I tried the ‘do nothing technique’ while listening to binaural beats from shibby. I relax as much as i can while maintaining steady breathing and focusing on the good plesureble feeling. After few minutes, my penis start to get hard and involuntry contractions happens on it own. It start to clench and squeeze the aneros inside me and it become stronger over time. I tried to focus on the throbbing of my pc muscle inside me as it make me squirming with pleasure a little bit. It lasted long enough for me to enjoy that squeezing feeling but i dont think it is good enough to be called a prostate orgasm or super o. There is some precum flowing from the tip of my penis but not so much. So, any advice experiences prostate player can gives me?
Tag: Do nothing
Question about PC muscle
So I just saw a comment on here about the website mindgasm.net. I’ve been trying to get a prostate orgasm for 13 years with no success (enjoyed the process though) and was just looking around these forums for tips when I ran into the link. Really cool web app, was very impressed with the polish and design. I decided to try the first lesson and immediately got stuck not even 5 minutes in. The instructions are to flex your PC muscle and I realized that this is likely why I am having such a hard time advancing.
I’ve never been able to know how to control this muscle voluntarily. When I’m peeing, if I try to stop the flow of pee mid stream it hurts really bad. Is this normal? Is it supposed to hurt like mad if you stop pee mid stream? I definitely don’t know how to flex the PC muscle or even know where to start with it, and maybe that’s why. Maybe TMI but I am also really bad at holding pee in when I need to hold it. Often it trickles out a bit while I’m trying to track down a bathroom… so maybe I just have a tremendously underdeveloped PC muscle? (In case it’s relevant, I’m a very fit and healthy outdoor athlete, so I’m used to understanding how to control individual muscle groups)
In the “do nothing” technique is it still required that you understand how to respond to sensations with PC muscle flexing? Am I screwed if I can’t find this muscle?
Progression? Just wanted to get some input from more experienced folk.
Hey there,
I had a really interesting session with my Aneros toy on Sunday and I wanted to post about it and see how it compares with others.
**Bit of background** I’ve been interested in this kind of prostate play for a good decade now, though it was only a couple years back that I bought an actual Aneros Helix Syn (rather than a cheaper alternative)—though I’ve been bad previously at keeping up use over time. I’ve been using it more recently having come off of antidepressants and found I can be horny again! I’ve used my toy 3 times over the past week.
**So on Sunday** I had quite a long session admitedly because I hadn’t… umm… *prepared properly*. So I had to take a break after an hour to clean properly after which I went another hour and a half. It was a pleasant, though not necessarily intense, session. I usually lay on my side but I’ve been trying to lay on my back recently (I’ve heard it makes life easier.
In general, by *doing nothing* I find it’s very pleasurable at first but it fades away within 20 minutes. I think because I’m excited when the toy goes in, and I feel my heart beat very strongly and it almost as though I feel my pulse with the toy but that excitement fades. So what I do after is use my rectal and PC muscles to nudge the toy gently. I actually worry I might be being *too* gentle with it, I can imagine a slight circular motion with the toy but the feeling is *very* slight.
how ,simple how .. :с disappointment comes
I’m practicing (try) for a long time ,many years ,but I don’t understand how to get what you want
i tried different models,tried different lubricants, water and oil,i tried different poses,i tried different techniques : breathe belly,squeeze the anus (and at the same time legs) ,I have tried retract (with a relaxed anus) ,I have tried at the same time strain or relax the penis, i tried to work out nipples (3-4 months “the effect is not bad but weak), I tried in the end to just be relaxed and insert and do nothing but the result is very small,what can you advise or suggest
(sorry for mistakes and shortcomings Gtranslate)
What to do if you’re stuck ahead of involuntary contractions?
I’m a long time MGX owner, using it off and on for years without much success. And before you say anything, my expectations couldn’t be lower right now. Anyways, according to what I’ve been reading, I think I’ve gotten to the point of expecting to experience involuntary contractions any time soon, but actually can’t. I usually do-nothing as I can easily get too carried away otherwise, but holding light, rhythmic, voluntary contractions as some suggest doesn’t seem to help, either.
This question is mainly addressed to those of you who were stuck in my same situation but managed to overcome it and finally make progress. Basically, I’m kindly asking how you made it, assuming it doesn’t have to do with drugs and stuff.
