Nothing on Doing Nothing and But Buzzin

On Friday night, I had a date with my Helix Syn and after reading several Forum posts about the ‘Do Nothing’ approach I decided this was the night to try it out. I lubed up, inserted and layed down to enjoy the session. Having tried this method before but without the patience, I never really gave it a chance. So, an hour and a half into my session, doing nothing but concentrate on twitches and pulses and sensations which never came, I gave up and spent my last 20 minutes doing a few Kegels and contractions but again not much to write about. I’m not giving up on the concept so I plan to try again on occasion. I know it works, I just need to give it more time.

On Saturday night, another date with my H-Syn but this time with mild contractions and Kegels (usual practice for me). This time, I experienced a lot of anus and anal sensations I never had before. My Helix was just dancing in there. I had read about it from my co-members on the forum but a very first for me. It was GREAT to say the least!

All this to say that my re-wiring is still progressing. I think about this every time I feel a new twitch, tingle, tug or whatever else trembles down there. I have a long way to go and enjoy every minute of it.

I look forward to my next date on Tuesday or so.

“Aless: An Unexpected Session”

This session came out of nowhere and hit me f*****g hard! Here’s how it happened…..

I had to visit the restroom this morning (#2) and felt a little quivering in my prostate when I finished. it is not early at all this AM and I got a good night’s sleep. I had some time and so I just laid down on my sofa. It is rather cool this morning and I just covered myself up with a blanket. Feels good! Anyway, my pulsating is continuing and is starting to get stronger. By the way, I should mention that for the last week or so, I have been ejaculating regularly every 2 days or so. My prostate is getting more “exercise” than when I was doing rather lengthy semen retention. Anyway, I am laying on the sofa and decided to perform some kegels. I start by doing light kegels and then reverse-kegels. These feel good but I am not satisfied. So I continue with stronger kegels and begin to “hold” them for a longer period of time. This feels good as well but it is doing nothing in relieving my feeling of an “alive” prostate. I began to visualize my prostate like a vital “walnut” deep within my body and the myriad of nerves feeding into it. I thought that I should feel for it through my perineum and that is exactly what I did. I felt an enlargement there and began to massage it and press on it. I could feel it immediately on my prostate. Did it feel good? Yes! Did it relieve my pulsating? NO! What could I do? I noticed that by doing this massage, I am beginning to get an erection as well. Read more »

Question about kegel exercises.

I’ve done a lot of research on the kegel exercises and the PC muscle. What people describe the contractions of that muscle is similar to how I have practiced it but I don’t know if I am doing it properly. For me it feels like there is a muscle in my shaft that I can flex and makes it move upward very slightly and that is the same thing I use to stop my stream of urine. I can’t hold this muscle though, I can tense it then it immediately un-tenses. From my research of Kegel exercises it says that you must hold the contraction of the PC muscle. So do I need to keep repeating the contraction I use as practice so that I can eventually hold it?

Involuntaries/P-waves

So, what exactly do Involuntaries/P-waves FEEL like? I’m so confused because I sometimes feel like I’m in control of the rhythmic contractions, and I have to actively not think about them to let them go on, otherwise they will stop. Help!

Best brand for public use?

So my (f)iance and I (m) are looking for toys to wear and use on each other. We really want ones that have either remotes or controlled by our phones so we can have control over each other when we go out to the bar with friends or on a date. We decided to get her the wevibe 4+ since it can also be used together in bed. As for the prostate massager we don’t know what to get. It’s between the nexus revo stealth, the lelos Hugo, or an aneros without a remote control. Which would be more comfortable to wear for a couple of hours while sitting down eating dinner or at the bar with friends and which one has the best battery life?

To do or not to do, that is the question.

So, what should I do? Should I contract and relax the muscles? Should I mantain certain degree of contraction? Should I do nothing and wait?
So far, I’ve tried the contract-relax and the mantain-contract (I have to say that maybe I’m not “doing nothing” enough time, which might be the problem). It feels good, but no great pleasure so far.
Also, I would like you to tell me what are these: when I hold the contraction at a certain level, my sphincter (I think) like has involuntaries? I don’t know, it’s like the aneros is trembling into my ass. It’s pleasurable, but I find it hard to find the level of contraction and to mantain it. So, what are those and what do they lead to?
Thanks in advance 😀

Started with Vice, which model to get now?

I got the Aneros vice cause I wanted the vibration, it feels great but since I am a beginner to Aneros (not anal play I have experience with the nJoy pure wand, etc) I feel like I should have started with a beginner model because the Aneros devices require more learning than any other prostate device.

So I basically want to know which model I should downgrade too in order to learn the necessary contractions that I can’t do with the Vice due to its size there is barely any movement when contracting. Also, the Vice is meant for pros and when it comes to Aneros I am not a pro because the Vice is the only one I’ve used.

Which model is best for direct prostate contact and an inevitable rocking motion from the contractions?

TL;DR-(The rocking motion caused by contraction is what Aneros designed their devices to do and I’m not getting enough of it from the Vice due to its size and it being my only Aneros device).

Wednesday morning session,

Hi guys,

I get horny now as I think of my sessions these days, such as the one I had just before sunrise this morning. With the fall equinox arriving in a couple days, the sun rises these days around 7 a.m.

The session lasted about an hour which concluded about 6:30 a.m. I listened to NPR Morning Edition for about 20 minutes, but got depressed at the news. So I proceeded at once to my session in order with Maximus, MGX, and Progasm Classic which began near 5:30 a.m.

I began with Maximus, and wow, what pulsating pleasure with him! Maximus went to town with me in his more discrete, yet manly way. I let him massage my anal tract/musculature and prostate in his own way, and wow, what surging pleasure! This went on for a good twenty minutes. I followed up with MGX which was more subdued this time and not like the wild action I had with this model early last Saturday afternoon, but still very solid and good.

Likewise, I ended the session with Progasm Classic which was more subdued than that breakthrough, stellar performance he delivered very early Friday morning! I can work with these three models using the do-nothing technique, and just let them be the Energizer Bunnies they are meant to be. Just “communing” with my Aneros tools and focusing in their subtle action actually produces intense pleasure that is absolutely heavenly! Read more »

Helix too small?

So I’ve had my helix for about a year now and I use it off and on. I should probably be more consistent but I have a pretty chaotic schedule. Anyways I’ve never reach the coveted super-O.

I try the slight flexing and relaxing and giving it plenty of time. I’ve found when I really relax I can feel the slight pressure on my prostate and get some body tremors from the pleasure but nothing sustained. It usually just teases and frustrates me to the point of finishing the deed the old fashioned way.

Compared to the progasm the helix looks small and I sometimes worry if the helix is simply too small for me (being a 6foot guy).

The only other factor that I need to try is abstaining from ejaculation for a few days before hand. This can be difficult due to my young hormones and my fairly active sex life.

These are just my thoughts and issues and I was wondering if anyone had a similar experience with the helix. I’d appreciate any input.

“A Split Surfing Session”

An interesting session! I awakened VERY EARLY this morning with a rock-hard erection in bed. Really thought I would be headed for an ejaculation (with just a little bit of hand coaxing). I decided to lie downstairs on the sofa for a while and just chill with some relaxing music. I put-on a track which I have listened to before (name escapes me now) and it was about an hour long. I fell-into a “mild” fantasy: I have visited a massage parlor and a masseuse was going to give me a “soft and gentle cock massage (with no happy ending). I have never experienced this before and so I was intrigued. I laid down and we began….. Read more »