Tag: Involuntaries

Lots of pleasure initially but it fades quickly. Advice?

Been using my helix syn very irregularly for about 6 months. I live with other people and usually like to make a big thing out of it when I do use it so that makes it difficult.

Normally it’ll feel amazing when I first insert it after prepping and lubing everything up. I’ll get hard instantly, produce precum, and have involuntary contractions.

Then like most guides say I try and relax. Still usually feels good at this point. Do this for about 10-15 minutes.

Here is when everything starts to fade. It’s been inside me for around 20-30 minutes and no matter what approach I try (porn + contraction or no porn/do nothing) I lose most feelings of arousal. Sometimes I’ll still produce precum but I can’t say I feel any pleasure. What should I try/do?

“Semen Retention: Almost In Uncharted Waters”

It’s a new Day 8 of SR and so far I am surviving. But I know the next few days will be critical. I have been avoiding sex (my bad!) with my wife in order to push back the boundary of time between ejaculations. I know that semen retention must initially get “worse” before it gets “better”. By worse, I am not implying that it is painful or anything like that. But yes, it can be uncomfortable and you don’t really know what HORNY feels like until you have walked in my shoes!
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However, there are times when I can “play” with my package for an hour and not feel ANY arousal! That is truly amazing and I would like to think that it is a by-product of the act of semen retention. Other times, I will get an erection just “out of the blue” and don’t know what to do with it! Now, in the past, the “usual” approach (obviously) was a quick hand-job and another blown load! But SR represents a different take–a different philosophy if you will–on sexual release. Guys, It gets harder as it goes…..
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I am ‘dosing’ on some binaurals for wet-dream induction but have not had any results as of yet. I”m not sure how much longer it will take but I sure would WELCOME the relief that will come with it. Overcoming horniness is something every guy practicing SR will have to endure in his own way. Because if he doesn’t do it right, he’ll be right back to Day 1 and I’m sure most guys wouldn’t want that. I sure don’t. Of course, following day 70, or 100, or 200, it can be expected. But not after day 10 or so.
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Trying to keep the horniness in balance is never easy, particularly if you expect to live your life normally (whatever that means). Going forward with SR, I have noticed a new ease in dealing with people, especially women. Women (and men for that matter) seem attracted to me in a greater way than before. I don’t think it is my imagination. Then, when confronted with a beautiful woman with a great figure on top of that—OMG!—that will seem to trigger a horny “attack” right away! It is pleasurable but it is also a pathway up “Horny Hill” and (hopefully) down again!
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[Caution–sexually-graphic content here] One interesting thing as I get into SR more seriously: I notice women’s (and men’s) bodies more, and in a sexual way. I am obviously looking at a woman’s boobs and especially their crotches and fantasizing what it looks like beneath their panties. Yes, their vaginal opening and the hair around it. And yes, how a man’s ‘arsenal’ fills-out his jeans. I know this may sound a little weird but that it the way I feel now. Hard to say this, but even in the men’s locker room after swimming, I find myself “looking” at the guys packages more! Now I normally would not do this at all but perhaps this is a fringe benefit of semen retention! Read more »

Super-T attempt late Saturday night, 8/6/16

Hi guys,

I tried to achieve Super-T tonight. Getting lots of sweet, delicious feelings first with Aneros Syn and then Progasm Jr. More later.

Here is the text from Aneros Wiki on the Super-T: (This I should try to put into effect and aspire to)