My Second Tryst Part 3
Part 3
In my first hookup with a man two years earlier we were both nervous. At that time I was not really at ease with my morphing sexuality. However, two years had passed between my first tryst and this one. During that time, I grew to be more comfortable with who I was becoming sexually. I was getting more at ease with my changing desires and my anal orgasmic response; as I relaxed into my rewired “new sexuality”, a desire for male intimacy infiltrated my psyche. The desire to kiss a male sex partner became an expression of my libido and a must do in my menu of sex acts with any man and this one that evening in particular. Kissing had always been a cornerstone in my foreplay with women and that night it would be no different.
The key that opened the door to this new world that night was that I had cast aside my shame, and given into my limbic desire. My own admission to myself was feeding my libido. Revealing it openly and unabashedly to an attractive and very desirable male sex partner was feeding his libido in equal measure; his cock was stone hard. It was profoundly arousing. The excitement and lack of shame I felt kissing a hot naked man in foreplay was flying in the face of the social taboo that had governed me in my past; that excitement was forging my cock to iron. Kissing him on the lips was a big deal; however kissing him in bed in foreplay was beyond a big deal. All of this was having a profound impact on me.
Dry prostate orgasms (help)
have already experencied handsfree wet orgasms by prostate play, but I’m looking for dry prostate ones..
After reading a lot I decided to do the basics: abstain from cum several days before a session, relax my whole body, forget about my dick, try the do nothing method + some slight pc and anal contractions.. and I had the best session so far! Very pleasurable, horny as*, and after a while I felt things getting very intense to a point where I called a “climax”, when I felt a very subtle contraction centered in the prostate, but that was all.. this repeated for 3 more times (and were getting even more intense), but I couldnt manage to feel a full on orgasm.
Here are my questions:
1- do dry orgasms usually start like this for begginers? Very subtle “peak” feelings. If so, they get stronger with time and practice?
2- do you feel strong pelvic contractions when you have a dry orgasm? Like in a regular penile wet one. I ask this because I have yet to find dry orgasm videos with regular perineum throbbing..
Thanks a lot!
First HFWO
So I’m a beginner since I just started a month ago and like most beginners, I grew frustrated. I watched the mindgasm videos (highly recommended) and could feel something and get p shivers but that was it. When inserting the helix trident it would just feel like something was in there but nothing else, kind of uncomfortable especially standing up.
I have an open mind and if you’re a beginner you might know what I’m talking about. However, it happened today completely unexpected right after waking up. I read about how you’re less likely to orgasm if you’re wanting it. It felt like being in a half awake dreamy like state is the perfect opportunity.
I also read that edibles make a huge difference so I took two THC pills and I just laid back with my feet flat getting comfortable under the covers. I started get into a meditative state where all I could feel were my arms feeling heavy. I started focusing on breathing for 15-20 minutes while doing nothing, just breathing. Once the edibles started to kick in a bit I mentally contracted my PC muscle and held it. I started to actually feel my prostate.
Frustrated – tell me I just need to be patient
Hey, all!
I’ve been experimenting on and off with Aneros for a number of years, but have really been trying to consistently practice a couple of times per week for the past several months. I’m trying to assimilate everything that I read here and on the prostate play sub. I have an MGX classic, a Progasm Ice and recently got an NJoy wand which I was hoping was going to be a game-changer, but not so much. I use coconut oil as lube, and try to set aside 1-2 hours for sessions. After inserting, sometimes I will scroll through Reddit (often this sub), look at porn (less often past few months), listen to some binaural beats or just relax.
I try to start out with the do-nothing method, but after 30-60 minutes will start with some contractions, usually light, alternating PC with sphincter. I’ve done the free Mindgasm lessons, but don’t find them to be particularly enlightening.
I’m pretty sure that I get involuntaries, but most often occur Aless, in the shower and while driving – they feel like kind of a squirmy sensation just past the inner sphincter? They’re interesting, but not necessarily pleasurable. They feel kind of slow and rhythmic – maybe intervals of 15-20 seconds- nothing that would seem to stroke very quickly. Maybe I will occasionally get what I think is a subtle P-wave, particularly with a device inserted, but not often associated with an involuntary. More like, did I imagine myself into feeling that? In general, I seem to have a hard time getting involuntaries – if that’s what those squirmy things are – with a device inserted.
Help please!
I feel like I’m really close to hitting the super-o. My problem is that I enjoy the do nothing method the best but I get bored and lose attention because I am starting to fall asleep. What do you guys do to stay awake? Do you fantasize? Music? Tv? Thanks in advance 🙂