGX and MGX models, which received their initial use in late June. I have so far had four sessions with the SGX and about half a dozen with the MGX. Whilst I quickly found both models comfortable and that they both provided pleasant sensations, the MGX quickly became my favourite. (I have also tried the Eupho just once, but I am clearly not ready for its subtleties just yet)! Read more »

Why do so many have such poor results?

I cannot understand why there is so much failure out there. When I use my maximus I always get the most intense super O every time. It does not seem possible not to get a super O every time out! I am a staight male and anal play for me was very limited for many years by not having the right partner to explore with. I am married and straight sex seemed to be fine. Somehow I slowly and surprising got interested in my own back door and had to work with my wife to accept what I got into. I tried on my own to insert things but it really didn't do anything for me. When I came across the aneros, it sparked my curiosity and I eventually bought one. It took several months of playing with it discreetly without my wife's knowledge. I would have sex with her with it in without telling her and got away with it for a while. When I was in my trial period I figured out several things. First, lying in bed and contracting was not a good way to use it. I found that it almost never gave enough stimulation to achieve the "goal." What made me achieve my first superO was when I was wearing it one night, found myself walking around with it in due to doing routine things around the house. When a friend came by unexpectedly I had to sit in a chair with it in for a while. It felt really uncomfortable at first but after a while I got use to it. After my friend left and I got up to walk him to the car I was standing and talking and I started to shift my weight from one leg to the other. When he left and I came back in, I contracted my muscles and all of a sudden I felt something strange and awesome. The more I contacted the more intense it started to feel. This feeling started growing and growing. I walked over to the couch and lyed dowm and for the next 30 minutes I started to feel the effects of what this toy can do. By the time I was done I was exhausted and exhausted the next day also. I found that not lying around, but being up and about with the aneros in was the way to get it going. Everytime I use it now, I would put it in to go out to dinner, or go on and errand. It seemed to me that physical walking and standing or sitting got it going. For instance, when I drive my car and I have in, I get the most intense feelings and orgasms while I'm driving. Please be advised that it is hard to drive and have this in, but it is a nice bumpy car ride that gets it going for me. So physical movement by walking and contracting rather than laying down is a better way to get off. Even riding a bicycle is great also. These kind of movements is what creates the better stimulation to begin the jouney to a superO. The greater the vigorous stimulation, the easier to achieve a lasting super O. I wish I had more time to into further detail but I have to cut this short for now. I hope this helpful and ask questions if anyone wants further insite.

Release

At last. We managed to be able to have a night of sex. And the first shared experience of using the Aneros.

My wife came home last Friday, and due to circumstance we haven't had the time and energy to have any love sessions. Well that's not entirely true, but its limited how advanced you get in the morning when your children are in the living room…

Well over the last many days we had been kissing and fondling during day time to warm up and get ready for when the children slept, but… Then we too were ether too tired or had other things to take care of.

But at last. Sunday I went to watch a game of skater hockey, and have some training myself. When I got home my wife was about to visit a friend to have dinner there. So I took care of the kids putting them to bed. And then what do you do when you have a couple of hours to kill? Yes that’s right. Around midnight I when to rinse myself and got lubed up. And just as I placed Aneros in position I hear my wife in the living room. I greet her and we kiss and we immediately feel that we must have each other. So k prepares herself, and I warm up in bed with contractions, and I can feel I’m close to having an O already. When K enters I tell her that I'm wearing Anaros for the occasion. Well we make love, but it takes some getting used to that Aneros have this long tail, so it gets a bit uncomfortable with her on top, so I pull Aneros out. And here the new sex lesson starts. I ask her to lube her finger and to put it up my ass, and I show her where the prostate is placed. She massages it and it feels very good. Then I ask her to put Aneros back. I start getting rhythmic contractions and K is touching my balls and breasts. I come in a wonderful way, while I’m telling her what’s going on in my body. I whish all sex education could be this fun. Read more »

Confessions

So much for abstinence.

On Wednesday evening I had another go, I simply had to. I guess I had a good session but I felt unsatisfied. A couple of dry-o's.

I must wait for my body to get ready, not insisting on getting the key to the big vibrating universe..

Well, Thursday morning i woke up early, and how do you spend an hour before you should get up? That’s right. Lube up and go. Again I was too ambitious and fell short. After 40 minutes I went to take a shower. And dancing to ‘Wake up and make love to me’ (Ian Drury) I came in a wonderful way. The shower beams touching my skin. I switched the shower to massage and let the powerful beam massage my lumber region i.e. lower back. That turned out to be the right thing to do, good things happened…

Friday my wife came home from the trip, and I was really trying to find a right time to tell her about Aneros. But I didn’t find the right time to do it. So we went to bed and slept as babies. In the morning I woke up early, and was lying thinking of what to say. And when K woke up, I started to tell that I too had been on a voyage. And then I told her about my adventures with Aneros. I was very anxious to hear her response, and it was positive, she congratulated me and was very happy for me. She wants to share the experience with me, but we have to wait until the mother in law has left. This will be on Monday. Read more »

Overdosed

I bought my Aneros on June 5.