“Super-T
“This approach is predicated upon an individual already having been rewired and having had a Super-O just previous to this attempt. It is for this reason that it is classified as more of an advanced user’s technique. This method involves an exquisitely intense, traditional penile ejaculation mediated by the Aneros, hence the name Super-T. Make the Aneros a more active participant in the orgasm as opposed to letting it passively massage your prostate as the involuntary contractions of the ejaculation hit you. Stroke your my penis until you just start to feel the very beginnings of the orgasm building. At this point take your hands off, and start executing some moderate to large anal contractions, the idea being to have the Aneros by itself, propagate the ejaculation. Within 10-15 seconds you may find that the ejaculatory sensations will ebb somewhat so then switch back to the hands on approach to build it back up. What you will find is that it builds back up very quickly, and does so to a higher level than where you’d started (the Aneros had added something). Working back and forth, on again and off again, in short order you’ll find that less and less of the stroking is necessary to keep everything going. Finally, just barely touching your penis, but using the Aneros to greater and greater effect such that the Aneros now mediates a tremendous penile orgasm. It is like a tango between your hand and the Aneros; each one taking turns enticing and coaxing an ejaculation from your penis. You can actually feel your prostate swelling inside of you. The effect of this is as if one was inhaling in deeper and deeper to accommodate an enormous sneeze. Finally when you feel climax is imminent, let the Aneros have the last word with several strong contractions. This should lead to a powerful and intense traditional orgasm, a Super-T.”

Frustrating lack of involuntaries

When my partner first started using his MGX, he inserted it, thought about something really sexy, and the device basically started doing its thing. Many different muscle groups started to contract in a rhythmic motion, and to this day, all he has to do is think about something sexy, and they will start without anything inserted.

I’ve been using several models for about a year, and the only involuntaries I get are within my sphincter (in a subtle swooshing, circular pattern), which slow down once my body gets used to the foreign object within. What happens next is that my PC muscle will contract in a manner that’s not abrupt, but slowly. Through time, the PC muscle contraction has been increasing slightly in intensity, but I’ve only experienced a p-wave maybe twice, and a build-up once.

I wish there was an x-ray or something whereas I could see if these devices are hitting my prostate properly. It’s getting frustrating, which is counter-productive, so I’m trying to curb that.

I just wish there was a way I could get my insides to involuntarily contract in a manner that would spawn something else. I hope this doesn’t take 30 years to accomplish. *sigh*

ANY advice would be appreciated in getting these involuntary contractions to start.

Novice user, wow. Need some more tips

Hi, bit of background, I’m a straight male but have always had an interest in the male g spot. Have experimented in the past and realised it wasn’t for me. Tried again about a year or so ago, bought a cheap aneros type toy and had no luck. Came across a video of a guy having a super o and figured I’d try again.

Bought the mgx classic and it arrived today, tried earlier on not long after it arrived, guess i was too impatient and gave up. Couldn’t sleep so on a whim thought I’d try again while I’m relaxed and in bed. Listened to a binaural video and followed the rhythm. I definitely started feeling something after about 10 minutes or so. Always thought it was a load of rubbish, but I was being proven wrong. It felt great, I was going along with the video, lying on my front, i could feel my ass shake and I had no control every time I pulled in. My breath got a bit louder and slower.

Continued on my back and it felt great, but I was flaccid the whole time with a bit of precum seeping out. While I was contacting in it felt great and my hip and upper thighs were properly shaking but there was nothing else. No rock solid erection, no involuntary contractions or anything. Read more »

Involuntaries only happy to certain people?

I just spoke with someone at Aneros who said that not all people get the involuntary contractions, which I thought were imperative to achieving a MMO state. Have some of you had a prostate orgasm using the Aneros, but never have had involuntary contractions?

Also, I keep hearing people say you’re supposed to voluntarily contract your sphincter muscles, and others say you’re suppose to contract your PC muscles (to get things going in there). Which is it? Some people refer to the “do nothing” method, which is nice for a little bit, but then things just sort of die down. I’ve been going at this regularly for a year now and am fighting with impatience.

Any advice is greatly appreciated.

Holy Shit, the world just changed for me! What a ride!

Okay, 50 yo M here. Mostly, I just have to write this experience out. As much for me as to share with others.

Read about prostate orgasms, toys to achieve it, etc. Thought I’d try. My married sex life has become routine. Dull. Love my wife but sex for both of us simply isn’t that much of a priority anymore. For me this was/is as much about experiencing it as enjoying it. I want a frame of reference sort of thing (welcome to my psyche!).

