Author: goldenboy

“Are Energy Orgasms Real?….You Bet!

After dosing on some binaurals for sexual energy, I decided to remove the headphones and just relax. I started to perform some light kegels just for fun. This action quickly changed into what I like to call “thought contractions”. This is really directed tantric energy towards my rectum and eventually, my prostate. Well, it didn’t take long before these thoughts became “swirls” of energy starting with my anus and SLOWLY working its way up towards my rectum. When it hit the part of the rectum that abuts my prostate, I felt an extremely pleasurable “quiver” with every “touch” of energy near my prostate just like I would during an Aneros session! This was unreal but VERY REAL! (I did not have a lot of time during this “session” but I experienced several Mini-O’s throughout.)
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I have heard the term “energy orgasm” and have seen it demonstrated on some videos. But the best teacher of all is your own body! Here is a portion of a relevant article I discovered online:

“Sexual energy is available to men twenty-four hours a day, but most men starve themselves because they believe they can satisfy sexually only during a few minutes of intercourse. The most liberating thing for men is to realize that they have total access to and control of their sexual energy at any time.”

Think about it! This sexual energy is available to us men 24/7. We should take advantage of it! Being able to orgasm at will is a powerful, mind-blowing experience! Try it!
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“Semen Retention: If At First You Don’t Succeed….”

Well, the string has ended at 9! Here’s how it happened……

My wife was definitely in the mood last night. We settled into bed and began to watch some favorite programs. All was well for a while. Then, without my prodding, I noticed she had re-positioned herself next to me. She had laid her pillow across my chest and just settled-in. Before I knew it, she had my package cupped and began to lightly stroke my scrotum through my boxers. OMG! I am starting to moan already and she has just started! (Realize it has been 8 days since we did anything). She ignores the moans and just continues on her way. We continue to watch and she continues to pleasure me. At some point, she involves my nipples into the action. By this time, I have a raging erection that would not quit! I must have been ‘up’ for at least 30 minutes or more (I wasn’t timing it).

When she “finished” with me, she asked me if I am going to finish-myself-off? I said that I have been avoiding ejaculations and that feels good to me (I didn’t explain SR). She seemed a little puzzled. So, we cuddled for a bit more. I could have gone another round but she needed her rest. So we said good-night and I settled-in for what I thought was going to be another day into SR (Day 9).

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“Semen Retention: Almost In Uncharted Waters”

It’s a new Day 8 of SR and so far I am surviving. But I know the next few days will be critical. I have been avoiding sex (my bad!) with my wife in order to push back the boundary of time between ejaculations. I know that semen retention must initially get “worse” before it gets “better”. By worse, I am not implying that it is painful or anything like that. But yes, it can be uncomfortable and you don’t really know what HORNY feels like until you have walked in my shoes!
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However, there are times when I can “play” with my package for an hour and not feel ANY arousal! That is truly amazing and I would like to think that it is a by-product of the act of semen retention. Other times, I will get an erection just “out of the blue” and don’t know what to do with it! Now, in the past, the “usual” approach (obviously) was a quick hand-job and another blown load! But SR represents a different take–a different philosophy if you will–on sexual release. Guys, It gets harder as it goes…..
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I am ‘dosing’ on some binaurals for wet-dream induction but have not had any results as of yet. I”m not sure how much longer it will take but I sure would WELCOME the relief that will come with it. Overcoming horniness is something every guy practicing SR will have to endure in his own way. Because if he doesn’t do it right, he’ll be right back to Day 1 and I’m sure most guys wouldn’t want that. I sure don’t. Of course, following day 70, or 100, or 200, it can be expected. But not after day 10 or so.
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Trying to keep the horniness in balance is never easy, particularly if you expect to live your life normally (whatever that means). Going forward with SR, I have noticed a new ease in dealing with people, especially women. Women (and men for that matter) seem attracted to me in a greater way than before. I don’t think it is my imagination. Then, when confronted with a beautiful woman with a great figure on top of that—OMG!—that will seem to trigger a horny “attack” right away! It is pleasurable but it is also a pathway up “Horny Hill” and (hopefully) down again!
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[Caution–sexually-graphic content here] One interesting thing as I get into SR more seriously: I notice women’s (and men’s) bodies more, and in a sexual way. I am obviously looking at a woman’s boobs and especially their crotches and fantasizing what it looks like beneath their panties. Yes, their vaginal opening and the hair around it. And yes, how a man’s ‘arsenal’ fills-out his jeans. I know this may sound a little weird but that it the way I feel now. Hard to say this, but even in the men’s locker room after swimming, I find myself “looking” at the guys packages more! Now I normally would not do this at all but perhaps this is a fringe benefit of semen retention! Read more »

