“My Experience With DE: Resetting the Sexual Clock”

I was hesitant to relate this experience at all, but I decided that I learned some valuable lessons and thought I should share it. So here goes……

I have never had an issue with DE (that is delayed ejaculation or retarded ejaculation) until recently. For some unknown reason, I was not able to ejaculate, even when greatly aroused. Frankly, I have not had this issue before; I always was able to cum relatively easily and at my discretion. I don’t really know what changed, only that this symptom was beginning to be very frustrating not only for me but for my wife. We have had some great sexual encounters lately (something I missed for a while primarily due to my Aneros sessions) which ended in my penetration of her. But after a short while, it became clear that I was not able to ejaculate within her and began losing my erection after a not-so short period of thrusting. It was very awkward and embarrassing to say the least.

Always willing to research a “solution” I began to explore DE on the web. What I continued to discover was that most DE “cures” involved abstaining from masturbation, porn and other forms of arousal for at least ONE WEEK! OMG! My first reaction was “NO WAY”! But ultimately, I decided that this was going to be the way, however ‘painful’ it would be. An exception would be an occasion Aneros session which would (ideally) involve no penile stimulation. Further, I should masturbate in the presence of my wife (preferably with my other weaker hand) and later, she should masturbate me. Finally, when I feel like I am near the PONR, she should guide my manhood into her for my orgasmic release. Well, I had a ‘battle plan’ in place and was ready to put it into practice……. Read more »

Chapter 3

I had been home for three days after my marathon sex trip, arriving back late in the afternoon after a long morning spent in bed with the lovely Anne. That morning will remain in my thoughts for years to come. It was a sensual and deeply intimate experience. As the first rays of the morning sun touched the illicit hotel bed that caressed me, an older man with grey chest hairs and she a lithe young woman with soft supple tits. I slid my arm under her back as she lay next to me. We were not practiced sleeping partners this was the first (and probably) only) night we had ever spent in bed together. Both of us naked in bed, warmed by the cloaking covers from the lusty sex of the night before, we were now relaxed and calm, except my cock was long and hard. Read more »

Good aneros alternatives? Specifically Lelo Loki Wave

I have a helix sin and a progasm, and neither get me anywhere close to what a regular dildo can do. I like the slow, rolling motion and accompanying feeling, which I’m guessing are p-waves, and I’m thinking of trying the Loki Wave by Lelo. It has a come hither motion, and I like that it’s a little larger. Does anyone have sharable experience with one? Or a recommendation besides?

“A Helix Ride Like No Other”

[This description is somewhat graphic and does contain profanity]

Contrary to my better judgment on my last post, I had the time to do a shortened session with Helix. I was not aroused in any way and thought I would just do a ‘quick do-nothing’ session and call it a night. Well! This session was anything but ordinary! Let me explain……

I quickly lubed-up and the Helix felt so good going in. I got into my usual right-side position so as not to stimulate my penis. It wasn’t too long before I distinctly felt my pulse through the Helix. I have felt it before but this time it was especially strong. After a while (about 5 minutes I believe) I got the urge to start doing some very strong anal/PC contractions just to ‘start things up’. Well, they started up all right! I began to experience a combination of auto-fuck contractions combined with my own strong contractions and they were beginning to get intensely pleasurable! I rolled over on my stomach and began to thrust my chest up and down, up and down, in synchronous motion with my breathing. The Helix is moving in and out with every breath. OMG! With each movement of my chest, I am feeling a most-pleasurable ache (like a strong P-wave) that was only getting stronger! It went on and on……and on and on…..

With each ache, I was letting out a moan: OOH!….OOH!,,,,OOH!,,,,OOH!,,,,,,The moans became muffled SCREAMS under my pillow. I could not stop them. You get the picture! Read more »

Chapter 2

Chapter 2
With the erotic image of me penetrating him fueling chains of ecstatic sensation in my anal canal I resisted inserting my cock into his trembling opening. Suddenly I felt a need to engage intimately with him, to savor his erotic essence and taste the steaming thick eruption of his passion in my mouth; I wanted to consume and taste the cream of his desire. There is no other way for me to express my intimacy with a man that to take his manhood into my mouth as he releases a flood of hot semen on my tongue. Although my mind was lasciviously imagining my cock in his spasming anal canal as he savored the sensation of my prong filling him I resisted saving penetration for the crescendo of this meeting.

So I pulled away from him and turned so that I was facing him as I rolled him onto his back. Bending his knees and parting his legs, I knelt between them at the altar of his male sexuality and prepared to take the sacrament of his orgasmic nectar. Lowering my lips to the most sensitive part of his sexual anatomy I kissed his sulcus, the firm cleft under his cock head. I kissed it and licked it tenderly and repeatedly making his cock lurch and drool fat drops of crystal clear precum onto his belly. As I teased the ridge of his firm smooth cleft with my tongue I gathered my own precum on my middle finger; it was being coxed to drool from my own cock by what I was doing to him. With my other hand I pulled on the Aneros in his anus, extricating it with a wet plop onto the bed. Freed of the probing device his anus gently trembled between echo contractions. Read more »

“The Call Of The Eupho: A Wild Ride!”

