Tag: Relaxation

“Would I Recognize A Prostate Orgasm If I Tripped Over It?”

I kind-of backed-into this session quite by accident. Here are the details as I remember them……

I was up not too early and since it was a beautiful night (very cool for July) I decided to catch a few winks on my favorite couch. [I just had a BM so I decided to lay-down, just relax and perhaps do a few contractions.] I began to do the slightest ‘whisper’ contractions and ‘thought’ contractions as I have done in the past. This felt really good; I kept it up for a while, realizing that I am again heading to an Aless ‘nirvana-like’ state once again. After a while, however, I began to feel a strange sensation like a prostate-horniness and an overpowering ‘fantasy-sequence’ that I am preparing myself for penetration by my male lover. I don’t know where this came from but it felt so real. So I ‘positioned’ myself on the couch for the rendezvous and waited. As I re-positioned myself on my right side, I suddenly felt an overpowering prostate quivering like I remember all-too-well from my Aneros sessions. It was a prostate orgasm! Perhaps a Dry-O (or two!) OMG! My entire body spasmed as it sometimes did during a Super-O! I can’t stop these orgasms now and I am completely blown away! I can only stay in position (I felt paralyzed with pleasure) and let these feelings wash-over me. How long did this last? Not really sure, but I think it was at least an hour. Read more »

“Follow The Kegel-Brick Road!”

An interesting ride! Here is how it went down…….

I am continuing my ‘experiment’ with semen retention. Last night, following a 5-day stint, I had to reset the clock once again. An unexpected arousal and erection led to a 25- minute handjob from my wife that resulted in marathon moans and an explosive ejaculation! It took me about 5 minutes to recover from it. Needless to say, I was very relaxed and slept well.
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This AM, I awakened fairly early and decided to dose on a 30-minute binaural for hands-free male/female orgasm. Upon completion, I just decided to continue to relax and perhaps do a few contractions until it was time to get up. What happened next blew me away! For some strange reason, I decided to ‘experiment’ with the kegels. So, I started to do the following ‘sets’ of contractions:

(1) long hold for perhaps 3-4 minutes; (2) very rapid contractions for another 2-3 minutes; (3) no contraction at all for another 1-2 minutes (relaxation with auto-kegels).

I continued this for several ‘sets’. I began to feel what I thought was some prostate buzzing but it felt different this time. OMG! I think I am experiencing an anal orgasm and/or a rectal orgasm! I need to re-position myself on the couch. I am now rolled-over on my side or face-down and these orgasms are continuing! I need to put my fingers near/on my perineum and anus and I can feel the strong sensations down-there. This went on for probably 15-20 minutes or so. I am shaking, quivering and slightly moaning…… Read more »

Holy Shit, the world just changed for me! What a ride!

Okay, 50 yo M here. Mostly, I just have to write this experience out. As much for me as to share with others.

Read about prostate orgasms, toys to achieve it, etc. Thought I’d try. My married sex life has become routine. Dull. Love my wife but sex for both of us simply isn’t that much of a priority anymore. For me this was/is as much about experiencing it as enjoying it. I want a frame of reference sort of thing (welcome to my psyche!).

Got an Aneros Helix, finally. Wife was gone for a few days to a wedding so I decided to have some fun with myself.

I will say that I’m not unfamiliar with physical feelings of pleasure, or analyzing what is going on with myself. I’ve done hallucinogens far more times than I can count in my youth, been so incredibly high with pulsing body stones, or mental confusion, etc. I know how to mentally center in the midst of it and evaluate, etc. So, being such a ‘heady’ guy I think I might overthink this thing and miss the mark. I have always been a *very* heterosexual man. I have gay friends but the though of a dick, or man’s ass just does SFA for me sexually. I may as well be thinking of a pair of pliers, or how I should cut the grass for all the sexual arousal gay sex gives me. Zip! Read more »

Wednesday 6/29/16 session, there is always Aless sweetness no matter what the session!

Hi guys,

I woke up this morning in the 4 o’clock hour as I do usually. Often I’ll listen to the news on the BBC and NPR Morning Edition for couple hours. Most mornings though I rise around six to get ready for my daily routine. But this morning, I woke up feeling horny and randy. So around 5, I prepped for a session using in order models Helix Syn, Progasm Jr, Tempo, and Maximus as I did on Monday.

There is hardly a morning when I have session that my body is not psyched for a session. My randiness and horniness this morning made me receptive for my models. The “do-nothing technique” is now second nature for me. Relaxation through calm breathing, with perhaps an occasional Kegel or two, activates the motion of my models. It is so wonderful that I am rediscovering Helix Syn and Progasm Jr in new, exciting ways. Helix Syn works well with subtlety, especially for experienced Aneros users, which is so gratifying for me. Progasm Jr truly “locks” itself in place delivering direct stimulation to my perineum, anal canal, and prostate. It is not so heavy duty as its older, bigger brothers of the Progasm line. Actually I could wear it around the apartment if I wished for possibly fifteen or thirty minutes or even an hour! Read more »

“Sweet Aless Session Takes Me To Nirvana”

I was up early this AM and decided to retire to my favorite couch for a while. Usually, I put on headphones and dose on some stimulating binaural beats or erotic hypnosis. However, this morning, I just decided to forgo the headphones and relax with an Aless session. I wanted to see how far I could ride.

