This Saturday was different. It started at 0300 as two feral cats conducted loud diplomatic negotiations under our bedroom window.
This causing my wife and I to be awake well before her 0600 shift was due to start. Thanks cats I thought.
So as my wife left for work I had about 7 hours of free time in which I’d usually go for a Progasm session. This morning I meditated for an hour and went back to sleep for an hour… in my dreams I was moaning like a little bitch in heat with a Progasm screwing me over – woke up with a slightly sore throat and a fuzzy afterglow feeling… not sure but it felt like I’d had PGASMS while sleeping – that warm buzzy afterglow effect was in play.
On a whim I decided to do something different and grabbed my Eupho being a toy I’d never really got on with. Some gentle nipple play (several nipple gasms ensued) wow.. Ok lube the F*&! out of Eupho and insert gently.
Breath slow.. gentle… on back knees up feet flat.. breath.. what the holy hell? Super O – like a roaring wave of pleasure… and yet it felt sublimely gentle, like this wave had been teased out of me… it wasn’t the sledgehammer a Progasm sometimes is, no contractions needed just effortless gently starting building to a surge of pleasure over and over and over… after 30 mins of this I thought I’ll try the Progasm… still having orgasms and shaking I inserted the Progasm (more lube) – OK instant sledgehammer spasming Super O seeing colours and feeling like I’d left my body… carried on with the Progasm for 20 min then started to feel a little tired back there… removed. Cleaned up. Went and had cup of tea and vape (not weed) realised as I sat on the deck outside that ripples of pleasure were still happening.. put tea down.. ALESS super O and another and another… suddenly thought shit neigbours could see me. Staggered back indoors.
Ok. Time out. But prostate says NO. Lurch back to bed shaking and moaning (still Aless) go back to Eupho.
What followed was 90 mins of the most exquisite pleasure I’ve ever had.. I was one energised moaning and at one point singing ball of constant full body orgasm every cell in my body rang and I could feel myself rippling around the Eupho.
Exhaustion and dehydration finally called an end… drank a bottle of water and tried to pee (difficult with a swollen prostate).
Got dressed (took 5 mins because still shaking) went outside in the sun with my vape and felt my body blend into a wall of slow pulsing energy – just sublime.
Curled up back in bed to try and cool down… and just blissed out in a sea of ALESS orgasms and pleasure waves for another two hours then slept for an hour.
Later on having calmed down enough to be slightly rational I mowed the lawns. And wound up having more ALESS Wave orgasms while pushing a mower…. these carried on with decreasing frequency all day.. they got soft enough and gentle enough that they weren’t noticeable to anyone.
So a toy that I never got on with just turned me into a total space junkie without weed or indeed any great effort.
It’s gentle enough that my prostate doesn’t tire out and just about perfect for long sessions (for me). I think this is the beginning of a beautiful friendship.
Hope others weekends are going as well or better….. just wanted to share what has been an almost religious experience for me.
Tag: A-less
Anyone else experience this?
So I would argue I’ve never felt anything specifically that I could identify as my prostate. I can’t exactly find it. I am having fun on this journey though. I have the most reliable success by aless with a bit of flower. Often the pleasure is squarely located in my lower zone and the pleasure from my cock distracts me. Last time I experienced something slightly different. I could feel my heart beat pulsing loudly throughout my body. Up and down it. And closing my eyes.. My sense of balance quickly rotated/flicked back and forth from the left side of one ear to the right side rapidly. I very briefly felt weight of a blanket on me, a hint of floating. Curious!
My thoughts for beginners are to give up the toys. I have several and they are not subtle enough. If you are having trouble feeling anything, just forget the toys for now. Flower is key.
Wow! What just happened? Unintentional Aless?
TLDR at the end.
M 28. Long time lurker of this sub. Throwaway account obviously. Been using my helix syn on and off for a few years now, but the past few months I have been making some pretty substantial progress.
Yesterday morning I had the house to myself and decided to have a session before starting the day. It was pretty uneventful to be honest. Small p waves but I could tell I wasn’t in the right mindset. I was chasing the feeling, not letting it happen. Getting better at that but still it takes some focus. Even though I have been trying (unsuccessfully) to end my sessions without finishing with a traditional orgasm I couldn’t help myself. I edged with my syn still inserted and had a pretty decent traditional orgasm. I cleaned up and went about my day hoping my next session would be more eventful without my cock involved.
I get home from the gym last night and popped a weed gummy to relax and watch tv, nothing out of the ordinary for me. Watch some tv with the wife and have a good evening. I pick up a little around the house and it’s time to go to bed. My wife had gone to bed already and fell asleep while I was picking up and putting dishes away. At this point I’m not horny in the slightest, just a little high. I lay down in bed and about 30 seconds later I feel my prostate tingle and my pc muscle contracts involuntarily. This gets my attention.
What next after the helix syn?
About myself: relatively new, and through some incredible luck and circumstances, been able to achieve aless orgasm.
But since I’m still new, would still like to explore toys.
What are a couple more aneros models to try?
I took a look at a [comparison chart](https://www.eldorado.net/resources/ss/Aneros%20-%20Comparison%20Chart.pdf) and considering the Eupho and progasm jr (I’m pretty petite).