Got an Aneros Helix, finally. Wife was gone for a few days to a wedding so I decided to have some fun with myself.

I will say that I’m not unfamiliar with physical feelings of pleasure, or analyzing what is going on with myself. I’ve done hallucinogens far more times than I can count in my youth, been so incredibly high with pulsing body stones, or mental confusion, etc. I know how to mentally center in the midst of it and evaluate, etc. So, being such a ‘heady’ guy I think I might overthink this thing and miss the mark. I have always been a *very* heterosexual man. I have gay friends but the though of a dick, or man’s ass just does SFA for me sexually. I may as well be thinking of a pair of pliers, or how I should cut the grass for all the sexual arousal gay sex gives me. Zip! Read more »

Helix Syn: help with sweet spot, contractions, and lube

I’ve had the Helix Syn for 5 months and have about 15 sessions. I’ve had some success with milestones such as pleasure through contracting, feeling the prostate, sometimes on the sweet spot, occasional involuntary muscle contraction, overall enjoyment, jerking, pleasure by blood pulses internally, and moaning during the sessions.

I’m feeling blocked, although i’ve spent a dozen hours reading wiki and forum posts for ideas. I seem to be the most successful while standing or sitting / over slouched on the couch with my butt hanging from the edge. Challenges:

1. I’m unsure where my Sweet Spot is. I’ve tried the tests in the Wiki, but I can’t seem to nail down. Sometimes during a session I reposition the p-Tab and know it’s the right place, because I immediately begin involuntary muscle contraction, but soon quit if the p-TAB moves. I try to secure it with my fingers, but it moves and I lose track of the right position and have trouble to find it again.

2. I often get the most pleasure from the combination of moderate to severe rectal contractions with anal and clower pelvic/kegel contractions. But pleasure seems mostly to come from when the Aneros comes out and the p-tab is an inch or two from my perinium. As if my body wants to push it in and out, but if I’m not careful it ejects and I have to keep a hand there to keep from coming out. Does this mean that my prostate is more shallow than the Helix Syn and I should try another model? Read more »

Lelo Loki wave followup, as requested.

So I got the wave after the previous post, mostly because of the coupon in the thread, and some of the stuff I read about it.

I’ll start by saying I’m a tall (6’5″) person who owns a Helix and Progasm, and has no comfort issues with the latter. Owned them since November of last year.
I have never had a super O, and only gotten the serious full body P waves once with the helix, but get a lot of pleasure, tingles,and leakage out of both models, so your mileage may vary here.

The thing is pretty fuckin awesome, to get to the point. Made as much time as possible to be able to get familiar with it in the short time I’ve had it. I’m still feeling out differences, and while I like the wave motion, it hasn’t triggered some new cascade effect or anything. The vibes on the other hand are a whole new thing for me. The first couple of times I started low and then probably got ahead of myself and went to blast mode, which felt super good, but was definitely not anything that was going to move me towards a super O (as far as I can tell, anyway). Side note, the regular O and aftershocks from finishing yourself off while the “Boom” pattern as I call it is going is pretty crazy. The pattern is a REALLY deep vibe hit that tapers off to nothing fairly quickly, and then a second or 2 later another boom. Read more »

Chapter 8

So after a few weeks of chat in which we goaded each other’s arousal by volleying lurid chat back and forth between us. By the end of five weeks parrying each other’s libidos to desperate passion we decided that a meet up was definitely in the cards. We set up the planned meeting to be in NYC where he lived. I needed to be in the city for work so I would have a hotel room for our tryst. I got the room mid town Manhattan where we could be anonymous in the crowd.

When the day finally came I was aroused beyond words at the prospect of getting together and experiencing the things we had had chatted about. After what seemed like an interminably long drive of 2 hours I arrived at the hotel and checked in; it was 7 PM. I was two hours early. Two hours seemed like forever to wait, but I had no choice so I did. After showering I settled in to watch TV while I waited. Read more »