Since I have not had an Aneros session in almost 2 weeks, I have been getting my stim through other means, usually porn or erotic auditory stim. Early this AM, I began to search for and listen to erotically-stimulating music. One in particular which I liked was called “Erotic Massage”. It was about an hour long. I had the time, I settled-in for a nice relaxing ‘listen’, set the volume very low and began to sink-into the relaxing melody. I didn’t realize it at the time but this audio track must have contained some very-carefully embedded ‘tones’ which were very stimulating. Not so much as for a penile erection (I know the feeling well) but it was a more ‘all-over’ erotic feeling. I became very aroused ALL OVER MY BODY. I felt the need to caress my nipples and torso and other parts of my body. Yes I was feeling it in my groin and had a mostly-full erection (about 3/4 I believe). But near the end, I felt ready for sex! Since it was early AM, and I was still feeling unfulfilled and horny, I decided to go for an Aneros session (for which I have longed for a while). My body was ready.

I retreated to my bedroom, selected the Eupho (somehow I knew this was the one), lubed-up and laid on my usual right side position.

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Some Questions

Hi everyone!

So I’ve been on this journey for about two years now, and I’ve went from no feelings at all to feeling full body waves (only once though)!

I have a few questions that I hope can be answered. A lot of the times when things start to feel good I have a hard time letting go and just letting my body do the work for me, and this results in me losing the feeling, which can be hard to get back. Does anyone have any tips for just letting go?

So far I’ve never been able to orgasm at all from the aneros, and although I feel like I’m right there, it seems as if something is missing. I’ve tried the do nothing method, which got me the furthest, but hasn’t been able to produce results as of late. I’ve tried holding a low contraction through involuntaries, but eventually they seem to become voluntary involuntaries (if that makes sense), and I lose feeling. Is there a method I should be focusing on? Like trying to massage the prostate through the low contractions and involuntaries? I’ve tried that once or twice, and while it feels really good, I find that I lose sensation when it starts to feel awesome

“My ASMR Experience and Amygdala Clicking”

Always in search of something “new” I set myself up for some relaxation on my favorite sofa. I discovered an ASMR session by “Heather Feather” and decided to give is a try. I must say first off that I am somewhat familiar with ASMR and have experienced some “brain tingling” before. So I expected nothing new this time. Was I wrong! Let me explain………

I set the volume low on my headphones, got comfortable on the sofa and started to relax. The soft ‘whispers” of Heather were intriguing and she was “whispering” words and sounds that were very soothing. Some of the words caused a slight “tickling” sensation along my spine. As I continued to listen, I found that there were more “tickling” sensations moving further down my spine and eventually, it seemed, was concentrated at the very base of my spine and even lower, toward my anus. I felt it almost constantly with every whisper or word sound and it was very pleasurable. So much so that I distinctly began to feel aroused and was developing an erection!

[Now I know there is some controversy whether or not ASMR is inherently sexual, but in my case, it definitely was!]

I listened some more, probably about 40 minutes in total of this hour-plus session, when I decided to do some “resesarch’ on ASMR (I stopped this session prematurely). I discovered that the feelings I had were not totally unusual. What was unusual was what happened next………. Read more »

How much lube? Which one?

Hi fellas,

So..i’ve been giving a shot at this (helix syn) since a couple of months, once or twice a week. So far i manager to feel something pleasurable around the area and feel like i’m progressing slowly but steady. I usually do ~1 hr total session (initial warmup included) but I often run dry multiple times during the session and start feeling like i’m scratching my insides. Stop, relube, restart.
So here is my question: how much of which lub do you guys use? How often?
I have a very sensitive intestine, so glycerin is out of question, and I try to stay on the natural side to avoid finding 2 yrs later I’ve been absorbing cancerogenic stuff directly in my bloodstream twice a week 🙂
In the end I am using either ~10 cc of Yes oil based or Sliquid Sassy.. But I still run dry. Frustrating.

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Lingamans Story Chapter 1

As I approach 100 entries and 51,000 views in Lingamans blog I decided it was time for a change. Everything in this blog to date expresses experiences I have had. As many of my friends here know I love erotic writing, both reading it and writing it. So with the interest of changing things here and exercising one of my loves I am shifting this blog to my erotic fiction. Obviously even fiction is inspired by a writers experiences, feelings and desires so there is a lot of me in the work I will be presenting here. It is intended to inform, arouse and encourage you as readers and as members of the Aneros brotherhood. So to my friends and brothers in orgasm here … enjoy.

Chapter 1

Like many people I have been on a few forums on line in the last 12 years or so. I joined this one 10 years ago. I have seen the members of this forum come and go just as I have on many other forums. Senior members are active and then they fall away as the novelty wears off or the need they had of the forum fades or is replaced by something else in their life. I always feel a sense of loss when I longer see people that I chatted with every day no longer a part of my life. Sharing this feeling of loss I had with a few senior practitioners few years ago in the Aneros chat room we all agreed that the role and purpose of the Aneros Forum was different and that we couldn’t afford to lose senior members. Yes it was a place for beginners to get help and we glad to offer advice and assistance to achieve MMO, but we also agreed that the seniors in this forum had phenomenal wisdom; wisdom that doctors, sex counselors and professional sex workers did not have a clue about. Read more »