Semen Retention
Going on my second week w/o cumming…super turned up, pretty much all the time at this point. My wife and I usually have great sex about once a week with teasing and play inbetween (she knows about my pgasms and how to bring me to them with external petting and stimulation), but we had family in town and I knew this past weekend was a no go. Nipple play and aless sessions are CRAZY intense right now. I’m usually good for about 5-7 days and then I’m just out of my mind and end up cumming. This is usually a pretty good formula and timeframe for a great sex life. I occasionally have the chance to make it last longer, that time of the month, family visits, travel, etc…
My question for the pros is…does this intensity keep ratcheting up the longer you go w/o ejaculating or does you body adjust and it sort of plateaus or goes in the opposite direction? I’ve heard of abstaining leading to wet dreams and hfwo, just wondering where to go from here.
how do you have an aless orgasm?
I’ve been thinking if trying it, but I don’t know exactly how to do it. If there is nothing up there, I can’t think of how your prostate can have any sensations. Any tips?
Cock Head Massage
Esteemed old friend Turnrow and another fellow forum member have both asked me to talk about sulcus (cock head cleft) massage as a Super O enhancement and facilitator” as well as the practices I apply in stimulating my sulcus during a session. Specifically Turnrow asked me to respond to his request and elaborate in a blog entry. I have known Turnrow for many years as a reader on my WordPress blog and as an esteemed member of the “brotherhood of the prostate” here. So here you go Turnrow.
If I delve into my sexual practices immediately and provide background later, I am sure you will be afflicted with a certain stiffness that will hinder your ability to read serious content and understand my thought process (LOL). So ……… I will discuss the thinking stuff first. Then once you have background, I will get into the cock hardening stuff.
When I joined the forums many years ago and started on my path to achieve the holy grail of Super O, I followed the sage advice of respected elders of this community. These respected elders were hitting them out of the ball park so speak, so I dutifully did everything they suggested. Tantamount in their advice was the rule that prostate orgasm needed to be separated from penis oriented orgasm. The basis of the advice was that if one focuses on ones stimulated cock, it would be a distraction from sensation in the prostate and anal canal. In addition the advice also was rooted in the potential danger that stimulation of one’s cock would trigger ejaculation and “let the air out of the balloon” of your Super O.
My Second Tryst
Part 2
With my eyes closed I grasped the head of my erect cock; it felt hot and smooth in my hand. Anticipation of sucking his penis had forged mine to iron hardness. I love sucking cocks and swallowing rich creamy semen. Placing my middle finger in the sulcus underneath my cock head I began to gently massage it. I did not rub hard enough to encourage ejaculation but rather just firm enough to edge myself and keep it rigid. The deep cleft that sculpts my crown was slippery from my profuse precum. Aneros practice has increased my precum flow manifold. I was pleased I was already hard for him, I wanted it to be erect, or at least firm when he saw it in person the first time. I am relatively large erect. I like showing my size to male and female partners when I am aroused; I like to flaunt my sexuality as I am an exhibitionist at heart. My fingertip began to make little circles in my cleft as I slowly swung my pelvis back and forth. I imagined I was dancing in an erotic performance for spectators; as I saidf I am a closeted exhibitionist. Looking in the mirror over the desk I opened my eyes to admire the lewd dance I was doing and the sexy image I made. I imagined that he was watching the lewd show of my sexuality. The thought of him in particular watching me made my cock ache with need. Ever since rewiring, mental imagery has played a huge role in my prostate orgasm sessions and my arousal.
Frustrated – tell me I just need to be patient
Hey, all!
I’ve been experimenting on and off with Aneros for a number of years, but have really been trying to consistently practice a couple of times per week for the past several months. I’m trying to assimilate everything that I read here and on the prostate play sub. I have an MGX classic, a Progasm Ice and recently got an NJoy wand which I was hoping was going to be a game-changer, but not so much. I use coconut oil as lube, and try to set aside 1-2 hours for sessions. After inserting, sometimes I will scroll through Reddit (often this sub), look at porn (less often past few months), listen to some binaural beats or just relax.
I try to start out with the do-nothing method, but after 30-60 minutes will start with some contractions, usually light, alternating PC with sphincter. I’ve done the free Mindgasm lessons, but don’t find them to be particularly enlightening.
I’m pretty sure that I get involuntaries, but most often occur Aless, in the shower and while driving – they feel like kind of a squirmy sensation just past the inner sphincter? They’re interesting, but not necessarily pleasurable. They feel kind of slow and rhythmic – maybe intervals of 15-20 seconds- nothing that would seem to stroke very quickly. Maybe I will occasionally get what I think is a subtle P-wave, particularly with a device inserted, but not often associated with an involuntary. More like, did I imagine myself into feeling that? In general, I seem to have a hard time getting involuntaries – if that’s what those squirmy things are – with a device inserted.
Near Continuous ALess Pleasure
I’ve been working on my re-wiring (and enjoying every step of the process) by repeating a simple meditation 5 or 10 times a day. I draw attention to each segment of the male pleasure canal that runs from the rosebud to the cockhead. I pause and focus on the rosebud, inner sphincter, chute (rectum), PC muscle, inner jockstrap (the “top” pelvic floor muscle in MindGasm-speak), the prostate, penis bulb (root, deep in the groin) and cockhead. Each pause sets up tingling and tickling sensations. Involuntaries often spin up spontaneously, and if so I sometimes give them a boost with a manual contraction. If convenient, I press a finger on the rosebud and cradle the perineum in my palm – that always gets involuntaries going strongly. Then I just ’em do their thing and go about my other activities.
I’m finding this routine produces subtle (and sometimes not-so-subtle) residual sensations of pleasure up and down the canal. At things point, I’m feeling some degree of pleasure during most of my waking hours. Sometimes I wake up with involuntaries going in synch with PC contractions linked to morning wood. Sometimes I wake with zero sensation in the anal region, but bringing attention to it activates the pleasure circuits.