“Sexual Metamorphosis: Are Others Feeling It Too?”

Background: I dosed on my usual prostate health binaural for an hour. I found some ‘oriental sex lounge music’ as well and it was very different and actually seemed to trigger some erotically stimulating fantasies in my head. After that, I removed headphones and just started to relax. I am now feeling an unusual sensation in my male package, particularly the testicles. I am avoiding stimulating them too much for fear of having to ejaculate. I am now into Day 7 of semen retention (a new relative high!)
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I am feeling a different kind of “Aless” sensation from my prostate today. I don’t know if it is directly related to semen retention and/or a boost in testosterone. But whatever it is, I am feeling it!

That leads me to another question: If I am feeling this so strongly, will others around me be feeling it too? Will there be a male sexual “aura” surrounding me? It is hard to describe but it seems to me to be a different manifestation of male sexual energy, a metamorphosis if you will, one that pervades my entire body. Perhaps I am just horny after all but this feeling just won’t go away today. Do I need to ejaculate? I am trying hard not to….I will persevere as best I can today and provide an update later on.
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“Super-O With A Bottle of Wine?”

I was up early this morning and got sufficiently aroused through some binaurals. I felt ready for a long-overdue Aneros session. I knew I wanted Helix. I lubed-up with Slippery Stuff Gel, rolled-over on my side and inserted it nice-and-slow. Ohhh! It felt SO GOOD! I quickly began to tense my PC muscles and soon began to feel the distinct auto-f**k contractions. They just wouldn’t stop amid my own anal quivers which I was also providing. OMG! At some point, it felt like I was a bottle of wine and was being fucked by a corkscrew! That is the nearing analogy I can infer. it was an insanely pleasurable feeling! I contracted fully, released and the corkscrew continued to methodically “drill” into my rectum until I am starting to suppress a real moan. I re-positioned myself several times and found myself on my back. I am breathing rhythmically and gyrating my hips in sync. OMG! The corkscrew keeps doing its thing! I turn-over on my stomach and—yes—the Super-O is continuing to build, much stronger now until I experience a full-body orgasm that had me twisting from head to toe. But, after that, I realized that that was all there was to be for this session (after about 30 minutes) so I “popped the cork” and the session was over! (not quite)…..

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“A Toothpick?—- You Must Be Kidding!”

Oh my!! Just when I thought I experienced it all, this “session” had me blasting-off into orbit! Let me try to explain how it happened……
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I was up fairly early. I had a strong erection just before getting up so I know I was quite aroused. I went to my favorite sofa and proceeded to dose on a binaural for multiple orgasms (no ejaculation). It was about an hour long; I finished it but frankly I did not experience much this time. Oh well……
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I then started to look for some erotic lounge music and proceeded to listen. Now I normally don’t point the finger at the music selection for my success during sessions but this one really did it for me (on YouTube): “EROTIC FLUIDS – MAKING LOVE & Relaxing Romantic Sensual music❀ ,SEX MUSIC MIX BUDDA LOUNGE” It was a full 2 hours long (and I am still listening as I type this!)