I am always amazed at the feelings my body can generate Aless. Yes, it has been several weeks since my last “official” Aneros session and I do miss them. But the feelings I began to get while doing some light contractions (and reverse contractions) just seemed to put me into a blissful (Nirvana–like) state. OMG! The feelings continued to build, gradually, until I felt a ‘shudder’ all throughout my body. All the while, I felt a ‘quivering’ in my prostate that felt so good…..

I continued this session for about an hour. I probably dozed-off somewhere in between. When I awoke again, I am reminded of the blissful sensations I just experienced, knowing that I can return to this place anytime I want! I’m delighted to be a man! Read more »

First encounter with the Progasm Ice

Well, last night I had my first encounter with my new Progasm Ice and and here are a few details.

First, I lubed up, lubed the monster and slowly started inserting it. My anus, being used to the gentle curvature of the Helyx Syn started questioning my sanity as I was gently pushing it in further. Not a comfortable feeling at all. Eventually, it slid all the way in and now my rectum was screaming “who parked a nuclear sub in here?”. At that point, I was tempted to pull it out and cancel this session altogether but I persisted. It took a few minutes to get somewhat used to this new toy and as I settled down and relaxed, the feeling got better. There is no doubt the differences between the HS and the PI are very noticeable.

At first, I was laying on my back to get the feel of it and things immediately started to get agitated. I got p-waves in my lower abdomen and penis. I could really feel the added pressure on my prostate and this is what I was seeking. Soon after, my session was interrupted and had to run upstairs. I did so with the ‘sub’ still inside; (I was even able to pee with it parked inside). When I resumed, I tried laying on my side. Read more »

Chapter 8

So after a few weeks of chat in which we goaded each other’s arousal by volleying lurid chat back and forth between us. By the end of five weeks parrying each other’s libidos to desperate passion we decided that a meet up was definitely in the cards. We set up the planned meeting to be in NYC where he lived. I needed to be in the city for work so I would have a hotel room for our tryst. I got the room mid town Manhattan where we could be anonymous in the crowd.

When the day finally came I was aroused beyond words at the prospect of getting together and experiencing the things we had had chatted about. After what seemed like an interminably long drive of 2 hours I arrived at the hotel and checked in; it was 7 PM. I was two hours early. Two hours seemed like forever to wait, but I had no choice so I did. After showering I settled in to watch TV while I waited. Read more »

“Helix, How High Can I Go?”

I was already greatly-aroused. Following a “tantric” cuddling session with my wife, I retired with a nice hard erection. I was awakened in the very early AM still aroused and checked-out some erotic music, sexual arousal hypnosis and binaural beats for about two hours. Guys, I was feeling it and was in desperate need of a session!

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I quickly lubed-up the Helix (this is the one my body wanted) and took my time inserting it. I got it in only half-way and let my body take over the rest of the way. It took about 2 minutes overall (very nice!) I got onto my right side position and began very light contractions. Surprisingly, I did not have any auto-contractions this ride. However, I began to feel an almost immediate pleasure, almost like a “quiet ache” that seemed to intensify quickly. I began to practice a “new” technique for me which I don’t remember doing before: I did a fairly slow, strong contraction and HELD IT for an extended period (perhaps a minute or so) and slowly relaxed. As I did this, I began to experience some toe-curling feelings from my prostate. What happened next blew me away……. Read more »

Chapter 7

It was difficult to leave the retreat campus that morning. The preceding days had been an eye opening – cock hardening cavalcade of sex acts and experiences that left me craving more. Moreover it was a demonstration of the mystery of the gender basis of my arousal. It clearly showed that my response to sexual ovation by men and by women is equal but can change from one to the other in hours. There are days when images of erections will inspire my own cock to turn to steel and ooze. The fantasies that drive my MMO’s at those times might be of oral sex on a guy’s cock or spooning a sexy guy’s ass in bed. Sinking into a fantasy of homoerotic sex will launch the chains of gripping pleasure that I crave.

Yet there are other times when it is the feminine mystique that entices me. At those times mental images of my lady’s downy vulva stirs a desire in me that not only makes my cock go rigid and ache with lust but also makes my prostate spasm with pleasure. The last several years my wife has been able to cast a spell over me whenever she wants, her feminine karma can wash away any homoerotic thoughts of cocks from my mind. I honestly believe in karma. Whether it is our time together or it is that we are so attuned to each other, I pick up on her most intimate mental inclinations without even thinking about it. she is a woman whose karma is very powerful, at least to me it is. I hope it isn’t to other men, although in fantasy the idea intrigues me. Read more »

On the shelf – with nocternal relief

Last night while my wife was out late I decided to have a session. I was looking for a pretty quick fix, so I slid in my trusty blue progasm. Since its just plastic, no silicone, I used some silicone lube and it slid in nicely. I sat in the recliner for a while reading, but put my book aside as I was having too many delicious fantasies. I started my orgasmic climb, much like a fighter-interceptor jet seeking out an enemy bomber, but I reached a certain altitude, a certain plateau, my orgasmic ceiling, and couldn’t go higher – suspended in a delicious but frustrating zone. I needed to go to sleep, so I somewhat reluctantly removed my aneros. I came down rather rapidly and got ready for bed.

Around 4 am or so, I awoke, aware of a wetness in my pjs and aware that I had an erotic dream. I had just experienced a nocturnal emission. The dream was a nice one – in the dream my wife had finally agreed to try pegging and she had got really into it.

Yet another example of how prostate orgasms cannot be forced, and relaxation, rather than pressure or an anxiety to reach a goal, is key.