And on Friday the 12. I had a breakthrough.

Well my story starts like this:

My wife had recently got fired from her work and she now enjoys three months of holiday.

She went to Switzerland to visit some of our good friends. The wife told about their new sex toys and my wife was brave and suggested that we should get a dildo to spice up our sex life. And so I went to down town Copenhagen to a very nice shop called 'Lust' and had a long conversation with the hot girl taking care of the shop. Since I had never been i a sex shop before, I was pleasantly surprised. A very good atmosphere, and a woman that could give me really good advice.

The dildo was a huge success, and i trawled the net for other sex toys. And went to Wikipedia and followed the link to 'Anaros'.

The content of the wiki convinced me that I had to try the Aneros. And since my wife was going to Spain to walk to San Sebastian (Pilgrim route) I felt that I had to get the Anaros to train with while she was gone.

So I went to Copenhagen’s SM store (sm shoppen) and had a talk with the woman there. And we kind of agreed that the msx was the right model. Read more »

Muscle Memory and Fantasy/Imagery as Orgasmic Triggers

These are excepts from a current thread in which Pan and I discuss these alternate methods based on his first post in Sky_Walker's thread The Five Minutes leading up to a Super-O at http://www.aneros.com/forum/viewtopic.php?t=4096&start=15.

>>>artform wrote: I have found both the Fantasy method and what I have called the Muscle Memory method to be very useful additional arrows in the quiver. But Muscle Memory may be limited to those experienced with yoga or at least successful inner body visualization: being able to mentally connect with a specific body element, isolate and activate it in an unusual way. For example focusing on a wound, visible or internal and actually being able to accelerate its healing.

I used my MGX, when I had temporarily reached a plateau before any Aneros-induced Super-O, and practised having my prostate and its rectal muscle wall cover reach out to contact the tip of the MGX and have them caress it. I called it "polishing the knob". Mine does this hungrily for mrs. a's finger anytime!

Perhaps that was the key, butt it worked with the Aneros and I could then replicate that sensation anytime at will without the Aneros and launch the energies, the Butt Buzz and P-waves, mini-Os and dry-Os and beyond… anytime. The muscles there actually flex gently when I "recall" that memory and the physical stimulus prostate fuse is ignited that easily. Perhaps it's just the trick of an adept with an unusual background. Or, this might be useful for others needing to "do something", just as the Fantasy Method has wide appeal and application.<<< Read more »

Blowing hot and cold

I mentioned in a previous blog about the wife wanting a toy
and my efforts to find one and get her interested.

She is astute enough to combine this with something she has always wanted so some horse trading was done with an air con unit.
A Feeldoe was duly ordered.

There was a strange occurence one night.
I had a few drinks and was feeling a bit adventerous.
I lubed up my thumb and started playing with her back door.
Entrance was granted to my digit.
She seemed to enjoy that but I did not push my luck.

When she came back from the bathroom I lay on my side
and said it was her turn.
Boy did I get a surprise.
She lubed up a finger and entered me.
What a fantastic feeling that was.
She moved around inside for a few minutes.
The feelings continued for a few minutes after removal.

So needless to say I could not wait the arrival of the Feeldoe.

I decided to include this in my blog even if it is
sort of off the main subject, a diversion on the journey so to speak.

The Feeldoe arrived and we both got a shock. That mother was huge.
I wanted to order the Slim but she insisted on the Classic.
I was thinking what the hell am I going to do with this.
We ordered the vibrating one and that turned out to be a good decision. Read more »

Grinding Away

I haven’t really had a bad session since starting the KSMO. One thing the KSMO really helps with is with the discipline to only use the Aneros three times a week. The Peridise is my weapon of choice since it produces results with a minimum of effort and a maximum of mobility.

I have 4 different kinds of sessions 1) Aneros 2) KSMO 3) The session I like to have when I lay down in bed at night and my prostate starts throbbing and I just relax and focus without either Aneros or KSMO and 4) My favorite, but least frequent, sessions with my SO. Not included are general spousal sex sessions which end in ejaculation and kick off another cycle of arousal building.

All these sessions result in intense sensations that I don’t know how they can keep going without release. And oh how sensitive my nipples have become! The general cycle of orgasm starts out with arousal building with session types 1, 2 and 3 and end when the wife wants it to or I need a good nights sleep – ‘cause otherwise, as the days pass by, the little walnut keeps me awake longer and longer.

Still, despite the constant cycle of arousal building, intense sensations and p-waves there have been no breakthrough moments of mini-o’s, dry-o’s or super-o’s. Read more »