Anyway, while listening, I got the urge to just concentrate on my perineum and scrotum during this session. So I got naked, tensed-up my scrotal “package” and proceeded with a slow tantric massage “down-there”. Realize that I did not really have an erection (yet) from this but it was so sensual and satisfying. Then, something quite unexpected happened……

I thought to myself: if my fingers can be so arousing, can I possibly get the same amount of pleasure from……A TOOTHPICK? Read more »

“Letting Go: It’s All In The Mind”

I’m building on my previous “Do-Nothing” whole-body technique. Here are some details……

I was awakened in the early AM hour with (OMG!) an erection so strong I felt like I was headed for a wet dream! But I wasn’t dreaming! I was squirming face-down in bed, just waiting for a climax but it never came. I felt my prostate primed and just ready to get the signal. Finally, after about 15 minutes or so, it began to subside and I decided to retreat to the sofa and listen to some relaxing sex lounge music that was not too stimulating (this seemed appropriate for the do-nothing technique). So, I found a track and began to listen…….
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Well, it wasn’t too long into the music that my mind began to wander. Not like a dream, but more like a meditation. I began to “let-go” sexually. At first, it seemed like pretty tame stuff. Read more »

“A Do-Nothing Equivalent? —Fascinating!”

i was laying in bed this morning with a fairly strong morning erection and I got-to-thinking: Is there a whole-body equivalent for the Aneros “Do-Nothing” technique? I know it sounded somewhat silly but then I began to explore it in a little more depth…

The Aneros “Do-Nothing” technique is well-established among Aneros users. Using it still produces amazing results. So why can’t this same technique be applied to the entire male body? I began to think this through some more…..

I am already practicing “semen retention” so that phase of “Do-Nothing” seems to be well-established in me. But other things I do such as binaural beats and Peridise sessions do not fit. What if they were to be eliminated from my regime?
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This argument has come full-circle. By doing nothing, am I encouraging my male body to take-over and do what it was designed to do? That is, be ready for intercourse? A penis which will erect strongly either at will or with just a little bit of encouragement? Attract a mate?

Then, there is the whole “horniness” thing. If I want to practice “do-nothing” for my entire body, won’t my body “revolt” at some point and tell me “enough-is enough” already? Will this potential practice then shift my libido into overdrive? Is that such a bad thing?

Where should I go from here? This is a very fascinating topic! I think I need to explore this some more! Read more »

“Intimate Encounter”

An interesting session! Here are the elements…..

Background: I was up VERY EARLY in the AM and decided to ‘dose’ on something. I wanted something different so I decided on “5 Hour Night Long Wet Lucid Dream #2 Binaural Beats”. Yes, I know it was 5 hours, but as it turned out, I only did about 1.5 hours of it. Then, I listened for a while to some erotic romantic lounge music. Wow! I was getting in the mood. Interesting thought, I really did not experience an erection during the entire time. Anyway, I felt ‘ready’ for a session and decided to retreat to my own bedroom to select an Aneros. I decided on Eupho (with Boy Butter) and I decided in advance (or so I thought) that this was only to be a do-nothing session.

I quickly started the session and the Eupho found its ‘home’ very quickly. It felt so good! I laid on my side and just began the ‘do-nothing’ session. After about 5-10 minutes, however, things began to change. I don’t know how it happened, but I am knee-deep in a very realistic fantasy. I am not ‘out-of-it’ as in other fantasies. This was almost like an awake dream-like state where I remember everything. Well, here is the fantasy. [I believe that some of this will necessarily become somewhat graphic].

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“Tantra: Fantasy With A Stranger”

An amazing, amazing session! But, I decided that this blog will not be a “kiss and tell” narrative. Most of the details will remain private. However, here is the background……

I am in a bar just having a drink and chilling, when I meet a beautiful blonde. Well, we get to talking and we are really hitting it off! Somehow, we get on the subject of tantra and massage. I told her that I have some experience with self-tantra. Before too long, she invites me to her apartment where she can do a tantric massage on me “the right way”. She apparently has extensive experience with tantra so I eagerly said “yes”. She said, though, that there would be some ground-rules. First, she would be in control of me and all the details of the tantric massage. I was to remain completely passive. And second, only she would be in control of my ejaculation (if there was to be one). Not knowing what I was in for, I reluctantly agreed, and then we left the bar for her apartment. It was quite early in the morning……

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As I said, I will not include the details of the tantric massage as they will remain private. I will say that this was the most relaxing, sensual, thought-provoking tantric massage I have ever received (in fantasy) or given myself. It contained a number of “new” elements which I have not experienced before in a massage. Here are some of the elements as I recall them: Read more »